Inkinga enkulu ngobukhulu encane - ukwesaba zezingane

Kungani abantu wesabe? Lo mbuzo angabhekwa mphendvulo, futhi ngempela ethize. Fear - okungokwemvelo nezimo ezicindezelayo ezidinga ukugqugquzela esiphezulu. Ngesikhathi lapho ngezinga ngokomzwelo, sizizwa yokwesaba ezingeni bokuphila ke ivuswe ngu lenqwaba izindlela, ekulungiseleleni umzimba wethu usongo kungenzeka. Konke lokhu imvelo olususwe nemininingwane emincane, futhi ngenxa yalokho bazuze lolu hlobo isimo nakanjani lapho. Okungukuthi, okusebenza njengento esetshenziswayo ukuzivikela, ukugcina yayinjalo wonke umzimba. Ngakho ake nje ichaze: welithi "ukwesaba okungenasisekelo" okunemibandela kakhulu - njalo futhi yonke indawo yokwesaba isizathu abukeke ngale ndlela. Enye into ukuthi yalesi sizathu kungenziwa sasivumela isuswe kahle kusukela ukuvela kwezindaba babenakho ukwesaba.

Ngizochaza lokho kithi kusengozini. ibinzana Evamile "sonke sivela ku-ebuntwaneni" emehlweni abantu abadala, njengoba nje kukhona izimo ungakhululekile. ukwesaba yezingane - lena nje lokho okusele enganakile lomuntu iminyaka eminingi, uma kungekhona konke ukuphila komuntu. Futhi uthola izinkathazo ingane esehlakalweni esithile ngesizathu, futhi esekelwe isipiliyoni sabo siqu ogcina ngokoqobo ezizungezile. Ngokwesibonelo, ukwesaba izindawo eziphakeme bangezwa ukwehluleka phakathi iconsi ukwesaba ebumnyameni - ngokuba ubuthongo ezimbi, claustrophobia - kusuka endaweni ekhanya sikhethelwe pryatok (iKhabhinethi yaphahlazeka). Konke lokhu kubonakala enganakile wengane kanye igcinwe khona isikhathi eside kuze kube isiphi isimo esicindezelayo ngeke yesabe ukuyibhala force okugcwele. Kwesinye isikhathi ukwesaba zezingane safaka yi abadala. Lezi okuphakade "Ungabi - obozhzhoshsya", ungahambi - uwe "njll akha ingane ekutholeni syndrome endaweni enobutha lapho ukwesaba - umlekeleli onokwethenjelwa, ngoba uxwayisa ngengozi. Izingane ungathola uyesaba kuyilapho ubuka ithelevishini, futhi iqhaza engalawuliwe e igrah- "Bhalobhasha", futhi lapho ngilalele abadala ukukhuluma ngezingozi nezwe elingaphandle.

Okuwukuphela kwento inkundla ekahle ukuthuthukiswa ezinjengokungcoliswa ukwesaba nomphakathi. It ekhathaza mayelana kwamanani, kwandziswa kwelinani letikhungo kwamaphekula, izibonelelo nedovyplat, ukuwohloka jikelele zokuphila. I-Russian ukwesaba social lihamba kakade ku sengqondo mass - ngoba uma umuntu ethi wenza kahle, masinyane nazhivot kweqembu izitha, awukwazi ezikhathini ezinjalo izinto zihamba kahle. ukwesaba Social iphazamise ukuthuthukiswa evamile emphakathini, ukwakha izakhamuzi abe sengqondo ukuzivikela. Dala ukukhathazeka emphakathini neqhaza abezindaba: noma basuke eyayigcwele labavoti amaqiniso kusukela izimpilo osaziwayo (futhi acabange ukuthi kungani umuntu enempilo wonke kufanele ukhathazeke imininingwane ejulile yokuphila komuntu, kuba ngokuphelele alien?), Noma utshele horror izindaba uhlobo lobugebengu ezenzeka njalo isimanga izikhala yethu izwe lakubo. Lapha futhi ukulungele yokwesaba nomphakathi: emgwaqeni awukwazi ukuphuma - kukhona ubugebengu okuqinile; kahle zibukhoma ezimbalwa, kodwa asilona phakathi kwabo, ukuze konke emhlabeni kubi kubalulekile ukulinda igalelo elilandelayo kusuka ukudalelwa.

Futhi konke lokhu ubuhle: izinhlobo ezahlukene zokwesaba, ukwesaba social Isekelwe yokuthi abadala abizwa ngokuthi "ukwesaba zezingane." Okufanele ukwenze, uma sebenalo?

Okokuqala, dala ephilayo imvelo enempilo friendly kokubili abadala nezingane ngokufanayo. Asikho isidingo ukufunda amaphephandaba (Ngakhuluma ngalokhu okwamanje, uProfesa Preobrazhensky - ukukhumbula "Inhliziyo ka Inja"). Believe me, izindaba ezinkulu emhlabeni futhi uyofunda ngakho - babe iDemo isilondolozi izindaba amabhlogo, i-Inthanethi, ekugcineni, omakhelwane! Kodwa ukuthathelwa umshuwalense wena ngezikweletu omningi imininingwane engadingekile elishaqisayo. Futhi, lemifanekiso wobulawa ku-TV: izindaba ubugebengu, enkantolo - hhayi ukubona umuntu enempilo. Futhi lapho ekhaya lakho uyobusa imodi kwengqondo (! Ngangokunokwenzeka, vele), The ukuzinza nokudlanga imizwelo eyakhayo, ukwesaba aqale ashona - bengakuthandi kwesimo lesilungele ukuthuthukiswa lonke ubuntu obunobunye. Futhi omunye ithuluzi ngaphezulu ukuze silwe ukwesaba luchazwe encwadini "Harry Potter": uma wesabe okuthile, behleka ke - nezingane, le ndlela isebenza ku-95% (amaphesenti esisele - amacala zokwelapha). Ngakho smile, Madoda! Smile!