Njengoba Smartphones zilimaze ubuhlobo bakho?

Izinga lezahlukaniso eRussia lubhakuza azungeze 50 amaphesenti, kodwa indaba ayipheleli lapho. Ngokocwaningo olwenziwa isikhungo National isifundo umbono weningi e-United States, amaphesenti angu-60 abantu abangekho kukhona othandana naye, bathi angithi bayajabula kakhulu nabo. Izizathu ezivamile ukuthi zaziwa kithi isikhathi eside - kungcono izinkinga zemali, ekunganelisekeni ukuphila obuseduze nezingane ndawonye. Kodwa manje kukhona esinye isizathu ukuthi zonke Abashadikazi ethatha isinqumo sokufaka isicelo isahlukaniso - Smartphones.

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Akunjalo kudala, ososayensi benza ucwaningo ngokuhlola indlela eziyingozi kungaba smartphone ukuba nobuhlobo obungathi. Babebheka lomkhuba yomphakathi ngokuthi fabbing. Lokhu kuhlukunyezwa yezinto zobuchwepheshe phakathi zokuxhumana nabanye abantu. Esimeni semakhaya ubuhlobo, ososayensi behlola kangaki umlingani romantic ophazanyiswa smartphone yakho ebukhoneni ngesiwombe sesibili. It kuvela ukuthi abantu abaningi baphazanyiswa Smartphones. Ngokwesibonelo, i-American ejwayelekile hlola smartphone yakho njalo ngemva kwemizuzu engu eziyisithupha nengxenye, noma mayelana 150 izikhathi ngosuku. Ngakho, fabbing abe imbangela yangempela yokungabi ingxabano. Ngokwesibonelo, kwelinye cwaningo amaphesenti angu-70 ababambiqhaza bathi fabbing i- ikhono lazo uxhumana abalingani romantic.

Abaningi bethu bazi ukuthi kwenzekani ngesikhathi fabbinga: wena eduze oshade naye, kodwa uyazi ukuthi ukunaka kwakhe njalo ukuphazanyiswa. Kodwa wena futhi cishe baye endaweni yakhe, lapho waqaphela ukuthi wayeka ukulalela ingxoxo ebonakalayo ngokusebenzisa Facebook tape.

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Ekutadisheni kwabo, abacwaningi wanquma ukuhlola nemiphumela kabi. Bona okwaxoxwa 175 abadala lokuthandana nomunye umuntu enganakile, kusukela ngaphesheya-United States, futhi wabacela ukuba ugcwalise lemibuzo. Izibonelo izitatimende ukuthi adidiyelwe ke: "Mina nomngane wami ushiye smartphone yakho, lapho uzokwazi ukubona lapho siya ndawonye" futhi "Mina nomngane wami usebenzisa smartphone yabo uma sihlangene."

Survey ababambiqhaza futhi wasebenzisa isikali elinganisa kangaki smartphone ungumthombo ukungqubuzana ebuhlotsheni babo. Enye izinyathelo isikali indlela abaphendula weneliseka nobuhlobo babo zamanje, ukuphila kwakho, futhi uma bezizwa becindezelekile.

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Ososayensi baye bathola ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwamafoni smart kuyinkinga yangempela ubudlelwane, kanye nemali, ubulili nezingane.

Abantu ababika amazinga aphezulu fabbinga futhi wakhuluma iqiniso ukuthi ngazimbili yabo izingxabano ngokuvamile kuphakama ngenxa ukusetshenziswa Smartphones. Akumangalisi ukuthi amazinga aphakeme ukusetshenziswa Smartphones ezihlobene ne amazinga kwehle wokwaneliseka ubuhlobo.

Ngakho, kubonakala sengathi unganakile igajethi elingenacala obukela phansi ngekhwalithi yobuhlobo, uma ujwayele ukuyisebenzisa khona uzakwethu romantic. Lokhu kungadala nezinye izakhiwo, ngoba kuhlola kwaveza nokuthi lapho thina abangajabule ngothando, futhi mancane amathuba okuthi waneliswe lonke ekuphileni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, laba bantu aba maningi amathuba okuba ukubika isimo sokucindezeleka.

Kungani fabbing ngokumelene umlingani uyakwazi ukubangela umonakalo onjalo ebudlelwaneni?

Zikhona izincazelo okungenani ezimbili kungenzeka lesi simanga. hypothesis Offset isikisela ukuthi isikhathi esichithwa smartphone, displaces (noma kuyancipha) ukuxhumana elibaluleke kakhulu nge engxenyeni yesibili, buthaka ubuhlobo. Okwesibili, ososayensi ngokuthi ingxabano theory. Uma sikubeka kalula, smartphone ungumthombo ingxabano, okuholela izingxabano. Yiqiniso, kungase kumenze ubuhlobo bakho nomlingani wakho.

Ngakho yini isiphetho esingayenza?

Ngisho noma sizama ukuba ningayeki kakhulu ukubaluleka fabbingu, njalo lapho engakwenza imizwa ezingemnandi e umlingani. Ngempela, ngomqondo, ozakwethu romantic uthanda ukuchitha isikhathi amafoni abo, hhayi nathi. Lokhu kuyoholela ekuthuleni umuzwa wokuthi oshade naye akusho uyayazisa wena, futhi umphumela waba ukuthi ngeke sizizwe silondekile lobu buhlobo.