Inhlonipho ngabanye: umqondo nezindlela eziyisisekelo. Umlando yokuziphatha. Lokulalela kanye Nokuziphatha Ukuziphatha

Namuhla akunakwenzeka ukuhlangabezana indoda, kodwa eyayinamawala ngezinye amaziyo lokuqala lehla komunye nedolo akhothamela phansi. Abesifazane ayisekho uyakhothama, amadoda akuvamile ukuqabula isandla ladies, akekho ifunda waltz eceleni noma izakhi mazurka. Yini ukumangala bukeka kwa kithi okhokho! Phela, kubo inhlonipho ngabanye kwakuyinsakavukela, ngisho saziso, kuchazwe khona imfundo, imikhuba emihle namasiko. Zishintshe kangakanani futhi kungani phezu kwezinkambiso isikhathi imithetho yokuziphatha emphakathini okusezingeni eliphezulu, kulesi sihloko sizoxoxa ngako.

Yini welithi "inhlonipho ngabanye"?

Lenchazelo sihlanganisa iqoqo imikhuba emihle futhi silawule umugqa ukuziphatha evunyiwe emphakathini. Ulwazi nemithetho yokuziphatha yesimanje engasiza umuntu ukuba bathole imvelo, ukujabulisa, ukuhlanganisa idumela lalo njengoba umuntu nabanengqondo futhi ukucabangela erudite. Nokho, ukuze sifinyelele i umbono ngokwabo ezinjalo - yisayensi yangempela. Njengoba asebenzelana ngayo izizukulwane zonke ukuthi baphila ngaphambi, ngakho abanye isethi amathiphu usuku, namanje zifezeke naphezu kwezinguquko ngezikhathi imikhuba, ukunambitha, izimo zengqondo. Kungakhathaliseki isikhathi kanye nobudala, okulindelwe umphakathi ngokuphathelene muntu wahlala ngokuvamile ingashintshiwe - babehlale kufakwe khona ngezilokotho, ubuciko ngezilokotho, bayakwazi ukuziphatha etafuleni, emcimbini, endaweni yomphakathi, ikhono ukuqala futhi ukugcina ingxoxo iqhubeka.

I etiquette ukuvela

Umlando yokuziphatha ngokwesiko ezihambisana ezingqondweni iningi labantu France, Britain nakwamanye amazwe amaningana aseYurophu, ezifana eJalimane. Nokho, lapho kudabuka khona umsuka ukunganaki awukwazi ukubabiza! Sekuyisikhathi eside Kukhona wabusa ukungazi kwandile, luhlaza, ukuntula ulwazi, inhlonipho amandla negunya. inhlonipho ngabanye ukweleta ivelaphi e-Italy, okuyinto ingenye, ngenxa yamandla ayo kwezomnotho, ke wama phandle, ikakhulukazi i-Early Ephakathi, uma kuqhathaniswa nezinye izifundazwe. Ngakho, kuze kube maphakathi nekhulu XVI England wahlala ezweni nemithetho womele igazi ngowezizwe ngenxa ukuzibandakanya ngokungakhathali ezimpini entsha. Ngalesi sikhathi, i-ezimele idolobha Italian ocebile communes, wahlanganyela ukuthuthukiswa yobuciko, yebo, ngomzamo nhle kanye ennoble ezimpilweni zabo, kancane kancane bakwenze kwezinkambiso yokuziphatha. Germany le nkathi, efana England, kwakuhileleke kungekho impi ngaphansi kwegazi, ngokuqondene eye eside izikhulu kwaba uncultivated. France neyaziwayo ngendlela efanayo kuphela amandla amandla, impi futhi ukulwa.

Lena - ekuqaleni ekuzalweni etiquette, ngaphezulu esondele canons kwabo yesimanjemanje. Yiqiniso, ungacabangi ukuthi kungaba kuze kube Ephakathi, akekho imithetho yokuziphatha abekho emhlabeni. Bona kwamiswa cishe ngokushesha ngemva kokuba livele indoda, ngakho-ke, ngokwezinga elikhulu noma elincane, ephelezelwa abantu kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo. Ngemva nokukhulekela onkulunkulu zendawo izici kungabuye kubhekwe imithetho ezithile zokuziphatha. IGrisi yasendulo, ngokwesibonelo, seliqalile futhi benza umnikelo ekuthuthukiseni kwezinkambiso wokuziphilisa: uquketheni amaGreki zihlanganisa ukudalwa itafula futhi ibhizinisi nenhlonipho.

