Wonke umzali ufuna ingane yakhe sikhule ilungu njengabakufanelekelayo umphakathi futhi umuntu omuhle. Iklelisa izimfanelo ezifiselekayo uhlamvu zengane, njalo umama ayeliqamba phakathi kwabo umusa. Kodwa kunjalo umqondo abstract ezichaza lokuqala ibanga lakhe kunzima kakhulu. Akunandaba, umzimba ezingokoqobo esingabasiza ngazo! Ake sizame ukwenza uhlu izenzo ezinhle izingane njengamanje.
Ifanele ukwenza okuhle kuzo zonke izimo
Kumele siqale nge ingxoxo kahle, uma lesi sihloko ziyokhinyabezeka phakathi "Homeroom" esikoleni kodwa futhi ngaso abazali ekhaya kufanele sinake imfundo yengane kule ndaba. Kubalulekile ukuwudlulisela ngamunye nengane eyodwa umqondo elula: uma umuntu ngamunye kithi ayokwenza ba nomusa futhi umcabangele bonke elilizungezile - izwe liyoba ngcono. abanye Phatha kudingeka ngendlela ofuna bakuphathe ngayo. Ukunakekelwa futhi kudingeka izilwane, imvelo kanye lonke izwe langakhona iyonke. Khumbula ukuthi izingane kunzima ukucabanga ngendlela yazo esabalele futhi kabanzi. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu, kunengqondo ukuba amphuzise ndawonye uhlu izenzo ezinhle izingane. Nale ukusikisela, ingane aqonde futhi akhumbule kahle ukuthi muhle futhi ngeke zize zibe ngcono. Yini ukubhala ku uhlu olunjalo? Ngezansi, sinikeza ezihlukahlukene izibonelo, kube lula ngokushesha usizo futhi ukuba nohlu enkulu amacala "esikhulu", okwenziwa ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi ezincane - I-nsuku zonke. Kodwa qiniseka ukujabulisa ukudala umthetho - ngosuku ngaphandle isenzo esihle!
I smile kuzosithinta wonke umuntu!
Kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi kule eziyinkimbinkimbi - lokuqala smile abedlula noma umdayisi esitolo? Futhi manje, amaqabane, abadala, khumbula, nalokho inkulumo ngokuvamile phumelani mgwaqo. Kunjalo, futhi eqinisweni uma zonke zazimomotheka komunye nomunye, ukuphila kuyoba mnandi kakhulu futhi kujabulise! Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi kusho okukhulu kangakanani umusa onjalo, futhi kubaluleke kangakanani eyakhayo ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuxhumana nabanye. Ake ngayo into "ukumamatheka abangabazi" ukuqala uhlu lwakho izenzo ezinhle izingane. Kodwa usengakwazi sibabingelela omakhelwane bami nabathengisi bezimpahla zezinhlobo izitolo lapho uvakashela njalo. Nje zama futhi ngokushesha isinyathelo sesichithwa wonke umuntu emhlabeni. Bese kusuka induduzo ekhaya ngeke uthole "izwe langaphandle nobutha", futhi umphakathi abangane ezindala.
Nikeza kwemizwelo - kungcono nje
Iningi lethu akudingeki unakwe ngokwanele maqondana abanye. Kodwa ukujabulisa indoda silula. Ungenza kunconywa ukuba uthisha esikoleni, noma ngisho nomuntu engingamazi kuyi-mgwaqo. Empeleni, kuba inhlonipho, kodwa ngokuvamile sikhohlwe ngakho. Ngakho kungani ungakwenzi uhlu izinto ezinhle ukuthi ungenza into ingane "ukujabulisa abanye, ngenza"? Futhi uma sikhetha kuphela ukukhuluma, into sengqondo esihluke ngokuphelele kufanele kube ukuvala ezihambini nabantu engajwayelekile. Abazali noma kunjalo akufanele sisole lokuqala ibanga ngoba Wamupha bakhohlwa ukuphatha ezomlanda ezinye ngepeni encane into ofunda wabelane futhi wanquma niphathane candy. Kunalokho, bakhuthaze izenzo ezinjalo, ngoba, eqinisweni, kuba umusa.
Isexwayiso, udinga usizo!
