Yini amalungelo enza mntwana wesihlahla?

Uyazibuza ukuthi abafana, ngaphandle ethandwa, mhlawumbe Marilyn Monroe futhi Fidel Castro? It kuvela ukuthi umntwana ngamunye wabo engumlanjwana! Emakhulwini eminyaka adlule kwaba inhlamba. asizalwanga ngokuphinga, ngokubona kwabantu abavamile, uthambekela ubugebengu, hhayi ngakho abanamakhono, futhi elalela umthetho. Nge ekukhuleni komphakathi, lokhu kungabi nabulungisa Umbe ishabalale. Akekho namuhla akuyona pokes emehlweni unina noma abantwana lokuzalwa emthethweni. Waguqula isisekelo esingokomthetho elala abazali bengane. Ake sixoxe ngazo.

Ubani ingane bastard?

Ukuze uqale, Sichaza imiqondo. Ngokomthetho kufanele umlando onembile, ayikwazi ukukala microns. Kubhekwe mntwana wesihlahla ezinabazali hhayi wasayina inkontileka ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwakhe. Namuhla lezi zingane banamalungelo afanayo njengoba ojwayelekile, ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, owazalwa ngo-i umndeni njengoba yayinjalo. Emazweni amaningi, nomthetho uvikela zonke izingane. Nokho, uma kunenkinga lapha. Uma kucatshangelwa indodana yakhe, njengoba umthetho, yonke into icacile. It wayengadlali onika umntwana. Kodwa namanje esinalo ukufakazela ubuyise. Akuwona wonke umuntu ufuna ukuba bavume izingane. Yiqiniso, ifike engxenyeni yabo, kodwa izimo zihlukile, kwezinye izimo abantu ongaqonda ngisho. Mntwana wesihlahla akulona iphutha lakhe ukuthi abazali bakhe awufuni ngisho bakubheka njengodumo bebodwa. Baby zidinga ukunakekelwa nokusekelwa, kubandakanya ezezimali. Futhi uma izinkinga zokuziphatha isimo ziyafuywa phandle emphakathini, ukunakekelwa self zezimali.

Kanjani ukufakazela ubuyise

Kukhona izinketho ezimbili ukuthi abe umehluko eliyisisekelo ukuphi. Eyokuqala senzeka nge kwemvume yabazali. Ngokubambisana uthumele isicelo ku-Registrar ngesisekelo igama lakhe lifakwe ohlwini idokhumenti ngokuzalwa. He is bokuthi ingane has a uyise. Bastards, okuvela kulo amadoda senqabe, futhi onina noma ababheki bangase nethuba ukufakazela ukuba khona kwamandla ubudlelwano emndenini ezinkantolo. Inqubo ngempela ezingemnandi zokuziphatha, kodwa kudingekile. Faka isicelo amandla wamajaji inelungelo yena mntwana wesihlahla, futhi umuntu lokumnakekela. Njengobufakazi balokho noma yikuphi ukuphikisana samukelwe - izincwadi, isiqophi nangezinto eziqoshiwe emihlangano nezingxoxo, nobufakazi. I wemfanelo kakhulu futhi kanzima isici refutable ubhekwa ube luhlolo zofuzo. INkantolo uyazicabangela ubuyise icala ngisho nalapho umuntu esefile. It is ikakhulukazi ukhathazekile nge amacala ifa. By the way, ukuhlaziywa zofuzo kungabuye eyenziwa ngemva kokufa komuntu. Material othathwe izimpahla umufi kuye. Kodwa kuyodingeka ukuthola imvume ka amanye amalungu omndeni.

ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso

Ingane idinga ukusekelwa kokubili abazali lapho sizalwa. Abesifazane abaningi abazi ukuthi sibhekene Iqiniso lokuthi le ndoda akafuni ukunikeza imali, awushiye imisebenzi yabo. Nokho, umthetho ngokuqinile sinqume ukuthi obaba engumlanjwana nabantwana bayohlala nonina (umnakekeli), kudingeka bakhokhe ingxenye imali ukuze zihambelane nabo. Ngeshwa, ngokuvamile ukuheha indoda ukuba ubulungisa buyini lutholakala kuphela ngokutadisha izinkantolo. Owesifazane kumelwe kuqala ukusungula ubuyise (bheka isithombe esingenhla). Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho ungafaka isicelo enkantolo ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso. Ekusebenteni, isinqumo ukuze uthumele ingxenye imali, usizo oluncane kakhulu. Isinqumo senkantolo usebenza kuphela iholo olusemthethweni, futhi awusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi sihambisana yangempela. Fakazela ukuthi uyise unezinye engenayo, kunzima futhi enzima, kodwa kungenzeka. By the way, ingane engumlanjwana kumele inikezwe yibo bobabili abazali. Uma umntwana uhlala nge umnakekeli, unina futhi okhokhela nesondlo kuye. Lokhu kwenzeka, isibonelo, lapho owesifazane bancishwa amalungelo sabazali.