History of the ukuqhubeka ukuhlonipha

inhlonipho ngabanye e lasungulwa ifikile ibanga elide. Kancane kancane, lapho imisebenzini yezempi eYurophu baqala bagxila kakhulu futhi kunenjongo ngokwemvelo, umqondo ngezilokotho. It ezilungisiwe imithetho sokuziphatha Knights, yona eyaqala ukwenza i enze omunye abameleli eyinhloko emphakathini abafundile nge siqu, ehlukile, amasiko alo wokuziphilisa kakhulu. Ngokusho ikhodi udumo, Knight kwadingeka ukuba bazikhethele Lady Elihle inhliziyo, lokulwa uwine i wakhe, ukuze bakwazi ukuqamba tinkondlo netingoma behlonipha ethandekayo, musa Ngethemba impendulo esuka eceleni kwakhe futhi udlale chess ezinhle. Yiqiniso, yayihlanganisa le mithetho futhi ukuba khona isici enjalo knight anamandla kakhulu futhi basebenzise ikhono nekhono Ilungile ukusetshenziswa kwezikhali, ukugibela, ikhono lokuzikhethela isibindi, ukuzimisela isibindi ngesikhathi esifanele.

Ukuziphatha emphakathini okusezingeni eliphezulu ngesikhathi wanika abantu namuhla isiko ajwayelekile njengoba ukuxhawulana uma behlangana noma ukususwa headgear. Bese-ke, futhi ngetikhatsi Chivalry waqinisekisa ukuntula isifiso ukubulala nomngane elasetshenziselwa ukubonakaliswa nezinhloso ezinhle futhi indawo enhle. Yiqiniso, namuhla abantu athutha nyakazisa izandla nomuntu, ungase ungaluboni ngisho nalapho ukuqaphela kuvela kanjani, lokhu kwaba isenzo ebalulekile emhlabeni ephakathi eYurophu!

Esigabeni esilandelayo, esibonakala by umlando nenhlonipho - iyona Renaissance (Renaissance). Kwetheknoloji kwentuthuko, isayensi nekhono sezishiye oxhumana lenyuka phakathi kwalawa mazwe amabili, ukuze nemithetho yokuziphatha wenzé kuyisinyathelo esikhulu phambili, abe erudition ezifanayo futhi indoda nenhle. Kukhona imithetho ezikhulayo efana ukuwasha izandla ngaphambi kokudla, ukusetshenziswa Cutlery kanye nekhono lokuqonda kubo, inhlonipho isitayela endala izingubo, ukungabi ukubuyisa ngokweqile futhi Panache.

Esikhathini esizayo, umqondo yokuziphatha njalo ushintsha, uma kungekhona echichima okuqukethwe okusha, qualitatively ezahlukene yobudala kuya ngobudala. It ukhetha okungcono kakhulu kuphela konke, futhi udinga into engase ngempela ukubonisa umuntu njengenhlangano iyunithi ezimele futhi uchaze ke-aspect yolwazi yamasiko imithetho. Namuhla, le nqubo namanje ungakaqedi - izisekelo Decal akuzona static, bona njalo siguqula futhi asathuthuka. Njengoba sekunama-ezindaweni ezintsha kukhona imithetho emisha zokuziphatha.

Futhi yini kwaba ukuhlonipha ngesiRashiya?

Ukuba khona kokuqala inhlonipho ngabanye eRussia wesimanje ingafaniswa isimo esikhona njengoba kube iqala ukwakheka isimo ngenkathi ephakathi eYurophu. kuchazwa Kusobala imithetho nokulungisa njengoba enjalo, kwaze kwaba sekupheleni XVII - ekuqaleni XVIII leminyaka, okungukuthi, uma nje esihlalweni sobukhosi akenyukelanga uthisha kanye wezinguquko uPetru I. Ngaphambi kwakhe, ireferensi incwadi jikelele yimuphi umuntu isiRashiya kwakuwulimi "Domostroy" lapho base ebekiwe eziyisisekelo ngokuphila komkhaya nokukhuthazelela ukulima, ngokuvumelana lapho umuntu ayengenasono ikhanda efuna ngiyinake ngokuphelele yekhaya ungase eshaya umkakhe, kanye self-efakwe, kwabanye amasiko nemikhuba bahlalaphi. UPetru ekubona lokhu esifuze esidlule, engafanele isimo okuqhubekayo, futhi ngenxa yalokho baseYurophu waboleka a lot of izincwadi, ukufunda inhlonipho ngabanye.

