Ukukhomba - is a indlela isivikelo umqali yasekhaya

Anna Freud, sihlola izindawo okwakubulawelwa kuzo drive nolaka, wafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi libido nolaka ungomunye futhi emthonjeni ofanayo - umuntu aquleke, kanye nokuthuthukisa kanye imithetho efanayo. Komqondo nezinga lokukhula kwengane inkanuko nolaka - kuyafana ukuthuthukiswa inkanuko libidinal, futhi ube efanayo izindlela zokuzivikela, njengoba Zihlobene kakhulu. Kodwa idrayivu nolaka anezinye eliyingqayizivele izindlela zokuzivikela: ithimba futhi kutisondzeta wodweshu.

On isibonelo ukusebenza nezingane Anna Freud libona ongakhetha eziningana ukuze kwakhiwe ukuzivikela kwengqondo - ukuhlonza ne umqali:

1) ingane ungazwelana ukuziphatha nolaka endodeni egade ayisaba. Kulokhu, ukuhlonza - lifanisa ke komunye umuntu ngokusebenzisa isimo sobuso bakhe, izenzo, imizwa isithombe. Ngokwesibonelo, ingane, ngokusho isakhiwo othisha 'ubhekene "phakathi izifundo, kuphela okuphindaphindiwe inkulumo yakhe ebusweni ukuthi ngokuphawulekayo oluhlehlela kuthabathela ecaleni.

2) Ukuze unqobe ukwesaba izingane ingakwazi beveza izindlela zokuvikela ngokumelene nalo, ukuphinda isenzo luyakhohlisa kungenzeka umphehli wodweshu. Intombazane wamesaba izipoki, okuyinto yena bakholwa lwalunhliziyonye umhubhe amnyama, ukuze unqobe lo isikhala wamthatha okuningi wendiza izandla zakhe njengoba kungase kudingeke wenze ithongo. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ukuhlonza - ukushintsha indima lapho ingane ingena isikhundla into okwesabisayo luba wodweshu.

3) Ngokuvamile izingane bachazwa ngento zangaphandle, futhi amandla ubudlova bakhe. Ebhekene uthisha isibhakela ejimini, umfundi beza esikoleni ngosuku olulandelayo nge izinhlobo ezahlukene izikhali, ukuthi Uzame ujoyine amandla akhe, amandla, abesilisa ababhekwa ngayo. Eqinisweni, uthisha akazange abonise ubudlova, akazange afune ukuba ajezise ingane, ingane yabonakaliswa hhayi ubudlova kangaka, zingaki izindlela ukuvikela zonke izenzo kungenzeka nolaka amadoda anamandla. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ukuhlonza - ibonakalisa superego abasafufusa wengane, lapho umfundi alibonisi ubudlova uthola indlela ukuvimbela ngendlela esizayo Ukuvikelwa. Ngaphezu yokufuna izikhali ingane enjalo usungaqala sihlanganyele emidlalweni, okwandisa amandla abo kwemisipha.

4) imidlalo asebenzayo, izingane kuvame ukuveza laba bahlaseli, beqeqesha Luhambo yayo, nakuba kubo hhayi ukuba enze noma isiphi isenzo sonya kusuka abadala noma ontanga. Esimeni nolaka umdlalo ukuhlonza - uhlobo ukuqeqesha drive nolaka lapho umqali yangaphakathi kungathatha ngesimo neqhawe, isilo, noma isinqamuli.

Ubunikazi ne umqali - kuyinqubo ejwayelekile ukulawulwa Luhambo salo, esiwulwazi bangaqeqeshwa ngosizo zenganekwane, imidlalo, ezemidlalo. I asocial imvelo izingane zisebenzisa izimpi zabo zibonakale zinezinhloso ukuhlonza neqembu nezinye bahlaseli ukuba iqembu ingxenye "yabo" yamandla jikelele nolaka. Ubunikazi emkhayeni kwenzeka ingane nabanye abalulekile, waba nezimfanelo zabo enhloko balingisi, okungukuthi, ukuhlonza umuntu - yinqubo ekukhuleni kwengane, wenhlanganyelo nabanye abantu, kungakhathaliseki nalokho okwenzeka Luhambo ukuhlonza: nolaka noma libidinal.

Amandla ngemoto nolaka kwandisa uma nje asivunyelwe ingane ize akakwazi ukuphatha ke, engazazi amandla akhe. kumuntu osonile okunodlame bangaba ngiseyingane, okuyinto nhlobo ukukhombisa ubudlova kulowo owabonisa isililo futhi njalo. ukuhlonza Forensic, okusho definition iminwe lobugebengu, izwi noma ezinye izici aggregate, kuphela uyama, kodwa akusho ukuxazulula inkinga yobudlova yayo. Psycho-Pedagogical umsebenzi nge umqali yangaphakathi ohlale "bemagange" ukuba baveze imizwa yabo, kumele kwenziwe kusukela zisencane, ukuqeqeshwa drive, ukulawula ke nokuphatha ke.