Mntwana wesihlahla: ifa

Impahla kwesokunxele isihlobo oshonile, kuncike division. Abantu ngokuvamile abacabangi ngekusasa, ngakho enkingeni. Ngokwesibonelo, mntwana wesihlahla yomyeni wakhe angase abize kahle ukuba ingxenye yempahla, noma umuntu esinguye akanandaba intando. Isimo siba esihlukile uma idokhumenti besayina. Amalungelo ezinye izindlalifa wayengazange kunakwe, ngaphandle saziso. Ngakho, akunakwenzeka ukuba senqabe ukwabiwa ingxenye ifa ukuze eyingane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izimo sokuzalwa kwakhe. Kunconywe ukuzibuza ukuthi abashadayo inzalo engumlanjwana. Kusebenza umthetho ofanayo kubantu abakhubazekile abanokuhlangenwe impesheni zomphakathi. Uqinisile umthetho ofanayo sitolikwa uma kuziwa yini ukumangalela nezinye izihlobo mntwana wesihlahla ngumkayo. Izingane izindlalifa esigabeni sokuqala, zezici lokuzalwa akubalwa.

nobunzima esisebenzayo

Ngokuvamile abesifazane bazame ukubonisa ukuthi ubuyise ukuze uthole ukwesekwa ingane endodeni. Bazama ukwenza konke mntwana wesihlahla, amalungelo abo adicilelwe, livikelwe. Ngo umkhuba, zithathele enkingeni ngezinye izikhathi ngaphezu kwamanxeba usizo. Ngakho, umuntu omehlo ubuyise is neshaya, ethola imisebenzi hhayi kuphela kodwa futhi benamalungelo afana umzali olusemthethweni. Yena liyadingeka ukukhokha, okwenza, isibonelo, isinqumo senkantolo. Kodwa okhokhela yingxenye encane kuphela imali. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba omunye imizamo izoziphindiselela owesifazane. Futhi anakho ithuba livela. Ukuya nengane phesheya kumele kube imvume kayise. Isignesha ku idokhumenti ukuba amanye amadoda abonakele adinga inkokhelo, kuyilapho abanye nje senqabe akhiphe. Umama kufanele bacabange kaningi ukuthi ukuxhumana nomuntu ongafuni ukuba aqaphele ingane. Phela, ngaphandle imali, izingane kudingeka ngemfudumalo nangothando. Futhi uma "Ubaba" we imizwa ngeke anyakazisa nonina, wabe ngeke ukwazi ukunikeza inzalo uthando kangaka, kangakanani okudingayo ukuze zikhule kahle. Umbuzo kuphela ibonakala zefilosofi, kodwa eqinisweni kubaluleke kakhulu esisebenzayo, kunoma yiliphi icala, ingane.

Kuthiwani uma amalungelo i- emincane?

asizalwanga ngokuphinga futhi onina ngezinye izikhathi ibhekene nezinkinga eziningi. Uma ingane kungazange kufinyelele yobudala, kungaba kunoma isiphi isimo ukubala ukuvikelwa isimo. Esifundeni ngasinye (idolobha) iyisevisi ekhethekile anikezelwe lezi zinkinga. Awukwazi ukuxazulula inkinga ngokwakho - uthintane onguchwepheshe. bakahulumeni kudingeka ukusiza mahhala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, laba bantu ifa amakhono esisebenzayo. Kungumsebenzi wabo ukuchaza kanjani ukwenza kunoma isiphi isimo,, ukuze uzosiza ngokushunyayelwa kwezindaba wamaphepha nokunye. Ungavumeli izinto ukuthatha inkambo yabo, ukuvikela amalungelo izingane zabo, kodwa ingqondo, hhayi ukuthenga enkingeni ngisho nangokwengeziwe. Ngikufisela inhlahla!