Sekuyisikhathi eside abantu nge esikalini ngobukhulu futhi lusho kokuzalwa lomshado. A christening - lena ukugubha lokuzalwa, kodwa khona amaqhawe lesi senzakalo. Futhi uthule ekujuleni isifiso enganakile kule isikhathi kubuthwe inani elikhulu kunawo wonke labantu etafuleni konke nge esikalini esiphezulu. Futhi egijima zonke izihlobo nge udaba olulodwa ukuphokophela ukuthi udinga ngoba intombazanyana christening noma ungumfana. Nakuba i-namaqhawe nemigubho musa njalo ufuna celebration ezibanzi futhi kuyakhathaza ezinjalo. Sikhuluma lapha ngalokho kufanele azilungiselele futhi kanjani ukuba senze isinqumo esifanele.
Njengetshe lomshado, Christening yahlukaniswa ngezigaba ezimbili: emcimbini esontweni futhi mkhosi. Mangisho ukuthi esemthethweni ingxenye ikakhulukazi incike oda, imithetho kanye izifiso abefundisi uyithempeli lapho ohlela ukusisebenzisa. Futhi lapha kuziwa umkhuba ngezinye izikhathi bahlukene. Ngakho, musa ukufunda lazy futhi Akubuze ngqo nalo mpristi, ongumphathi bazocula isakramente, yonke imininingwane, izidingo kanye nezifiso. Unganqikazi ukucela ke esontweni konke okudingekayo ukuze intombazane christening. Ungabi okungahambi kahle, uma uwamukela ezivela kumpristi futhi ukufakwa okungokomoya, futhi izincazelo mayelana nomcimbi oluzayo, ngoba ngaphansi imicikilisho tinsel afihliwe izinto ezijulile kakhulu futhi sina, ekuqondeni okwandisa impumelelo kubeka isimo sengqondo okufanele empilweni umuntu omusha. ndaba Ezingokomoya mncane kakhulu: ngeke isinyathelo ngamandla, kodwa zinsale futhi ngezinye izikhathi kakhulu impela yezimo abhekene futhi ngokungazi.
Kuleli zwe lanamuhla, eziningi abayinakanga izichasiso zangaphandle. Ngakho-ke, kukholelwa ukuthi into esemqoka ukuthi kuyadingeka ngoba intombazanyana christening, kungcono ngubo Chic umntwana ukuze godparents wakhe, futhi bonke ababekhona, kanye izinto ezibizayo kanye izesekeli. ISonto sivame ukufika kuleli qophelo: ivumela igqoka curvy ngoba christenings, iziphambano segolide isakramente ngokudubula. Kodwa kunezinhlobo ezingaphezu sengqondo Orthodox: ingane ebandleni kufanele agqoke nje, elula ukusebenzisa izinto ezijwayelekile, futhi kuphela ke, ungakwazi ezigubha leli holidi okufunayo futhi kanjani ufuna. Ngaphambi kokuba uNkulunkulu ngoba bonke bayalingana, ubeke isiphambano igolide kuyodingeka amandla olukhulu kunalolu zethusi. Kodwa isimo samanje kwengqondo kungathinta wonke ingane impilo yakho yonke ngokwezinga elikhulu kunanoma iyiphi ngemfanelo, izithombe kanye nemigqondo ababekhona.
Kuyona inikele konke lokhu, futhi okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu siqu, Ngingathi ukuthi unenjongo kakhulu ukusebenzisa ihembe ukubhapathizwa. Okungcono nakakhulu, uma abethela phakathi kwemilenze. Kulokhu, zonke izingxenye ledzingekako Yitshele ingane evulekile kanye uphawu lwesiphambano kuyinto zibelula ukugcina ingane isikhathi eside impela. Futhi emva kokuphothulwa izimiso futhi ungakwazi bagqoke up umntwana, futhi umphelelisi yangasese oyithandile izesekeli.
Esinye isidingo intombazane christening? Isonto ku izigqoko, izicathulo nezinto zokuhloba akuyona zinkulu. Futhi ngakho abake bambuza ukususa. Kodwa ukukhanya elikhulu nje badinga ithawula. Sicela uqaphele ukuthi indodakazi yakho izogcina ukuphila. Uma ingane incane kakhulu, ungakwazi agqoke amasokisi amhlophe kanye cap ukukhanya. Ukukhetha odezhku umntwana, cabanga ukuthi godparents kusheshe futhi kalula ususe lonke. Lengatfolakali namuhla, umkhuba ukucwiliswa egcwele ifonti wobhapathizo wengane, kodwa imilenze, izingalo, intamo kanye nekhanda ukuze wazala wonke ama-akhawunti. Hlale ukhumbula lokhu futhi godfathers ukuxwayisa ngezinkinga kungenzeka.
Futhi okubaluleke - ungakhathazeki. Abefundisi - abantu ezolile kakhulu, nesineke futhi ejwayele zonke lezi izinqubo. Ngisho noma ukwenza okuthile hhayi kusengaphambili, umama noma ezinye abasizi ukusiza, ngokushesha futhi neqhaza ngazo zonke izindlela. Ngokuvamile, ngisho izinto ezidingekayo - iziphambano, nezigqizo, imifanekiso, njll angathengwa lapha endaweni. Kodwa abantu amabika, ngizama ukuthi ngingabi ukuthatha it mathupha futhi musa ukweluleka wena. Awukwazi ukuhlala ukuthonya izimo, kodwa uphatheke kabi ngakho futhi bonakalise kwemizwelo lomunye akudingekile.
Lo mkhosi main iphelile. Manje ungakwazi asonge izandla uphumule nokuqukethwe kwenhliziyo. Hlela yonke indlela ukuthi lalinethezeke wena kanye nengane yakho. Ngikufisela inhlahla!