Tikhundla phezu Hellinger - eyodwa yezindlela of kwengqondo

Ngo kwengqondo, ku nineties zakuqala kwekhulu elidlule, indlela entsha, ebizwa ngokuthi "nokubekwa Hellinger." Lethiwa umsunguli, ngoba uye wasetshenziswa ngempumelelo ngochwepheshe namuhla. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sekwande kakhulu njalo ngonyaka, kusukela uhlelo lwayo lokusebenza, Isimanga siwukuthi kwabaningi, is abatelekile ekulenzeni libe namandla. Vela abalandeli, Ochwepheshe baqeqeshiwe.

B. Hellinger kanye wezwa futhi yingcweti psychoanalysis, umndeni kanye therapy Gestalt. Generalizing lwati nemakhono abo, yena (kanye nabantu ababecabanga njengami) wadala indlela Constellation Bert Hellinger, okuyinto Kusekelwe zamagama kuzo zonke izitayela kwengqondo.

Wakwazi ukubona amaphethini eziholela imikhaya ezingxabanweni elimazayo. Le ndlela isetshenziswa ngempumelelo alinganayo kokubili iqembu futhi umsebenzi ngamunye. Amaklayenti ingenza umuntu abaneminyaka engama 14 abafuna ngempela ukuthola isixazululo sezinkinga zabo. Akubalulekile ukuthi bathamele ekilasini ezinjalo ilukuluku lutho, ngoba into esemqoka lapha - isisusa esihle, hhayi bayangabaza. Tikhundla ku Hellinger kusite kubukana izinkinga ebudlelwaneni bemindeni, ukusebenza kahle khona ahlukahlukene izifo ukuphathwa kwabathintwayo, lapho esebenzelana nesizwe ukwesaba, esebenza isinqumo izingxabano kuleli qembu. Ekucwaningeni lezi zinkinga igxile imfihlo, non-ukudalulwa kolwazi etholwe ngokuhamba yokwelapha. Lena - indlela yobuchwepheshe psychotherapeutic emsebenzini wakhe isetshenziswa labo abaqeqeshwe ngokwanele, njengoba incazelo yaleli Imiphumela kanye ukuqondanisa uqobo ngqo izindawo incike zamakhono lochwepheshe futhi isipiliyoni lochwepheshe.

Tikhundla ku Hellinger zimi kanje: iklayenti owelapha iqembu lokuqala labantu kokuphuma kulabo akucabangayo ofanele kakhulu ekutadisheni esimweni esithile.

Okulandelayo, uzibeka esikhaleni eyabelwe lo msebenzi, njengoba utshela umuzwa siqu. Ngokuqondile nalo uphinde uqale umsebenzi. Abantu noma umumo (in the case of kwengqondo ngabanye), ibekwe esikhaleni iklayenti, ibonisa isithombe enganakile besimo eziyinkinga.

System ukubekwa ka Hellinger lethiwa ngoba kwaba impumelelo izinkinga letindzala, emihlanganweni embalwa aphethwe ngezikhawu eside. "Umndeni kunokubhanqanisa" - inkulumo livele idatha zengqondo - wukuthi esikhathini esidlule umndeni (jikelele - zonke uhlobo izihlobo) awukapheli. Imemori yokhokho obusa samanje, noma kudinga kwaqedwa ngezindaba ezazisele zilenga. Ngakho-ke, inzalo awusona ukuqedela okuthile kuqalile okhokho babo. kunokubhanqanisa okunjalo Kulula ukuqaphela - siyindawo ukuba uma enamathiselwe eziningi umzamo yokusebenzela injongo, futhi lutho uyaphuma. Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu aqaphelisise impilo yabo, njalo ogulayo; ongafuni anqikaze nanoma yimuphi umsebenzi ongase angisakwazi ukuzondla.

Kuyini okuphawuleka ukuthi substituents (Isizwe ikhasimende ekhetha for ukubekwa) ukudlala indima yomuntu, lapho lutho ayaziwa, kodwa, yize kunjalo, ngokwethembeka ukukhiqiza kabusha le nemizwa nemizwelo we esikhundleni esisodwa.

Tikhundla phezu Hellinger - indlela eyingqayizivele futhi okungajwayelekile, okusebenza, naphezu sobala mbumbulu yesayensi esotericism futhi shades.