Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Ubuntu yimikhuba nendlela enesizotha
Ukuqonda izinga muntu - orientation ukubeka izimfuno eliphezulu ubani, yini, musa ukwaneliswa yilokho onakho.
Lifuna bona - lokhu ingenye izinhlobo eziningi nokuziqhenya. Umuntu ongabeka isimangalo ekupheleleni futhi yize. Kulesi futhi kwelinye icala, pretentiousness bakhe kuyinto khukhumala kudlangile. Nokuvuma kufika owesifazane futhi uthi: Oh! Ngingu kwabawayo neningi labesifazane. Kwabawayo kakhulu! Futhi ngizwa ephendula: Awusuye kwabawayo. Usanda liwile!
Ukuba yinkimbinkimbi kwayo ukuqonda ukuthi olindele izici zobuntu wachaza iqiniso lokuthi ke kuzibonakalisa ngezindlela ezahlukene ukuze abantu ubuhle, uthando kanye nokungazi. Yingakho iziphetho luphambene nokuhlolisisa zabantu nge evelele ubuntu olindele. indoda eCwebileyo, umqondo obalulekile kube ngukukhonza ongenabugovu kubantu, uthi: "yimikhuba - ukungabi khona umusa!" Umusa ngaye - legumbi. Kusukela lokho, yena ulinganisa imicabango nezenzo zakhe. umuntu Onomusa bangathi umuntu angenakho akayitholi injabulo Ukusebenzisa imigomo eziphathekayo. Kufanele udumazeke noma ngokushesha nje lapho isifiso impahla wagcwalisa, noma ekupheleni kokuphila, esemdala, ababuthaka akekho okudingeka.
Injabulo ayincikile phezu ifenisha, izinto, tsatsek, zokuhlala, yezikebhe nama-akhawunti asebhange. Injabulo ungowomoya, ehlala kuwo ezijulile, olungenabugovu, zokuxhumana ngothando, kodwa hhayi ukwaneliseka yezifiso zabo ezibonakalayo. Ukucinga okungokomoya impahla ngaphandle kwamaphutha kuwubuwula njengokucabanga ukuthi afeze ucwaningo kwi khona ubumsulwa kuyophelela phakathi kwezifebe zesilisa. Billionaire ngesikhathi esaphila ubona amehlo ngobugovu izingane nezihlobo ku-dolobha yakhe. Nabo futhi, elikushoyo, nokufaneleka walo. Cabanga "laliyokwakhiwa ethe njo amaphiko Kunalokho, uSathane ubudala." Uthando, ngobuqotho nangomusa ingabonakali, ngakho ufuna ukuba akuthande, futhi hhayi izitshalo zakho siqu kanye nemikhumbi. Omunye Billionaire abadala wake wathi: "Mina kuphela wachitha izimbali ukuba abesifazane engengaphansi kwengu engaba izigidi eziyishumi zamaRandi. Ezinye izindaba zika-imali Ngachitha ize. "
Luyakhandla abazali - yayilawula ku isiphetho izingane. indoda Ubusisiwe, ukukhulisa umntwana, ecabanga ngokuyinhloko ahlukanise injongo yayo, indawo imikhakha yokuphila, okuyinto kufihlwe ngemuva ithalente ingane. Ngesihlanu futhi deuces kuye ukukhathazeka kancane. Uyakuqonda ukuthi udinga sigxilisa kubantwana ongokomoya kunokuba olwazini ulwazi. Uma uphakamisa ke a izici zobuntu ezinhle, amakhono, ngaso sonke isikhathi uzothola lapho wathola isithakazelo sakhe kwezinye uhlobo umsebenzi. Ubusisiwe umuntu ngokoqobo uhlola ingane, ezama ukuthola "ukunambitheka" ezinquma ukuthi liyobe linjani indlela yokuthuthuka wayo. Uma enqubeni yemfundo lomfana - troechnik atholwe izimfanelo ezinjalo ubuntu njengoba umthwalo, ukuzinikela, ukuzimisela nokuphikelela, ukuphikelela nokuphikelela, washeshe bathole amakhono professional ibhizinisi lakho ozithandayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, le Excellent, phansi afune izinto ngenkani kwabanye abazali, izimangalo wabo oweqisayo wokuba futhi ngokuvamile likhula diffident futhi ukwenza ibhizinisi okungalungile. Ngakho-ke akuyona efuna noma yini, kodwa unesifo okukhethekile ngokungalungile abakhethiwe kuphela.
