Ngabe kusho ukuthini inkulumo ethi "okuhle kufanele kube nokulala"

Ngabe kusho ukuthini inkulumo ethi "okuhle kufanele kube nokulala"? Lapho uqala ukuzwa lesi sitatimende, uzicabange ngokungacabangi ngalokhu, kodwa luhlobo luni lokuhle futhi kungani edinga amathanga? Omunye uzonikeza umntwana oyisisulu, ovikela impahla yakhe emiphakathini yabantu abanobukhwele, kanti abanye bavele bahlukumeze amahlombe abo: okufana nokuhlakanipha kwabantu abaza kithi kusukela ekujuleni kwamakhulu eminyaka. Ake sibone ukuthi yikuphi okushiwo yile nkulumo ethi "okuhle kufanele kube nokulala" nokuthi kubonakala kanjani.

Ukuzivocavoca ngomqondo ozwakalayo ngezimbongi ezinamakhono

Ngokusho kukaJevgeny Yevtushenko, inkulumo ephathelene nokuhle engakwazi ukuzimela yona yaphakanyiswa nguMikhail Svetlov kubafundi be-Literary Institute njengendlela yokuthuthukisa ukucabanga okungokomfanekiso. Kwenzeka kude nango-1959. Ngcono kunabanye, uStanisaniv Kunyaev oneminyaka engamashumi amabili nesikhombisa wabhekana nomsebenzi. Ngakho imigqa edumile yazalwa.

Kungenzeka ukuthi imbongi encane ayizange ibeke imali ebalulekile ekudaleni kwayo yonke indawo, kusho ukuthi "okuhle kufanele kube nezilaleli" kuchazwa ngokuthi i-hyperbole. Kodwa-ke, isiteji sokuqala sabukeka sinesihe futhi sinamandla kangangokuthi ngokushesha kwahlukana phakathi kwabantu.

Njengoba kuyaziwa, eminyakeni engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nesishiyagalolunye yentshisekelo yabantu bekhulu leminyaka ezithakazelweni ezincwadini nasezinkondlweni zaziphezulu kakhulu. Emahholo ekhonsathini nasezindlini zangasese ezifundweni zomlobi zahlelwa, ukuhlelwa kwabaculi bezingoma ze-bardic kwahlelwa.

Akukakushiywa ukuthi inkondlo efundwa ngentshiseko komunye wabusuku bombongo yahlaba umxhwele abahlakaniphile, incazelo yegama elithi "okuhle kufanele ibe nelabo" yaba yisikhathi sezingxoxo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, leli gama lazuza ukuqashelwa, laqala ukubonakala njengesaga. Lesi simo sivamile ezincwadini zaseRussia, kwanele ukukhumbula umdlalo ka-A. Griboyedov "Yeha kusuka kuWe", ephulwe phansi ibe izingcaphuno ezihambisana nomugqa.

Udinga izibhamu ezinhle?

Yini okuhle? Lo mqondo uhlanganisa izimfanelo ezinhle zomuntu ngamunye: ukuziphatha okuphakeme, uzwela, ububele kwabanye. Ukumemeza okuhle kumuntu ozwela izinkinga zabanye abantu, uzama ukusiza wonke umuntu ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi ngokuvamile ukulimaza yena. Kunzima ukucabanga ngendlela enhle ngezintambo. Uma ukuhlukumezeka kuvela kuye, yikuphi uhlobo lomusa esingakhuluma ngalo?

Kodwa kukhona elinye iphuzu lokubuka, elilandela nje ngokuzwakala kwesiteji esidumile sezinkondlo. Uma ucabanga ngakho, incazelo yegama elithi "okuhle kufanele ibe ngamahlombe akho" kusho ukuthi umuntu kufanele akwazi ukuma, hhayi ilungelo lakhe lokwenza imisebenzi emihle. Ukulwa nabantu abanobulalayo abathi: "Ungayi, ungenzi, kodwa kungani uyayidinga, ngeke isebenze," izingodo zizosiza kakhulu. Kodwa ngifuna okuningi ukusebenzisa lokhu kanye nezinye izikhali njengokungavamile ngangokunokwenzeka.