Ukuvelela - ke kunengqondo

Ukuvelela - kuba izinga zokuziphatha lomuntu, egcizelela isifiso sakhe sokuba umholi uyifinyelele imigomo yakho phambi kwakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zinkinga kwasekuqaleni - wathola iziqu nge-honours izifundo, athola, ukuthatha nezikhundla emphakathini noma isikhundla emphakathini. Into ebalulekile ukuthi indlela ekupheleleni kungaba kwenziwe ngezindlela ezihlukene. Noma ngenxa izifundo, umsebenzi, noma - Ongasinaki izithakazelo zabanye, usongo, ukukhohlisa komuntu oshade naye. Ngakho-ke, lo "isifiso sokuvelela" - lena nje modality ukuthi ayinayo ecacile Umbala zokuziphatha. Kungaba kokubili omuhle, ebabonisa ukuzinikela nemibi, esibonisa ukuvelela yomuntu.

Ngakho, akukho welithi "isifiso sokuvelela oluhlanzekile, 'ukubaluleka kwakhe enamathiselwe ukhonkolo izenzo nangezenzo. Basuke kubangelwa nethonya lomphakathi futhi, uma nithanda, ukucindezela kokuziphatha ukumshumayeza. Ngamanye amazwi, isifiso sokuvelela - yomphakathi isigaba asebenzayo, ukwakha ukwazi ngabanye. Kunengqondo ngempela isibonelo "enye indaba": wonke umuntu wayebheke ochungechungeni TV "Izimpi Star 'angaphinde asikhumbule indaba Skywalker abasha. Lo mfana, khona-ke izinhloso insizwa BakaJehova ababenomusa ngayo inkolelo okumsulwa nabaqotho e akanacala, futhi into esemqoka - isifiso sokuba okungcono. Ngakho uma hhayi ukulahlekelwa umama, ngemva kokushona komkayo, owazi indlela izinto angase?

Kulula kabi: kuphela indoda itholakale isinyathelo ezifana ukudalwa amagugu. Amagama babodvwa ngeke bakhone ethwele umqondo, kodwa umongo kukhethwa izindlela kanye nokuzikhethela sophawu ezifanele - thina uqhubeke kusukela izinzuzo + zabo siqu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngokuphelele zobugovu sahlela "kochwepheshe" futhi "nebubi." Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi kulokho thina sokuvalelisa zabo, kuncike kanjani esikhathini esizayo abaphila ngayo.

Nokho, uma sibona ukuvelela usezwa emphakathini esebenzayo, bese-ke kuyadingeka ukuba ukhulume ukuhamba siqu futhi ikhono izintaba endleleni yayo. Futhi lapha, futhi, kunenkinga: kanjani ukubeka uphawu? Wena ikani ngokuqinisekile ekuhambeni indlela Heroine we ifilimu "eMoscow akakholelwa Nezinyembezi" noma (kimi Abaningi bangase bangavumelani) Borisa Eltsina yesibili uhhafu we 80s. Catherine wakwazi viva ukubekezela ayo, "zifihlwe ezijulile lokuzula" hlambalaza nokululazeka, ukusizakala ulwazi lwabo kanye nakho. Futhi njengoba umvuzo - okuthunyelwe ka umqondisi ifektri.

Ngakwelinye ihlangothi, uBoris Yeltsin wenqaba ilungelo lokuba yingxenye ebalulekile ye "okuholela", ojantshi, wakwazi ukunqoba ukwesaba abantu (siqala okwesikhashana), dekapitalizirovat party dolobha futhi esikhundleni salo semthethweni kwabantu. Cishe uthando. Khumbula ukuthandwa kwakhe yokwakha kabusha (1989-1991) eminyakeni edlule!

Kodwa zombili lezi zibonelo efana nomunye. Heroes umhlatshelo isimo sabo sangaphambili, inkululeko yabo kanye nezifiso. Futhi kuzo zombili izindawo kudlalwa nesifiso esinamandla sokuvelela. Meaning of izwi lapha - isisulu. Kufanele bakwazi umhlatshelo owodwa ukuze uthole okuthe xaxa. Futhi kanjalo siyawina kuka yabo yilabo abaphikisana nazo.

Kepha manje siyakuthi buya Skywalker. Walamukela umhlatshelo, futhi waba yisisulu kokufuna kwakhe ukuvelela siqu, ekubeni Darth Vader. Ukuvelela - akusiwona nje kuqala, emigomweni zokuphila kwakho. Ngokuyinhloko kuyinto ukucabanga ngendlela ehluzekile. Lona umnyombo.