abazali Luyakhandla - is ephoqelela ukuqonda kwazo injabulo. omkhulu abaculi kanye abaqambi Obaba abaningi wathi: "Nizoba ummeli, njengami!" - "Baba, kodwa anginandaba. Cha - Ngifuna ukuba ... ""! Uya ummeli futhi lihlaba esikhonkosini. Ngizakuthuma wena eNgilandi. Lalela ubaba - nizakuphila. " Abazali abaphethe umqondo abanothando injabulo, ukholelwa ukuthi into esemqoka ukunikeza ingane zokuba umuntu aqeqeshelwe amakhono. Thumela kuye kwelinye izwe. Eminyakeni embalwa kamuva efika ngabazali bayo begazi ngempela isihambi. Babengakadedi wakhulela, akazange ukuxhumana naye ngokomoya, hhayi kokuzikhandla ngenhliziyo nangomphefumulo. Waba utshalomali capital - Inani okuletha value added. Bazali, akakuthandi lokhokho uyadelela noma uyamzonda. Konke lapha alien futhi inzondo.
Ucabange ukuthi abazali bahlela ingane yabo endaweni efudumele. Kodwa uma unalo intukuthelo okubi, nganoma isiphi umsebenzi bonakalise ubuhlobo nomuntu abaphathi bakhe nozakwabo. Ibonisa ukungathembeki onesimo isilwi, uyohlala nabo bonke abantu abahlangana zilungile, usike Iqiniso elimsulwa, ekulahleni iziphathimandla kanye babukise abangaphansi. Ilokhu uthukuthele futhi wacasuka, ngeke bakwazi ukuphatha abantu. Nakuba ukwakhiwa elite, isakhiwo, njenganoma yiluphi olunye uhlelo evamile, it nizozenqaba isici njengoba elimazayo. Abanolwazi izisebenzi izikhulu ezikhetha ukungawugubhi ochwepheshe, futhi abantu izimfanelo ezinhle zomuntu ngamunye. Ziyazi ukuthi bayozuza amakhono athile ngokushesha sibonga isimo sawo. Yingakho izingane kanye nesidingo ukunikeza imfundo zokuziphatha kanye ulwazi, hhayi nje lokushaya ulwazi oluningi inkumbulo ukuthi asizange sibe nolwazi ongalusebenzisa.
Indoda passion ukhombisa amazinga izimangalo zabo ngokusebenzisa ngezinga lobunzima temsebenti walo. Uma kunjalo, "Ngifuna" futhi "Angikwazi" ukudlala kahle nomunye, kusho ukuthi umuntu kuze kube sezingeni udumo futhi ubhekane namaqiniso. Ngokuvamile, izinga izimangalo ugqozi abantu kunqunywa babone ukuphumelela noma ukwehluleka ekunqobeni nobunzima kuphakama: impumelelo uncamela ukhethe imisebenzi nzima (ukwandisa ezingeni izimangalo), ukwehluleka - kunalokho, ilula. Abantu abaningi akuzona ukhathazekile, ukuze uphumelele, futhi ukuze ugweme ukuhluleka.
Ukwenza Izinto Zibe Lula njengoba izinga siqu - ikhono hhayi ukubeka izimfuno eliphezulu ubani, yini, ukuba saneliswe yilokho onakho.
Kanjani abaphansi Ikamela, kodwa bahlukunyezwa pyatidesyatigradusnaya ukushisa yakhe. Barely edabula ehlane futhi ukumhlangabeza ukugijima imbongolo egijima. Camel bambuza: - Wenzani run Fold, ngoba ukushisa yilokhu? - Yebo, ngiyaya egijima, futhi mina igcine amagalelo kanye sishisa kakhulu. Camel babecabangani nokuthi vtopil ... Udumbana ku Ran ngakho ukubona ku emaphethelweni ehlane Bedouins abamzungezile. imbongolo Ifanele ukuba omunye kubo wabuza: - Kwenzekeni? A zamaBedouin waphendula: - Yebo lapha, leli kamela kwakubanda!
Yezimo abhekene ofuna ukufinyelela phandle endodeni, linesizotha kwabanye futhi kanzima ngokwakho. ubuntu ogunyaziwe. Zizwe ukuthi igxile umusa, ubulula ubuqiniso, sewazi ukuthi abantu ababona abangane nge ukunganeliseki, indlela yakhe yokucabanga elahla imizwa engakhi ehambisana ukulahlwa nokushushiswa abanye.
