Ukukhathazeka - izimbangela, ukucaciswa nezindlela zokususa

Izinyembezi ziyindlela yokusabela emvelweni ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene zokuphila. Ngisho nasebuntwaneni, ingane iqala ukuveza "i-reflex lacrimal" ngenkuthalo, ngaleyo ndlela ikhuthaza umama (ubaba, ugogo, umkhulu) ukuxhumana nokuveza uthando. Ingane ngale ndlela ithi ubanda, ufuna ukudla noma ufuna nje ukuzwa izwi lakho siqu. Kodwa hhayi kuphela abantwana abangakwazi ukuveza imizwa yabo ngezinyembezi - futhi umuntu omdala ngokuvamile ubapha intando. Bonke abantu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi bayodabuka, izizathu ezingase zihluke - kokubili ukucasuka nosizi, futhi kusukela enjabulweni nasenjabulo.

Lo muntu akhala nje ngoba ufuna (isibonelo, ngokubuka i-melodrama yothando noma esenzakalweni emndenini), kodwa nangenxa yezizathu zomzimba. Izinyembezi ziwukubonakaliswa kwemizwelo, uhlobo lokuzitholela umzimba. Umuntfu ngemuva kwekutfola "inhlitiyo" lenhle (lokusho, ukukhala), uzizwa kangcono kakhulu. Ngokwezengqondo eziningi zengqondo, kubalulekile ukukhala. Izinyembezi zisiza ukuphumula futhi ubuke impilo ngokubuka okusha "okusha". Kaningi kangakanani amantombazane amancane aphonswa yizingane, ekhala emceleni usuku lonke. Qaphela ukuthi ekuseni bavele bemele imicabango nemizwelo ehlukile. Uma ucindezela ukukhishwa kwemizwelo njalo, isimiso sezinzwa singagungqiswa. Ngakho-ke ngezinye izikhathi umuntu umane nje kufanele akhulule izinyembezi, ukuze angalimazi impilo yakhe.

Kodwa akudingeki ukhale ngokweqile: umuntu okhala njalo akenzi nje ubuhlungu, kodwa futhi uyacasula labo abaseduze. Kulokhu, ukuphumula, izizathu zazo ezingaqondakali ngokuphelele, akuyona into kodwa isifo esibi. Impilo yengqondo yomuntu ingase ihlupheke uma izinyembezi ezingapheli zihambisana nokucasuka, isimo sengqondo esibi nokuhlukunyezwa. Umuntu onjalo udinga ukwelashwa, noma kunjalo kungase kuzwakale, kodwa lapha inkambo yezokwelapha kanye nemithi kuyadingeka.

Ukukhathazeka, izizathu zezimo zokuphila ezivamile, kungase kungasho ukuthi umuntu unesifo sengqondo. Abantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi besifazane, babonisa leli zwe kaningi. Amadoda, ngokungafani nabesifazane, abakwazi ukukhala ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwabo. Lokhu kuziphatha kubhekwa okungalungile, izinyembezi zandisa ukuphila, ziyakwazi ukubuyisela amandla namandla. Kodwa kusukela ekubelethweni, abafana batshelwa ukuthi akufanele bakhale, kodwa yonke imizwelo yabo kumele ilawulwe. Amadoda angakhali, avame ukuvezwa yimizwelo embi, ukwesaba nokunganakwa. Ukuze ukhale izinyembezi, khala, ukhale, kudingekile ukuthi wonke umuntu akhonze, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka yobudala nobani bomuntu, kodwa kuphela ngokulinganisela, futhi kuphela ngokufanele - ngokuthula, ngokuthula nangesikhathi esithile.

Imizwelo eyedlulelekayo ingahamba nabo bobabili abadala kanye nezingane ezincane. Ngokuvamile owesifazane uba mhlophe kakhulu lapho egqoka ingane engaphansi kwenhliziyo yakhe. Ukukhala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuyinto evamile, amahomoni omama ozayo ahlale esesigqi esinzima, ephoqa owesifazane ukuba athulule izinyembezi nganoma yisiphi isizathu.

Kodwa uma amehlo omuntu omdala avamile ehlala "endaweni emanzi" ngenxa yesifo sengqondo, khona-ke umuntu kufanele alwe nalo. Isazi sengqondo sezengqondo noma isazi sezinzwa sizosiza lapha, ngubani ozophendula umbuzo okhathazayo wokukhipha izinyembezi. Ngokuvamile, ukwelashwa kunqunywe ngendlela yokwenza izidakamizwa, ukuthatha i-infusions kanye namakhambi, ukudla okujwayelekile, futhi "isiguli" sibheke emizwa emihle. Kubalulekile ukuzungezela imizwa ejabulisayo nenjabulo, ukuqeda ukuphazanyiswa okungalungile kwezenzakalo noma abantu besithathu kuze kube phakade. Futhi-ke ukuphumula, izizathu ezivela ngaphandle, kungashiya isikhathi eside.

Umuntu ongabonisi imizwelo akakwazi ukuzwelana nokuthanda. Umuntu onjalo akanakho umuzwa ovamile futhi ufana ne-robot.