Indlela yokubala usuku lokuzalwa?

Isifiso sokwazi usuku lokubeletha senziwa kubesifazane cishe cishe ngesikhathi esifanayo, lapho eqonda ukuthi ukhulelwe. Kule nkinga enzima, ngifuna ukuqinisekiswa hhayi kuphela kumama wesikhathi esizayo, kodwa kwamanye amalungu omndeni. Ngakho-ke, ukubalwa kosuku lokuzalwa kuyindaba enomthwalo wemfanelo, okumele kuhanjiswe kuyo yonke into engathí sina.

Uma ucabanga ukuthi ukucacisa usuku lokuzalwa komntwana kwanele ukungeza ngosuku olucatshangelwe lokukhulelwa kwezinyanga ezingu-9, khona-ke uyiphutha. Ngenxa yokuthi ukukhulelwa okuvamile, ngokwesilinganiso, kuthatha izinyanga ezingu-10 zenyanga, okuyizinsuku ezingu-280.

Ngakho ubala kanjani usuku lokuzalwa ngendlela efanele? Uma usuku lokukhulelwa lwaziwa, kulula ukwenza lokhu. Kubalulekile ukwengeza kulolu suku izinsuku ezingu-280, futhi usuku luchazwe. Kodwa ngokungajwayelekile owesifazane angasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi yiliphi usuku akhulelwe ngalo. Ngakho-ke, ezimweni eziningi, ukubalwa kufanele kwenziwe ngosuku lokuvota.

Noma yimuphi owesifazane uyazi ukuthi umjikelezo wakhe wokuya esikhathini uhlala isikhathi esingakanani, njengokubusa, yizinsuku ezingu-26-35. Ukuvuthwa kwenzeka, ezimweni eziningi, phakathi kwalo mjikelezo. Abesifazane abaningi bangakwazi ngisho nokuzwa lesi simo, ngoba ngaleso sikhathi babona izinhlungu ezibuhlungu, njengokuya esikhathini, ukwanda kwenani labamhlophe, futhi ngezinye izikhathi - ukubona indawo. Kodwa ngisho noma kungekho ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle ngesikhathi sokuvuthwa, kungenzeka ukuthi usho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi kwenzeka ngosuku lwe-12-14 (olunomjikelezo wamalanga angu-28). Lolu suku kufanele lithathwe ngosuku lokukhulelwa, okudingeka ngalo ukungeza izinyanga eziyishumi nenyanga ukubala usuku lokuzalwa.

Ngandlela-thile, ukukhulelwa kungase kwenzeke hhayi ngosuku lapho ubulili buba khona. Njengoba i-spermatozoa ingahlala isebenza izinsuku ezimbalwa. Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi ukulala ngokobulili kwenzeke ngosuku lweshumi lomjikelezo, futhi ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngosuku lweshumi nambili.

Ungakwazi ukubala usuku lokubeletha ngaphandle kokunquma usuku lokuvuthwa. Udokotela wezifo ezincane lapho esamukela khona uzomcela ngempela isiguli lapho sekuqala ukuya esikhathini. Yingakho bonke odokotela besifazane nabesifazane bakhuthazwa ukuba bagcine ikhalenda lapho kufanele babhale khona izinsuku zokuqala kwezinsuku ezibucayi. Phela, kusukela ngosuku lokuqala lokuya esikhathini lapho i-countdown iqala khona.

Ukwazi lolu suku, ungakwazi kalula ukubala usuku lokuzalwa, usebenzisa ifomula elula kakhulu ye-Negele. Ngokusho kwakhe, kubalulekile ukuthatha izinyanga ezintathu kusukela ngosuku lokuqala kokuya esikhathini ngaphambi kokukhulelwa, bese ufaka izinsuku ezingu-7 ngosuku olutholiwe. Isibonelo, izinsuku zokugcina ezibucayi ziqale ngo-10 Januwari. Sithatha izinyanga ezintathu - sithola ngo-Okthoba 10. Manje engeza izinsuku eziyisikhombisa bese uthola usuku ngo-Okthoba 17. Kulolu suku, kungenzeka ukuthi ingane izozalwa.

Kodwa-ke, amasu ahlongozwayo, etshela indlela yokubala usuku lokuzalwa, alungile. Ungathola kuphela usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana olulinganisiwe. Phela, akubona bonke abesifazane abanomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuvuthwa kungase kubambezeleke, noma, ngokuphambene, kwenzeke ngaphambi kosuku olufanele.

Ngakho-ke, indlela enembile kakhulu yokunquma usuku lapho ingane kufanele izalwe yi-ultrasound. Uma uqhuba i-ultrasound ekuqaleni kwesikhashana, usuku lokukhulelwa lunganqunywa ukuthi lungakapheli usuku olulodwa.

Ukunquma isikhathi sokukhulelwa ku-trimester yesibili nesithathu, udokotela uqondiswa ubukhulu bekhanda lomntwana kanye namalungu ayo. Kodwa-ke, kulokhu kunzima ukunquma ngokunembile usuku lokuzalwa kwengane encane, ngoba izingane zingathuthuka ngezindlela ezahlukene.

Njengoba ubona, kunzima kakhulu ukuthola usuku oluqondile lapho kuzalwa khona. Iphesenti elithile lamaphutha lenziwa yiqiniso lokuthi ukukhulelwa akuhlali njalo izinsuku ezingu 280. Kwezinye izimo, abesifazane babeletha izingane ezinempilo ephelele futhi ezigcwele isikhathi esingangesonto elingamashumi amathathu nesishiyagalolunye noma, ngokuqondile, ukubeletha kubambezeleka futhi kuwela isonto lokugcina isine-40 ukuya kweyesibili. Futhi lesi sikhathi sokukhulelwa akusona isifo sezempilo, kungumzimba owodwa womzimba.

Kodwa kunezikhathi ezithile ezijwayelekile. Isibonelo, uma kwenzeka owesifazane okhulelwe ekhulelwe amawele, ukubeletha cishe njalo kwenzeka ngaphambi kwamasonto amane.