Ukwenza Izinto Zibe Lula maqondana abanye abantu - omunye izithombe ezithwetshulwe somusa. Ukwenza Izinto Zibe Lula akuyona nsé ukuzila, ke eqala ukuphila okuvamile, kodwa hhayi spoilt, ukweqisa, nokuzitika futhi uthanda kuye. Kuyinto alien okuxekethile zomzimba. Ngokwenza ngale ndlela, kube lula buthelela amabutho kahle aphendule izimo zokuphila nemibono yabanye abantu. indoda enesizotha ngakuyena waqaphela ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukuletha izinzuzo nokuthi kunzima kangakanani ukuba bashiye amakhaya abo propensities ezinesihluku lapho isikhulile. Kuthatha isikhathi futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuqonda umqondo ukunambitha olunye injabulo. Ngakho-ke, inomusa ukuba ukushiyeka kwabanye. Noma ngabe uzizwa uyamzwela umuntu ngomusa aphendvule zonke quirks yayo kwengqondo, enozwelo isimo sakhe sangaphakathi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abanye njengoFakazi ukuthi nokunjengoshizi ukuba ukuphila kwabantu kuyo yonke indawo futhi ujabule njalo, bejabule, bejabule futhi bajabule.
Inzuzo enkulu enesizotha - akukho ukuhlupheka okuletha okuphambene layo - pretentiousness. Ngokwesibonelo, indoda enesizotha washada futhi, emva kwesikhashana, ngabona baye bathi sebeshintshe ngokuphelele, njengoba bahlekisa simpleton ngokushesha umkakhe iba beziphakamisa yimikhuba nendlela ihlazo. Akenzi hit alamu, ezitshela ukuthi unkosikazi kaNkulunkulu, futhi uyaqhubeka ukubona izimfanelo ezinhle ubunjalo baso. Njengoba nokunjengoshizi abanye indoda muhle nge ncazelo, ihlose ukushintsha uqobo endleleni efanele. Uyabuqonda: "Uma angikwazi ukufundisa umkakhe ukuthi baziphathe kanjani nami, ngeke bajabule. Ngishintshile futhi kuzolishintsha. "
Ngokwesibonelo eliqhakazile enesizotha - Umholi kwezikamoya nenhloko Indian ukuzimela ukunyakaza, Mahatma Gandhi. Painter Pol Gogen e '53 uya eTahiti, lapho endaweni nhlobo kuye izimo kudala yobuciko. Curies etholakale zabo ezivelele esibayeni enophahla abavuzayo. Njengokuvamile, ungathanda ukuba nice lab landscaped, kodwa ngenxa yokuntula engcono, waneliseke kakhulu. Ngamanye amazwi, ubulula kungamanga ukubona esimeningcondvo ubumpofu kwengqondo. Ukwenza Izinto Zibe Lula - lokhu akulona kuphikisa ingcebo, yikhono ukuya injongo, naphezu yokuntuleka izimo ezifanele. Yimikhuba - a "Princess and the Pea." Ukwenza Izinto Zibe Lula - ke uDiogenes e umgqomo, okuyinto ngibona umfana ophuza izandla zakhe futhi wagquma inkomishi yakhe, wathi: "Ingane uvelile ngaphambi kwami, enesizotha."
Ukwenza Izinto Zibe Lula - lokhu eqinile maqondana yena nokubekezelelana aphatha ngayo abanye. Ibonisa ukuzibamba, Rom endleleni esisebenzelana ngayo nabantu, lula kubantu ababethi emehlweni abo, amathoni zasebukhosini. Lokhu kuyiqiniso, ngokuba noma bebona, okuhle kubantu, ukwenza okulungile nokuba izimfuno okuqinile yena, ubulula iza isixha ngenhliziyo enkulu.
Ukwenza Izinto Zibe Lula kusho ukuqonda imithetho zokuphila. Kuleli zwe akukho ngephutha. Umthetho yensimbi yonke - umthetho imbangela nemphumela usebenza umshawushile kuzo zonke isiqephu zokuphila. Njalo umphumela enesizathu. indoda enesizotha uyaqaphela ukuthi siphila kuleli zwe, kulo mndeni, futhi akusiwona ngengozi. ezingeni yanamuhla ukwazi nezwe iphoqa kuye ukuphila kulezi izimo. Okungukuthi, ukuphila kwabantu nendawo, okuyinto emfanele. Sula ingqondo yakho, izoshintsha ukunambitheka injabulo, futhi sengathi ngemilingo, ukuphila zizoqala ukuguquka. Uyobe uzungezwe abangane abafanele, kuzoba izifiso entsha. Ukwenza Izinto Zibe Lula okholwa ukuvumelana zomhlaba, umthetho wendawo yonke, ngakho-ke, siqiniseke ngokuphelele ukuthi uyokwamukela okungokwami ukuphila kakhulu ngendlela emfanele.
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