Inkulumo enhle

Khumbula ukuthi kuhle kangakanani ukukhuluma nomuntu oveza kahle imicabango yakhe ngokuqondile nangembile ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amagama-izimpande futhi ngaphandle kokukhulumisana ngamazwi angadingekile kanye nama-pauses. Kungenzeka yini ukufezekisa lokho ngendlela ejwayelekile yokubala yokukhuluma ngezinga elisha elifanele? Yebo, inkulumo enhle ingasiza ekuqeqeshweni, futhi inqubo yayo iyinto engokoqobo.

Ukuze ube ngumnikazi wengcebo enjalo, kubalulekile ukukhokha kakhulu ama-nuances amaningi. Ukubiza inkulumo enhle, udinga ukuthuthukisa njalo, isibonelo, ngezivivinyo ezilandelayo.

Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuthi usebenze ngokuphefumula, okumele kube nokuthula futhi kulinganiswe ngenkathi ingxoxo, ngaphandle kwalokho amagama azodideka, imisindo engadingekile-ikhefu (aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa) izovela. Ukuvimbela lokhu, kubalulekile ukulawula ijubane lokukhuluma, hhayi ukusheshisa.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, inqubo yenkulumo enhle iqala ukubonga ngokuzivocavoca ngama-vowels nama-consonants. Nsuku zonke, kufanele uhlanganise inhlanganisela ethile yezinhlamvu bese uphinda ngawo imizuzu engu-10-15. Isibonelo, pro-pra-pre-pre, mlo-mly, gra-gr-gras, njll. Ungazama ama-syllables amaningi, futhi uqonde amakhono okufanele abe kunzima kakhulu ukuwabiza.

Inkulumo enhle ibuye ifinyelelwe ngokufunda ulimi lwezintambo. Kumele okungenani usuku lufunde ngokuzwakalayo ulimi olulodwa, okumele lubangele ubunzima abathile ekukhulumeni, ukuze umphumela wokuqeqesha ubonakale. Khona-ke ungakwazi ukucindezela umsebenzi wakho, njenge-heroine ye-"Carnival" eyaziwa kakhulu, okwakuthatha amantongomane emlonyeni.

Enye indlela ephumelelayo ukuqeqesha inkulumo ne-interlocutor, futhi lapho kungekho khona-kanye nawe. Yebo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lihleka kanjani. Sinquma isihloko bese sizama ukucabanga ngakho, ukulawula ijubane lokukhuluma, sicabange ngomusho ngamunye. Ekuqaleni, inkulumo enjalo yombhalo ayilula, kodwa umphumela uzoba ngemva kwamakilasi ngezikhathi ezithile.

Ngokuqinisekile, inkulumo enhle ngeke isinikezwe umuntu ongafundi izincwadi. Okokuqala, ngoba kusukela lapho ungathola imishwana eminingi ewusizo, imishwana ezithakazelisayo, izincwadi, njengoba wazi, zicebisa isilulumagama. Futhi okwesibili, isimo sibheka, futhi ngaphandle kwayo inkulumo enhle ngeke ithole uhlelo lokusebenza uma isihloko sezingxoxo singaziwa futhi akunakwenzeka ukusibamba.

Enye indlela ephumelelayo akuyona nje ukufunda izincwadi, kodwa ngokuzwakalayo. Ikakhulukazi kunikelwa F.M. Dostoevsky. Akufanele uqale kuwo, zama ama-classics asekhaya, bese uzofinyelela "Amademoni", isibonelo.

Into ebalulekile yi-timbre yezwi. Inkulumo enhle inomphumela obaluleke kakhulu kulabalaleli uma unezwi eliphansi. Kungatholakala ngokulawula inkulumo yakho nokubona indlela yokuphefumula okuthulile.

Inqubo yenkulumo enhle ibuye isho ukugcinwa kwemithetho ethile. Okokuqala, wonke amagama kufanele akhulunywe ngaphandle kokugwinya ukuphela, ikakhulukazi ngezichasiselo. Okwesibili, ungaphuthelwa ama-vowels ngamagama, lokhu kuyichazamiseka kakhulu. Futhi, ekugcineni, okwesithathu, ungadonsa imisindo futhi ungawaphindaphindi ama-consonants.

Ngakho-ke, kusobala ukuthi inkulumo enhle iyatholakala kunoma ubani ofuna ukuyifinyelela. Into esemqoka ukuqeqesha ngezikhathi ezithile, ikakhulukazi njengoba i-intanethi enamandla inikeza inombolo enkulu yokuqeqesha. Ungakwazi ukubhalisa ngezifundo zenkulumo yesigaba, ukuhlonipha amakhono lapho. Enye indlela ukuthuthukisa ukuzithuthukisa ezindongeni zakho.

Noma kunjalo, noma ngabe iyiphi indlela oyikhethayo, ukubekezela nokubekezela kufanele kube yizivumelwano eziqinisile. Umuntu onokuqonda, ozolile, ngaphandle kokungabikho okungadingekile, ukhanga ukunakwa futhi kubangele ukuthembana. Leli khono alingeyona nje kuphela ochwepheshe, kodwa futhi nabantu abavamile, ngoba wonke umuntu ufuna ukugcizelela i-interlocutor efundwa kahle futhi ehlakaniphile. Konke kusezandleni zethu.