Izinkinga ukuthi ungase uhambisane ukukhetha zokuphila. Okubhaliwe ngolimi Russian

Umbuzo ukushaya omunye wemizila ebaluleke kakhulu iziqu esikoleni. Abaningi bathi umuntu afe esemncane ezifana le nsizwa kunzima kakhulu ukuba siqonde lokho kungaba imbangela konke ukuphila kwakhe. "Kukhethwa indlela yokuphila" - indaba isiRashiya ku izindikimba ezinjengo- kuzokhuthaza yimuphi umfundi ukuba acabange ajule ezintweni ezibaluleke kakhulu. Phela, lokhu kuzoncika hhayi kuphela kwangaphakathi nokwaneliseka ekuphileni we omdala esizayo, kodwa ngezindlela eziningi, futhi zezimali inhlalakahle.

Ukukhetha zokuphila - umsebenzi, ukuze bakwazi ukuhlela izinto eziza kuqala

Akufanele kube ukucabanga nje abstract. Ngemva ukushaya kwasekuqaleni kuphathelene nesenzakalo esingokoqobo. Bafunde esikoleni esithile, umuntu kumelwe uthole umsebenzi elifanele bese ukuthole for imali yangempela. Yingakho kubaluleke kangaka kuwukukhetha efanele yokuphila. Indzaba-agumenti kumele kube uhlobo umkhuba, uhambo wangaphakathi cwaningo owandulelayo imikhuba yabo.

Izinkinga ezingase nginivimbe kwesinqumo lesifanele mkhakha esizayo

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi trite kuzwakala, kodwa ngokuvamile kakhulu umndeni nesimo esiphuthumayo kungaba isithiyo ukuthi umi endleleni kwencazelo ubizo lwakhe. Ikakhulukazi lokhu kusebenza futhi nakulabo ababona neze ngisho nangaphambi embundwini ubudala. Isikhathi esining impela abazali noma abangane bangase bangazi ukuphoqelela imibono yabo nasengqondweni ephahlwe insizwa abonisa ukungavuthwa. Futhi, zikhona izimo lapho kwenzelwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile kakhulu. Ngokwesibonelo, ubaba ufuna ingane ukulandela ezinyathelweni zakhe futhi ube esisemqoka ummeli, usomabhizinisi, udokotela. Abanye abazali bakholelwa ukuthi bake baphila ilungelo lokubeka amkhethayo ukuphila. Kokuqamba izaba ezahlukene nokuphikisana Lingase kuthathwe ingane yabo ezingeni ukucabanga okunengqondo. Kodwa ekujuleni wonke umuntu uyazi ubizo lwakhe, futhi ningalokothi okujabulisayo nokwanelisayo intando yomunye.

ukuqondanisa Ofanele amagugu

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngezinye izikhathi engase yakhe udonga phakathi insizwa ubizo lakhe isinyathelo ngokwakhe. Lokhu kunjalo uma inhliziyo yakhe kukhona ezijulile ukungqubuzana intrapersonal, okuyinto iminyaka eminingi ukuba ixazululwe. Noma naziphi ezinye izimo kumvimbe bagxile essentials - ukuphila kwakhe. Ngokwesibonelo, njengoba ngokuvamile kwenzeka kwezinye babantu abampofu futhi ezikhathalela imindeni enezingane eziningi, lapho isimiso amagugu muhle kakhulu kunemiphumela eyingozi ohlangothini cell emphakathini, amalungu ayo. Schoolboy ungacabanga ukuthi into yokuqala kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi sakhe sokuphumula futhi kudinga umzamo umndeni, indiva izithakazelo zabo.

Kodwa ngenxa wokuzilibazisa kungaba nesithakazelo esijulile, okuyinto esikhathini esizayo kuzoholela indlela yentuthuko yobuchwepheshe. Indatshana kwi "Khetha indlela yokuphila" Kumelwe waphinda ukukhumbuza wonke umuntu ukuthi lo mbuzo kufanele njalo anesikhundla alawula uhlelo ukubaluleka kwanoma yimuphi umuntu sina.

imvelo Esibi nomphakathi

Inkampani. Ibaluleke kangakanani la maqembu amancane nomphakathi izingane zabo! Wonke umuntu ebonakala isidingo ukuchaza ngokwabo - noma kunjalo, ukuchitha ubunikazi ngokusebenzisa ubulili babo, ubudala, ubuzwe nenkolo. iqembu ephansi futhi limelela ngenye yezindlela ukunquma indawo yayo ilanga. Kodwa ngokuvamile yena udlala nge intsha a ihlaya elibi.

Eba inkampani bengafaneleki, umfana noma intombazane, ngakolunye uhlangothi, azizwa eqiniseka kakhudlwana. Ngakolunye - ngenxa yalesi umuzwa ukuvikelwa komphakathi, bona babe nesimo kwezinkambiso ukuziphatha alien kubo enhliziyweni. Ngenxa yalokho, bangase ukulahla umdlalo wabo esivuna ukuzijabulisa ngakho ukuchitha isikhathi. Empeleni, lezi 'abangane' zimane nomhawu noma yimaphi amakhono le nsizwa bese ugcine iSilekeleli Sokwazisa yakhe. Nsizwa akhohlwe ukuthi omunye imisebenzi yayo esemqoka ukhethwe ayo zokuphila. I-agumenti lokubhala abazali - isibonelo, "ngiyobe sengiqala ukucabanga ngokuqomisana ke ngonyaka ozayo" - alubuqedi kudideka okungaphakathi. Ngakho-ke, lapha ikhambi kumele kube sobala: noma okubi inkampani, noma ukuphila kwakho, okuyinto uzoqala futhi uqhubeke ngenhlonipho.