Izingane Naughty - kuyinto evamile?

Azikho izingane Naughty, njengoba kungekho izingane eziphelele futhi zalalela. Noma yimuphi umntwana iziphatha ngendlela ehlukile "izimo inikezwe" ezahlukene. Futhi lokho kulungile. Isikhathi, indawo, abantu okukuye ingane kuwuthinta futhi ezihlukahlukene abaningi izinto noma imuphi ingelosi ku imp, futhi okuphambene nalokho.

ingane engalaleli njalo ngasizathu simbe, hhayi nje. umsebenzi omdala - siqonde umnyombo ebuntwaneni kwaneliswa nezifiso. Yiqiniso, kumelwe acabangele iminyaka yakhe. Ukungalaleli kuka-amathathu encane kuhlukile kunokunikeza "zibhekise" Lapho esemusha, kodwa zisekelwe into eyodwa - isifiso ukuheha ukunakwa, ukubonisa uhlamvu.

Kusukela umbono kwengqondo, izinkinga zezemfundo kwezingane zenziwe zaba zimbi kakhulu ngesikhathi izigaba ezithile zokuphila. izingane ezingalaleli kungaba kufanele baziphathe izikhathi ezimbalwa ehlazisayo empilweni yami. Libhekisela nezinkinga okuthiwa 3, 7 futhi iminyaka engu-13.

Eminyakeni 3 ngokushesha ngempela iqala ukubonisa ubuntu bengane. Ngalesi sikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi ukuziphatha umntwana manje hhayi kakhulu ngenxa izimfanelo zakhe siqu njengoba isici angokwemvelo. Phakathi obumbi kweminyaka emithathu ubudala, isikhundla lengane, "Mina" emhlabeni kuzwakala "ungafuni, mina ngeke, akukho." Lena inkathi enzima, hhayi kubazali nje kuphela, bonke abakulo ukushaqeka ngu aguqulayo ingane yakho sicindezela imp ongalawuleki. Akulula ukuba alandise futhi oneminyaka emithathu le, namanje akazange azi kanjani ukuba sinqobe imizwa yabo futhi avikele amalungelo abo nakanjani atholakalayo.

Kakhulu lula izimpilo nomunye ngangokunokwenzeka, ukwamukela imithetho kuwubala. Lokho kungcono ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi umuntu omdala futhi unelungelo lokunquma inkinga abanye ayinangozi efana nokuthi umbala amasokisi ukugqoka. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abanye ezindabeni eziyisisekelo kudingeka siqiniseke omdala ukuba baqine futhi musa ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuthi ukusetshenziswa.

Lapho ngineminyaka engu-7, kufika isikhathi esinzima esilandelayo. I ingane iya esikoleni, uthola indawo entsha ngaye, siqala ukuba ngenkuthalo ukuxhumana ontanga. Empilweni yakhe negunya elisha - nguthisha wokuqala. Kuyadingeka ukuba balungiselele yokuthi "Maryvanna" iyoba umuntu yengane yakho ehlakaniphile kakhulu kule planethi, izwi layo - umthetho futhi abazali futhi phikisana. izingane ezingalaleli ibanga lokuqala manje uhlala imithetho ehlukene ngokuphelele uma ezidumisa ekilasini, ukwandisa value abo, futhi uma unina ngoba zonke kiss abaseBabiloni ingcebo yakhe, can wahleka. Nalapha futhi abazali bamukele imithetho - esikoleni, kudingeka 'siqhubeke sha "futhi endlini uqinisekile amnike uthando lwenu nemfudumalo lapho umntwana namanje kakhulu isidingo.

Lapho ingane ifinyelele eminyakeni engu-13 ubudala, abazali baqonde ukuthi zonke izinkinga odlule kwakungafanele izinkinga nhlobo. Ubusha - lokhu kuwuvivinyo "amandla" lomzali isimiso sezinzwa. Lokhu esibucayi kakhulu efana ifilosofi eneminyaka emithathu, "Mina", kodwa ezingeni ezahlukene izingane manje Naughty kalula uphakamise izwi lakho, slam umnyango, kuqhunyiswa kungamanyala out of lutho, nokunye. Okufanele ukwenze kulesi sikhathi? Okokuqala, ukubekezela. Yiba nesondlo, umngane main nothembekile kakhulu, sangaphansi, umthakathi - yinoma ubani, inqobo nje uma enomuzwa wokuthi unabazali abamthandayo, naphezu kwakho konke frills yayo. Sikhula, izingane ziya ziba mandla distancing ngokwabo kubazali babo, futhi kubalulekile ngesikhathi esifanayo ukwazi ukugcina lokhu kusondelana.

izingane Naughty, nganoma iluphi mdala kangakanani - nje izingane. Bonke futhi badinga uthando, ukunakekela kanye nokuvikelwa. Uma ngesikhathi esithile abazali ukuphila abakwazi ukuzisiza, akukuhle ukuya izingxabano sina, kanye nokubonisana onguchwepheshe. Udokotela wengqondo ngomntwana bangaba, uma kungekhona ukuthi umeluleki, i- "prompter", kuzosiza baziqonde bona ngokwabo kanye ekugcineni ibambe iqhaza ekwenzeni ngcono umoya endlini.