Ngingakwazi yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni wami? Iseluleko sommeli

Ngesikhathi sokubhaliswa komshado, bonke abasanda kushada bayajabula futhi bathandana, kodwa emva kwesikhathi esithile umkhumbi wobudlelwane bomndeni ungase ufike, futhi ukuze bangahlukunyezwa, lo mbhangqwana unquma ukuhlukanisa. Kodwa-ke, impilo ayinakulinganiswa, futhi uma owesifazane esenqume kakade ukuhlukanisa, ngokuvamile kuvame ukuthi umyeni wakhe uphambene nesahlukaniso. Ngingakwazi yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni wami?

Umthetho uthini?

Uma uphendukela kwi-Family Code ye-Russian Federation futhi ufunde i-athikili 21, kuyacaca ukuthi isehlukaniso ngaphandle kokuvunyelwa komunye wabashadile kungenzeka kuphela enkantolo. Isigaba 21 soMthetho Wezobugebengu weRussia Federation sisho nokuthi umfazi angase afake isicelo senkantolo futhi uma oshade naye engaboni ngokumelene nesahlukaniso, kodwa akafuni ukufaka isicelo ngehhovisi lokubhalisa.

Okungafani nomthetho ...

Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi emthethweni waseRussia, inqubo yesehlukaniso ngaphandle kwemvume yabashadile ingenzeka kuphela enkantolo. Kodwa-ke, kukhona okungafani nanoma yikuphi umthetho, ngakho-ke, ngisho noMthethosisekelo weRussia Federation, amacala akhethekile okuhlukanisa anikeziwe. Ngingakwazi yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni wami? Ezimweni ezikhethekile, umthetho uhlinzeka ngesahlukaniso ngaphandle kwemvume ngokuvumelana nehhovisi lokubhalisa.

Ngaphansi kwaziphi izimo umlingani angathola isehlukaniso ehhovisi lokubhalisa?

• Uma kwenzeka umuntu etholakele enecala lokwenza ubugebengu futhi ukhonza isigwebo enkampanini yesigwebo (isikhathi esigcwele sokuboshwa kumele sibe iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-3). Kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi isigwebo somlingani asisona isizathu esizwakalayo sokuhlukanisa ehhovisi lokubhalisa, futhi isahlukaniso ngaphansi kwesimiso somthetho senziwa enkantolo.
• Ukwamukelwa komlingani njengesizakhamuzi esingafaneleki kungasiza owesifazane ukuhlukanisa ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Ukuze umuntu oshade naye akwazi ukufaka isicelo ehhovisi lokubhalisa, kumele abe nesinqumo senkantolo esesandleni sakhe sokuqaphela ukuthi indoda ayikwazi kahle.
• Umfazi uzokwazi ukufaka isicelo sokuhlukanisa ehhovisi lokubhalisa uma kwenzeka umyeni wakhe ehlonishwa ngokomthetho njengengekho.

Yini engiyidingayo uma ngithinta ihhovisi lokubhalisa?

Kungenzeka yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni uma ufaka isicelo ehhovisi lokubhalisa? Uma isimo sowesifazane siwela ngaphansi kwesinye sezizathu ezingenhla, angakwazi ukuqoqa ngokucophelela imibhalo yokuqeda umndeni ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Okokuqala, umfazi kufanele axhumane nehhovisi lokubhalisa endaweni yokuhlala komunye umbhangqwana oshadile noma endaweni yomshado. Ukuze isahlukaniso senzeke, owesifazane kufanele agcwalise wonke amabhokisi esicelo esitholakalayo eziphathimandla zokubhalisa.