Izingane eziningi nanomusa futhi enozwela ngokwemvelo. Lapho ngineminyaka engu-iminyaka 4-5, ingane izizwa sasivumela ezimele futhi "omdala" futhi zilungele ukwenza ezihlukahlukene oda futhi ibhizinisi. Ngokuphawulekayo, lokhu nesifiso sokufuna nobuncane ubugovu, wokunakekela abazali ngoba nje siqu umntwana usuke esekulungele ukuthola lutho kodwa udumo. Khuthaza ingane yakho ngezikhathi ezithile ukubheka ngabuza: "Ubani futhi yini engingayenza." Ngisho ibanga lokuqala kungaletha isitaki wama-notebook othisha, agcobhoze wesikole noma iqhaza yokuhlanza ehhovisi lesikole. Usizo kungadingeka, futhi umuntu ongamazi nhlobo - ukuhumusha impesheni ngaphesheya komgwaqo, etshela isikhathi noma umgwaqo - zonke lezi "iphayona" izibonelo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi kungenzeka empilweni yangempela. Futhi-ke, akekho okufanele angasondeli uma kukhona okuthile okungavamile. Njalo ingane idinga ukwazi ukuthi uma zonke ake azibona isimo, vuma ukuthi akakwazi, kufanele zifuna usizo ngokushesha abadala bekhuluma konke ayekwazi sigameko.
Ukunakekela abafowethu ezincane
odokotela bengqondo Ingane emhlabeni zithi ekukhuleni kwengane iyasiza unayo isilwane. indlu Animal lifundisa encane umthwalo, uzwela nokunakekela. ibanga lokuqala noma preschooler amadala kungathatha ngokuphelele nokuzinakekela cishe kunoma yisiphi isilwane, okuyinto equkethwe yezinyoni, ikati noma inja usayizi amancane naphakathi. Kodwa ngisho noma umndeni wakho usuvele unayo isilwane, uhlu izenzo ezinhle izingane kumele kudingeke ukuthi zihlanganisa inhlalakahle isilwane iyonke. Okuphakelayo izinyoni nengane emgwaqeni, ikati abangenamakhaya noma inja. Ukuze izinyoni Ungase futhi wenze eyizidleke noma inyoni Element. kahle kakhulu, uma isikole Ubuye zoo anama, lapho izingane angeke nje ubukele izilwane, kodwa futhi azinakekele.
Imvelo, futhi, kudingeka kwakho iqhaza
Cabanga kangaki ungayenta izenzo ezinhle? Uhlu izingane ngale ndaba kufanele lifake ukukhathazeka emvelweni imvelo. Eqhubekela phambili ukushaywa noma nje for a epikinikini? Ungakhohlwa ukuthatha isikhwama udoti, kodwa kunalokho eziningana. Futhi ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukudla, noma ukuqala ekamu, cela ingane ukuphuma ku ukuhlanzwa ekhethiwe. Ngokuvamile udoti amanga emhlabeni ngaphansi kwezinyawo zethu, ngisho ebaleni lakho siqu. Ungabi namahloni ukukususa, kodwa njengoba kamuva kuyoba mnandi ukuba bahambahambe endaweni ehlanzekile. Izingane zingase futhi sihlukane nabazali bakhe umbhede encane imbali eduze kwendlu noma ukhule izimbali ekhaya, emphemeni esikhathini efudumele konyaka. Uhlu izenzo ezinhle izingane iminyaka 7 ubudala kungase kuhlanganise nosizo kubazali ugogo ngesikhathi sabo cottage ehlobo.
Bakwazi ukuba ngiphane ngakho, futhi uthola okuningi
Kuwo wonke endlini kukhona izinto ezingenziwanga esetshenziswa futhi cishe ngeke idingeke esikhathini esizayo. Kodwa othile kulesi sikhathi ebuhlungu uzidinga, futhi ngezinye izikhathi abakwazi ngisho nokuzitholela lokho vele uye futhi uyithenga. Ngakho kungani awuchithi yokuhlanza spring ukuqeda konke engadingekile. Yiqiniso, ukwenza umsebenzi izingane ezinjalo ezinhle kufanele kuphela emva kokuthola imvume futhi ngosizo lwabazali babo. Abadala Kufanele bafundise ingane kalula ingxenye izingubo ukuthi wayengeyona ngobukhulu, ukungicika amathoyizi kanye nezinye izinto ukusebenzisa kuhlelwa ayisekho. Okufanele ukwenze nge wonke umcebo? Izingubo angadluliselwa inhlangano ezinye yesihle, zama unamathisele izinto womuntu nabangane nabantu obajwayele. Khumbula umthetho elula: kulapho wena nika, kulapho uthola - kungcono umthetho wendawo yonke esebenza ngempela. Ekhuluma esiza abantulayo, ngokuvamile 7-8 iminyaka kakade zonke izingane kufanele imali yabo "ekhukhwini izindleko." Namuhla, abaningi eziyinxanxathela nezakhiwo zomphakathi kukhona amabhokisi iminikelo, lo mntwana ngezikhathi ezithile ukwehlisa kubo okungenani ambalwa zemali, ngoba kungenzeka, ukuthi lezi zimali ukusindisa ukuphila kothile noma ekuthuthukiseni izinga layo!