Modern izinhlobo nenhlonipho nalabo ujwayelene zonke emlandweni womuntu

Namuhla isintu, ngaphezu courtly, ayeyile esidlule, indlela yokuziphatha, ukwazi lezi zinhlobo ezilandelayo ke:

• Inkantolo - isiko nenhlonipho, ayeba ama program avumelane egcekeni mithi. Lokhu - esokuba elawulwayo ngibopha kwezinkambiso. Ngokuba non-ukuhambisana (isib ukwehluleka ukukhothamela lesi sibalo bobukhosi) angaphetha kalula go on the block. Lolu hlobo nenhlonipho esetshenziswa namuhla emazweni ifomu monarchical kahulumeni.
• Yokusebenzelana Kwamazwe Omhlaba - .. Lezi nemithetho yokuziphatha komphakathi elawula ukuziphatha osomaqhinga kanye inqubo ekusebenzelaneni kwabo nomunye phakathi nomhlangano, ngesikhathi izinkulumo, edilini lomshado, njll Lolu hlobo nenhlonipho bakha kudala, kodwa igcina khona yayo kuze kube namuhla.
• etiquette Military - kulawulwa khona yisimiso ethize futhi zathuthuka kanjani ngokuhamba kwesikhathi amasiko ukuchaza ukuziphatha bonke abathintekayo ohlelweni lempi. Lokhu kuhlanganisa imikhuba kanye nemithetho yokuziphatha ehhovisi futhi ngesikhathi lisemsebenzini izindawo, koxhumana ekuchumana, ikhomishana imikhonzo nemilayezo babe orientation isiko kanye nakwezinye izici zokuphila azisetshenziswa.
• Professional - uhlobo etiquette, okuyinto aluthola ukuthuthukiswa okukhulu kunakho konke endaweni XX futhi xxi eminyaka ngokusekela ngenkuthalo kwandziswa kwelinani letikhungo imisebenzi ehambisana ne-ekuqaleni kwenkathi ka intuthuko kwezesayensi nakwezobuchwepheshe. A ezihlukahlukene izingxenye sabantu kusuka emhlabeni wonke ziye zaqala liba bahileleke imisebenzi professional leyo kuholele ukunwetshwa abalulekile yalolu hlobo yokuziphatha sokusebenza.
• Nge omakhelwane professional kanye ibhizinisi etiquette, elawula imithetho izikhulu zokuxhumana nomunye ekwenteni imisebenti yabo evamile.
• Ordinary (okubhekiselwa kuzo nangokuthi kokuziphatha noma nje wokuziphilisa) - umbono obanzi kunayo yokuziphatha, okungukuthi ihlanganisa isethi ezivamile imithetho, iziqondiso, imihlangano kanye namasiko, ukusebenzisa abantu zisebenzisa uma uxhumana nomunye ... I etiquette civil, unjalo enemisebenzi kakhulu kwazo zonke ezinye izinhlobo zezinto eziphilayo.
• Inkulumo - uhlobo etiquette, esibekela inkulumo nenkambiso yamasiko ukuthi ucabange ulwazi okungumsu sitayela yolimi, futhi ikhono ngendlela elula, ecacile nangempumelelo baveze abakucabangayo futhi ukuxhumana nabo kwabanye. Lolu hlobo kuyingxenye saziso kufakwe zonke izinhlobo ngenhla yokuziphatha, njengoba kuba ikhono kahle ukubhala futhi ukhulume kahle kuyisisekelo eziyisisekelo iyiphi nenhlonipho bebonke.

Manje sekuyisikhathi sokuba ucabange umehluko phakathi imiqondo "nokuziphatha kanye nenhlonipho." Abakwazi kalula kudidaniswe, kube yilowo nalowo wabo inenani ezithile, ihlukile kwezinye izwi,.

Lokulalela kanye Nokuziphatha Ukuziphatha: ezihluke ngazo nezinto ezifana

Uma etiquette, kakade echazwe ngenhla, sekuyisikhathi ukunquma ukuthi idlulisa elithi 'izimiso'. Lo mqondo kuyinto Ukuhlolwa nokuziphatha ngefilosofi, okungukuthi, imithetho yokuziphatha yezenhlalakahle, ngokusobala, ubuhlobo lelikhashane kakhulu. Umehluko imiqondo la kungenziwa ngokusobala wawubonisa ngezibonelo ezithile, njenge:

• "Uthando ngoNkulunkulu nangomakhelwane" - isiphakamiso, kanjani izimiso zokuziphatha.
• "Ungababulali, ungebi, musa ukufisa" - umusho ukuthi ichaza kakade etiquette isimiso (kusukela umbono yokuziphatha kobuKristu).