Isicelo sithi:

• Imininingwane mayelana bobabili bomshado. Ngenxa yesehlukaniso kubalulekile ukukhombisa igama. Abahlanganyeli ezinkambisweni zesehlukaniso, usuku nosendaweni yokuzalwa kwabashade, ubuzwe babo, indawo yokuhlala. Kumele uqaphele ukuthi uma kwenzeka ukuthi indawo yokuhlala yamanje yendoda ingaziwa, oshade naye kumele akhombise ikheli lokugcina azi ukuthi. Ngaphandle kwalolu lwazi, ngokuthanda, owesifazane angabonisa ulwazi mayelana nemfundo, ubuzwe noma inani labantwana abangaphansi.
• Ngaphandle kwesicelo, owesifazane kumele anikele isizathu esiqinile sokuqeda umshado ngaphandle kwemvume yomlingani , idatha yesenzo sokubhalisa umshado, futhi futhi unamathisele isinqumo senkantolo ngokuqaphela ukuthi indoda ayinakho ikhono, ingekho noma ingenacala. Uma kwenzeka umlingani engakwazi, umkami kufanele futhi anikeze ulwazi lomnakekeli kumnakekeli, kanti uma ehlala ezindaweni zokunqotshwa kwenkululeko kuyadingeka ukukhombisa ikheli elifanele leziko lokulungisa izigwegwe.
• Ngaphezu kwalokho, owesifazane kufanele anqume kusengaphambili ukuthi igama lakhe liyoba yini ngemva kwehlukaniso , futhi anikeze ipasipoti yakhe kanye nesheke ekukhokhweni komsebenzi wombuso.

Ngemva kokunikeza wonke amadokhumenti futhi ngokugcwalisa ngokugcwele wonke amagrafu wesicelo, abasebenzi abagunyaziwe behhovisi lokubhalisa banikezwa izinsuku ezingu-30 zokuhlukanisa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo inyanga eyodwa nenyanga yenqubo esemthethweni yokuqeda umshado ehhovisi lokubhalisa kumele ivele ibe ngumuntu ngamunye. Lapho nje ihhovisi lokubhalisa likhetha ukuhlukanisa, umfazi kufanele athole isitifiketi sokuhlukanisa. Ikhophi ecacile yowesifazane kufanele ithumele ngeposi kumuntu oshade naye endaweni yakhe yokugcina yokubhalisa.

Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi impendulo enhle kumbuzo othi "Ngingakwazi yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni wami ehhovisi lokubhalisa?" Owesifazane angathola kuphela uma yena nomyeni wakhe bengenakho ukungavumelani mayelana nokuhlala nokufundiswa kwezingane ezivamile, kanye nempahla nezinye izingxabano.

Ukuhlukaniswa enkantolo

Embuzweni othi "Kungenzeka yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yendoda uma kungekhozingane?", Umthetho waseRussia uphendula kahle, kodwa ukuqala izinqubo zesehlukaniso, umfazi kumele afake isicelo ehhovisi lekhotho bese enza isitatimende sokumangalelwa.

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ijubane lenqubo yesehlukaniso lixhomeke ekuqinisweni kokuhlelwa kwesicelo, kanye nesinqumo esihle enkulumweni yenkantolo. Endabeni, umlingani kumele akhombise isizathu sokuqedwa komshado, izizathu ezingokomthetho zokuqedwa kwazo, kanye nokuxazulula izingxabano zomhlaba nezindlu.

Ngaphezu kwesitatimende sokumangalelwa, ummangalelwa kufanele anikeze imibhalo elandelayo:

• Isitifiketi sokuqala somshado.
• Hlola ekukhokhweni kwemali kahulumeni.
• Ummeli wommangalelwa, uma nje ummeli eyobe emela izithakazelo zakhe enkantolo.

Kumele uqaphele ukuthi uhlu lwamadokhumenti luyimpoqo, kodwa kwezinye izimo lapho ukufaka isimangalo kummangalelwa kungadinga amanye amadokhumende. Isimangalo kufanele sithunyelwe enkantolo yomhlaba lapho kuhlala khona umsolwa. Ijaji lingakwazi futhi ukuxazulula izingxabano phezu kwempahla ehlanganisiwe , uma inani lempahla lingadluli ama-ruble angu-100,000.

Umphumela ongenakwenzeka wezomthetho

Ngemva kokucubungula isitatimende sokumangalelwa, ijaji lingathatha izinqumo ezintathu:

• Nelisa isimangalo futhi uhlukanise lo mbhangqwana.
• Ukucubungula emva kwezinyanga ezingu-3 nokuvumela abashade ukuba baxolelane.
• Yeka ummangalelwa ukwaneliseka kwesimangalo.