Ukuze akwenze okuhle, futhi kungaba emzini wakho siqu
Abazali abaningi bezibuza ukuthi noma ukungafaki uhlu izenzo ezinhle izingane ezifunda ezikoleni zamabanga aphansi ezihlukahlukene imisebenzi yasekhaya nomsebenzi imithetho ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu bendlu? Ake ucabange ngako, ukusiza umuntu kusukela umndeni ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole - kuba izenzo zabo ezinhle, noma ukujabulisa umama noma ubaba inkomishi yetiye, isipho kwesizathu? Impendulo yayo yomibili le mibuzo inguyebo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ngisho induduzo ekhaya lakho siqu, ngamunye wethu angenza izinto ezinhle. Uhlu ubudala wasesikoleni samabanga aphansi abantwana kungafaka usizo hhayi kuphela "epulazini" futhi unakekele nezilwane, kodwa futhi nezinye izinto eziningi ezimnandi futhi ewusizo. Okokuqala-ibanga kungasiza bekhulisa nokunakekela abantwana abancane, uma ikhona, sicela izihlobo ngezipho ngaphandle kwesizathu, futhi ukunikeza usizo cishe kunoma iyiphi ibhizinisi - kusukela wokuhlanza ukuze ukushaywa esitolo.
Nokho, ungenza ngaphezulu!
A eziningi imizwelo eyakhayo kuletha izingane kanye nabantu abadala iqhaza esiza abantulayo izenzakalo ezihlukahlukene. Umbono ezithakazelisayo isikole - ngezikhathi ezithile ukuhlela uhambo ekhaya lasebekhulile. Phakathi mihlangano, abafundi ezikhungweni zemfundo umane ukuxhumana nogogo nomkhulu, omnikeza izipho ezenziwe ngezandla zabo, ahlele amakhonsathi encane. Inhlangano sehlo ulula, kodwa umphumela kuba yesiteleka. Abantu abangashadile abadala ujabule kakhulu yimuphi ukunakwa, futhi izingane ezimnandi nehuha azizwe ebalulekile. Ingabe akusona leso imizwelo eyakhayo ukwenza izenzo ezinhle? Uhlu Class zezingane 2 kungase kuhlanganise imicimbi ebangeni lokuqala noma ukusekelwa ngimncane kunalokho. Ubani omunye kodwa abanolwazi lesibili ibanga bayakwazi ukusiza ekufundeni kulabo usandza esikoleni, futhi ukusiza ukuxazulula izinkinga by izintambo zezicathulo umchilo ubuhlobo siqu nontanga yabo?
Kusukela umqondo ukuqaliswa!
Mhlawumbe usuke kakade ebhaliwe uhlu olude izenzo ezinhle izingane esikoleni futhi ekhaya, kodwa qiniseka ukushiya imigqa embalwa yokugcina nalutho. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba icabange futhi unikele ukuhluka zabo. Ezinye zazo kungenzeka kubonakale kumnandi futhi unfeasible, kanye nezinye kungenzeka ukuzama ukwenza ngokoqobo. Yiqiniso, kuphela imibono iqhaza kwengane kulo msebenzi alikapheli. Cabanga ndawonye njengoba kungenzeka ukuba uqaphele sisakha qiniseka ukubandakanya sazi abasha mayelana nokuqaliswa. Ngisho namandla umndeni noma ekilasini esikoleni, ungenza ezihlukahlukene izinto ezinhle, uhlu ekilasini zezingane 1 Ungahlala ukungezwa. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwenza konke lokhu enhliziyweni emhlophe, ngokuphelele esingenandaba.