Futhi yena kwezinye izigaba zenzelwe ukufundisa umuntu indlela efanele, ukuze uyifundise ukwenza izenzo ezinhle, ukugxilisa elikhanyayo, buka ezinhle emhlabeni. Lona ukufana omkhulu phakathi imigomo 'izimiso' "nenhlonipho". Eyokuqala ukuthi yini okufanele ifinyelelwe, kanti eyesibili - nalokho nokuthi lokhu kungenzeka.

inhlonipho ngabanye namuhla: ukuthi baziphathe kanjani?

Manje sekuyisikhathi ukubheka kabanzi ukuthi kushiwoni etiquette, okungukuthi, iya ngqo liyisiqondiso esiwusizo kakade esenzweni.

etiquette wokuziphilisa Modern kuhlanganisa:

• Amafomu lokubingelela nokwelashwa komunye;
• Imithetho yokuziphatha ngezikhathi zokudla;
• Imikhuba yokuziphatha emibuthanweni ethile imiphakathi;
• Imithetho yengxoxo, nakho umthetho art ehlukile siqonde izici zaso ezicashile kanye umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama (inkulumo encane);
• Inhlonipho ebhekise abesifazane;
• Inhlonipho ngokumhlonipha abadala ngobudala indawo.

Kanjani ukuze afeze ukugcina ngokwayo umbono omuhle kakhulu emphakathini, ukusungula uqobo njengoba indoda ethile efundile futhi cultured?

etiquette Amathuluzi

Imithetho yokuziphatha yomphakathi, okuyinto aqukethe i ubunye tebuciko (zangaphandle) neziphathelene nokuziphatha kwabantu (yangaphakathi) izingxenye ukunikela umuntu ngamunye nendawo yokugcina ukwesekwa amathuluzi athile ukuze kufinyelelwe lo mgomo - ukufeza ukuqashelwa emphakathini. Lezi zihlanganisa:

• Isizotha nokuhluzeka ukuzibamba. Lezi zimfanelo amahloni hhayi ezifanayo, ukuzinyeza futhi diffidence, njengoba kunqunywe Ukunganaki mathupha sakhe, ukuntuleka okulindelekile ngokwami imaphi amalungelo, kanye isifiso yokuzibeka obala;
• Ukuzwela nekhono lokungacasuli, lapho kubonakala ikhono acabangele engu-interlocutor, isikhundla sakhe emphakathini, izimo kanye ikholi, ukungabi noma khona abangabazi, isimo sengqondo nabo zokuxhumana senzeka;
• Umuzwa Ingxenye kanye nekhono ayeke yena;
• Ikhono ukulawula izenzo zabo;
• Ikhono aqaphe.

Ukuphishekela imfundo, ukuhlakulela lezi zimfanelo ngokwakho, ungaqiniseka ukuthi ngesinye ukuqashelwa emphakathini zazisafika.

Ingabe kungenzeka ukuba bafunde ukuhlonipha?

Yiqiniso! Okwamanje, noma ubani ofuna ukuba ukudonsa amakhono abo siqu e ikhono uthole kanye nabanye abantu angase athenjiswe kukhethwa noma ekilasini inkosi inhlonipho ngabanye. Ochwepheshe ukufundisa abadlali bakhe bayakwazi ukuziphatha etafuleni, ukuqonda ukwehluka Cutlery, ngokuphumelelayo ubambe izingxoxo izindikimba ezijulile zefilosofi nazo Umphikisi ukuze ungabacasuli ubani, ukuhlela bese ubamba reception ukuya ezindaweni zomphakathi nokuningi. Yiqiniso, kuyingxenye ebalulekile i-course ithatha "inkulumo encane" ngxenye ukuze kukusize okungavikelekile amakhono abo ukuze uqale ukukhuluma nabantu kahle, enhle futhi ngaphandle frills ezingadingekile.

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Ngakho, manje kuyacaca ukuthi akukho okungalungile inhlonipho ngabanye. Basics yokuziphatha, eqinisweni, e elithile noma ngenye indlela wonke umuntu uyazi, kubalulekile kuphela ukuzinqumela - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa enkulu amakhono ekhona noma yokuthi kukhona ngokwanele. Ngemva kwalokho kufanele noma kufanele ukudonsa ngokwami ndawonye futhi aliqonde izinto eziyisisekelo ukunganaki ngaphandle kokushiya ekhaya lakho noma ukubhalisela izifundo ezikhethekile, okuyinto namuhla inikeza iqoqo elikhulu. Into esemqoka - ke isisusa, futhi kukhona futhi eduze umphakathi okusezingeni eliphezulu!