Indlela ngokwehlukana nomyeni wakhe "igazi kancane"?

Kwabanye, igebe - ke kuyinhlekelele eliyingqayizivele. Kwabanye - umcimbi kunzima, kodwa hhayi inhlekelele. Indlela ukuhlukana nomyeni wakhe ukuze singathwesi shí ukucindezeleka futhi ngiqale ukuphila nge azikhohlwe ngokuphelele izono zethu? Ukupheliswa ubudlelwane kuyaqabukela elula neqondile. Njalo, lo mbhangqwana ungakwenza bevumelana konke ngesizotha nangokuthula. Ukwelulekwa sokusebenza kwengqondo noma onguchwepheshe izingxabano emndenini Kuyokusiza ukuba uqonde indlela ngokwehlukana nomyeni wakhe, asele naye ngoxolo. Okokuqala kumele kube owesifazane yena nomyeni wakhe. Futhi-ke, izingane. Nokho, indlela Universal ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga lapho, kungenzeka ukunikeza iseluleko esithile elula sendlela ukuba ashiye umyeni wakhe "igazi kancane" futhi ngaphandle izigemegeme ezenzeka kaShakespeare.

Okokuqala sihlaziye okulindele futhi izinhlelo eziphathelene nokuphila komkhaya. Yini kuhlulekile kule umshado evumelana nawe futhi yini onganelisekile nalokho awusoze nto? uhlaziyo Unjalo "iphoyinti" ukusiza ngihlele izinto eziza kuqala. Ngokwesibonelo, e Umbono wakho we isizathu isehlukaniso kuba ukunaka kukaJobe kwezinye futhi abesifazane noma ngisho namacala okuvukela umbuso. Wena ungathanda ukubona ke, ubulokhu into wokwenama. Cabanga ngokuthi yini ongayenza into ukushintsha isimo. Uma kungenjalo, kufanele imphathe kanjani? Yini ukushintsha e ngokwakho ukuze usebenzise okuhlangenwe nakho inzuzo? Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi anakekele yena - ukubukeka kwakhe, izwe lakhe elingaphakathi, ungazami ngazo zonke izindlela ukuze zidonse ukunaka we umlingani aphumayo?

Okwesibili, uma isinqumo sesivuthiwe, uqale ukulungiselela ngokungashwampuluzi for abaphilayo ozimele. Indlela ngokwehlukana nomyeni wakhe, uma omunye kini engaphansi ngokuphelele ngakolunye, noma ube nezingane ezincane? Sonke kumelwe acabange, bese ucoca abayoba lapho ukuphila, kanjani bahlele ukuqeqeshelwa izingane. Uma umngane womshado uyenqaba ukondla ngokugcwele wena ngokwezimali, kungaba ngenxa yezizathu eziningana. Mhlawumbe ngale ndlela ukuthi uzama ukulondoloza ukubusa zezimali, negunya phezu kwawo ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakho. Noma asenazo kakade "umndeni okunye", futhi uyaqiniseka ukuthi ungakwenza nazo zonke bebodwa, bazithola ukwesekwa. Khumbula, esikhundleni ukuthukwa kanye nokuchazwa ubudlelwane, wayehlale engithethisa ukukhala, noma kunjalo kangcono kakhulu indlela eyakhayo. Akafuni ukusekela? Ungafaka isicelo nesondlo enkantolo. Nokho, okokuqala zama yima ngezinyawo zabo. Cela umndeni, kodwa ungazihlanganisi ukugeleza. Khumbula ukuthi ukuphila kwakho kusezandleni zakho futhi une okokuqala nokwalo. Thola umsebenzi ukuthi uzokunika ubuncane ukuzinza. Ukuzizwa beqiniseka nakwezinye izici zokuphila, uyokuhlomela xaxa ukudabuka.

On umbuzo lapho ukuba ashiye umyeni wakhe, ngokusobala ngisho wezengqondo ukuphendula. Kungenzeka ukuthi lapho nobabili ngomumo. Okungukuthi, nobabili kufanele nendawo yokuhlala, kukhona konke ayeziphilisa ngakho, futhi kukhona amathuba esikhathini esizayo. Kunokuba ilingisa futhi ahlupheke, ucabange indlela ukushintsha isimo sibe ngcono. Ngokuvamile, nabo abazali ezinganeni ngokwazo uhlangabezana ngenxa yokuthi ukuthi indodakazi yakhe is kokuhlukanisa nomyeni wakhe. Phela, kubonakala sengathi ezinyakaziswayo izisekelo ukuphila kwakhe. Ikakhulukazi eqinile izinkolelo isizukulwane amadala, beqiniseka ukuthi "ngenxa umndeni" Bangase bangakunaki izithakazelo zabo nokwenza noma ikuphi ukuzidela. Futhi eqinisweni, zonke izinto zingase zishintshe. Futhi ukuthi isehlukaniso uyonika ithuba ekugcineni ukuthola injabulo yabo siqu, ukuze uqaphele ngokwabo, nokuzethemba ngokwazo. Ngakho-ke, iseluleko main: bheka futhi agcizelele izinzuzo discontinuity nokuphila ezizimele. Isikhathi esining impela, zingabantu okungaphezu minuses.