Ingxabano umsebenzi, impahla yayo okwakhayo kanye elimazayo

Ingxabano - enjalo ijwayelekile futhi ajwayelekile kubo bonke umqondo, ngoba ngamunye wethu sibhekene nezimo ukungqubuzana ezimpilweni zabo siqu, emsebenzini, emgwaqeni, njll Ingxabano is nakanjani exhumene ne yokwanda okusheshayo imizwelo nangenxa ukucindezeleka, ngakho-ke kuvame ukuthi wabhalwa ngu kuphela elimazayo, izakhiwo elimazayo. Nokho, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo bakholelwa ukuthi izinhlangothi ezimbili zesimo ukungqubuzana: okungekuhle futhi omuhle. Ukushiya eceleni abayizibonelo ezimbi ukungqubuzana ekuphileni kwebantfu kanye baphendukela ezinhlangothini zalo ezinhle.

Design izici ezingqubuzana

Okokuqala, le mpi - kungcono isisusa ukuthuthukiswa. Ngokuqinisekile, lokhu nkulumo isebenza tembangave. Phela, uma ucabanga ngakho, ukuxabana, ukuphikiswa iqembu elibizwa, njengoba umthetho, ukwehlukana okwenzeka ngaphakathi futhi umbango, futhi, ngokulandelana, zihlale umfutho ukuze mncintiswano kanye nokuthuthukiswa ngamakhono.

Ingxabano - kungcono isisusa ukushintsha. Le misebenzi kungenziwa ngokuthi isiginali ingxabano. Ziyakwazi ezidingekayo ukuze senze kuyo isikhathi sokuzindla kuwukuphikisana, ukuzama ukuxazulula isimo ngaphambi kokuba sibe zingaxazululeki futhi "elimazayo '. Lezi "izingcingo" e ubudlelwane obufanele kukhona ukuxabana lokuqala nokungezwani phakathi kwabashadile, abazali nezingane. Futhi kubalulekile ukuba sijulise sekuvele isimo inkani futhi ephikelela, nokubona ukuthi uphinde uzame siqonde umnyombo izingxabano nokungezwani, kodwa zivame ukuphawula isidingo sokushintsha futhi ukuthola izindlela esisha ebuhlotsheni.

Namanje kungenzeka ukwaba kungqubuzana imisebenzi emihle isibopho kanye yekuchumana. Isikhathi esining impela imbangela ingxabano, okuholela engxabanweni innuendo nokusondelana imizwa. ezibonakala isimo banal lapho simbe kuze kube sekupheleni umuzwa "washiya" ibinzana, ukubaluleka zazo hhayi wachazela ngokugcwele engxoxweni, kungaholela emiphumeleni engathí sina, ukuhlukana ukuphila komkhaya noma phakathi nabajwayelene nabo. Kodwa kaningi nje ingxoxo nekhululekile, okuyinto iba "intuthuko" ebuhlotsheni, luvula izici ezintsha zobuntu, ezazingaziwa, futhi kuholela rapprochement futhi ileveli entsha ubudlelwane.

izici Lomuhle ukungqubuzana isiqediwe, kanye nokwenzeka "alulame" nabanye nemithelela kuvulwa omusha, engakaziwa kuze kube manje futhi equlekile ngokwayo potency abanye (lokhu libhekisela ngokuyinhloko ukungqubuzana intrapersonal). Ngokwesibonelo, ngokuvamile kakhulu le abelaphi kileziinkulumiswano isiguli usebenzisa idivaysi, ukukhulisa isipiliyoni kanye owayephethe i ukuphikisana sina kakade yangaphakathi, 'nokudiliza' ubuntu futhi ukuthi kube nengxabano yangaphakathi. Kubangela umuntu ukuya ngaphesheya nakho ezingokomzwelo okungelula nje elimazayo, futhi bafuna indlela yokuphuma, ngezinye izikhathi okuholela kokutholakala amathuba amasha. Nokho, siyagcizelela ukuthi yokwamukela zithithibele kuphela ochwepheshe abanolwazi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba beqa umngcele futhi musa eziphonsa umuntu endaweni enzima isimo esingokomzwelo, nga which he cha thola esidayisa ezakhayo.

Ungagqamisa izici ezinhle ukungqubuzana emphakathini. Lena ngokuyinhloko iqembu umsebenzi isibonakaliso (ikakhulukazi ukuphikisana isimo namanye amaqembu zenhlalo). Ingxabano izimo ngokuvamile imbangela ukudala ngaphakathi coalitions ithimba okukhuthaza ukufakwa ngendlela imisebenzi evamile iqembu wonke amalungu ethimba futhi unika wonke umuntu ithuba lokubonisa amakhono abo.

Nokho, akufanele sikhohlwe mayelana umsebenzi ebhubhisayo ingxabano, ikakhulukazi uma intrapersonal futhi kuhilela izinqubo ezithinta ukuthuthukiswa kanye zhizneosuschestvlenie abajwayelekile. On the indima eyakhayo yale nkinga angakhuluma kuphela uma ngenxa ukuqonda nezimbangela zayo, futhi banqobe crisis kubangelwa kubo, umuntu uba nakho okwengeziwe futhi uvuthwa, ngaphezulu "lukhuni" futhi kwaguqulwa emphakathini, isilungele izenzo ezintsha nangezenzo. Lokhu kuyiqiniso nangezingane maqondana izingxabano kuleli qembu. I nokubumbana ithimba, lo ezinkulu nakakhulu kwenzeka ezimpini, ngakho nokuqaphela nezimbangela zabo kanye yimpumelelo isinqumo ukushayisana isimo - lena VO ukulondoloza iqembu nendima yakhe imisebenzi.