Kumele uqaphele ukuthi uma indoda nowesifazane behlangana ngesikhathi sabo, ukuchithwa komshado akukwenzeka. Uma emva kwezinyanga ezintathu umlingani eqhubeka ephikelela ekuhlukaniseni, umshado usuphelile.

Ukuqhubeka kwe-epic

Ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, ummangalelwa uzonikezwa ikhophi yesinqumo senkantolo sokuqeda umshado. Kodwa-ke, le dokhumenti iqala ukusebenza izinsuku ezingu-30 kuphela emva kokuhlanganiswa kwayo. Ngisho noma kunjalo umshado phakathi kwalabo abashadile awubhekwa njengokuqedwa, ngoba ngenxa yokuqedwa komthetho, ummangali kufanele afake isicelo ehhovisi lokubhalisa futhi enze izinguquko ebhukwini lombuso.

Ungayifaka kanjani isehlukaniso, ukhulelwe noma unezingane ezincane?

Ngamabhangqwana eshadile angenamntwana, konke okucacile noma okucacile, kodwa kuthiwani ngabafazi abakhulelwe noma labo abashadile abanezingane ezincane?

Ngingahlukanisa yini owesifazane okhulelwe ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni wami?

Emthethweni waseRussia akekho izwi ukuthi umfazi okhulelwe kudingeka ukuba imvume yomlingani ihlukanise. Uma owesifazane esesimweni, futhi umyeni wakhe uphambene nesahlukaniso, khona-ke ukuhlakazeka kobudlelwane bomshado ngomthetho kwenzeka ngezizathu ezijwayelekile. Ngaphandle kombuzo oyinhloko - kungenzeka yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yendoda ngenkathi ekhulelwe - umfazi kufanele asanqume ngokubuyiswa kwe-alimony kumyeni wakhe wangaphambili. Umkami okhulelwe kumele abe ne-alimony hhayi kuphela ukugcinwa kwengane yesikhathi esizayo, kodwa futhi nokugcinwa kwayo.

Kungenzeka yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni, uma kukhona ingane? Ukuhluka okuncane kunesimo semibhangqwana eshadile enezingane ezincane, ngoba iningi lejaji lizama ukugcina umndeni, ngakho-ke, ngaphandle kwezinyanga ezintathu zokubuyisana akuphelele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abashadile kudingeka baxazulule zonke izindaba ezihlobene nokuphila, okuqukethwe nokufundiswa kwezingane ezivamile.

Ngingakwazi yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni wami eBelarus?

Ikhodi yomndeni yaseRephabhulikhi yaseBelarus ichaza ngokucacile ukuthi isehlukaniso sinokwenzeka kuphela enkantolo, futhi isehlukaniso singenziwa noma ngokujwayelekile noma ngendlela ekhethekile. Ngaphansi komyalelo okhethekile wokuqedwa komshado kuyaqondakala ukuthi inkantolo ayiniki isikhathi sokuxoxisana nokuhlukanisa ngokushesha.

Imiphumela

Phakathi nomkhosi womshado, kubonakala sengathi labo abasanda kushada ukuthi umshado wabo uzohlala phakade, kodwa akekho owaziyo ukuthi ukuphila komkhaya kuzophumelela kanjani ngempela. Ngokuvamile owesifazane ukhathele ukuxabana komndeni nezinkinga, ukukhashelwa komyeni wakhe, ukungaqondi noma ukushaya futhi anqume ukuhlukanisa.

Kodwa-ke, akuwona wonke umuntu oshade naye ovuma ukuhlukanisa ngokuthula futhi athuthukile, ngakho owesifazane ubhekene nombuzo: ungahlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni? Abesifazane akufanele besabe isikhathi esithile futhi baphelelwa yithemba, ngoba nakuba imishado yenziwa ezulwini, isatshalaliswa phansi. Njengoba kungabonakala kusukela ngenhla, impendulo yombuzo othi "Kungenzeka yini ukuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni?" Kusobala. Noma yimuphi owesifazane uzokwazi ukuqeda umshado ngaphandle kwemvume yomlingani, kodwa kuzomele afake isicelo ku-ofisi yokubhalisa noma enkantolo.