Mayelana namaProjections

Kulesi sihloko, sizocabangela into enjenge-projection.

Kuthiwani kulo? Ngomgomo olula kakhulu. Konke esikubona emvelweni osisizungezile, kuphakathi kwethu. Okusho ukuthi, konke okubonayo komunye umuntu, noma empilweni, kuwe, futhi. Ngiyaxolisa uma uzungezwe yiziwula kuphela namabhilidi. Yebo, yebo ngolunye usuku ngizovuma ukuthi imvelo yami ibonisa izwe lami elingaphakathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi libuhlungu kanjani. Vele uqaphele ukuthi ukucwaninga kwengqondo akuyona isayensi yobuhle. Lona yisayensi yomphefumulo womuntu, futhi yini ekhona emphefumulweni? Uthando lomakhelwane? I-Altruism? Mhlawumbe, sizothembeka okungenani kithi futhi sivume ukuthi empeleni iqondisa izifiso zethu? Uma kunzima ukwethembeka ngesikhathi esisodwa, khona-ke sizobuka izwe lethu elizungezile ukuze siqonde ukuthi singakanani emiphefumulweni yethu, konke "kuvumelana". Thina ngokwethu, ngabanye, kodwa senza umnikelo kulokho okusizungezile. Okuhlwanyelayo yilokho ovunayo.

Ake sithi abanye bavuma ukuthi yebo, de ** mo nxazonke, ngenxa yokuthi ngaphakathi lokhu kakhulu ** ma okuningi. Futhi yini okufanele ngiyenze? Futhi-ke yenzeni. Ukutadisha i-de ** mo yakho, futhi ngokungavamile ... yithande. Ngoba, njengoba kunjalo, de ** ma khona lapho. Senza lokho okuvela kithi ngokwemvelo. Futhi emvelweni akukho lutho olwenzeka ngeze! Kodwa lesi sesivele siyihloko ehlukene.

Masibuyele ekuboneni kwethu. Yini esinikeza ulwazi mayelana nokuqalwa.

Nazi ezinye izibonelo:

1. Uthandane, uma ushintsha, ngiyazi ukuthi uyashintsha. Siyifunda - yena ngokwakhe akafuni ukushintsha.
2. Umuntu omaziyo ukhuluma ngomakhelwane: uyisidakwa, umuntu ovilaphayo, umlingisi, futhi, ngokujwayelekile, othandekayo - sifunda, u-scoundrel ojwayele, udakwa ongase abe khona, umuntu ovilaphayo, futhi ngokuvamile umuntu oyisithulu.
3. Ithuluzi lokuzithuthukisa. Uma uqaphela ukuthi izwe elikuzungezile libonisa lokho okukuyo ngaphakathi kwesikwazi sethu (nokungazi kahle), ungafunda ukugcina ithrekhi yezwe lakho langaphakathi futhi ulawule ngokufanele. Shintsha izinkolelo zakho, imicabango, izisusa, njll. Kungani uguqula? Ukuphila kwethu kuxhomeke ngokuphelele kithi. Uma kukhona okungahambisani nakho ekuphileni, udinga ukushintsha imicabango yakho. Ngakho-ke, sithola: izinkolelo ezishintshayo - izenzo ziyashintsha, izenzo ziyashintsha - impilo iyashintsha. Yilokho ukuphathwa kokuphila kwakho.

Ungakholwa nje. Kubalulekile ukuhlola! Futhi kuthiwani uma kungenjalo? Futhi uchithe isikhathi sakho ukufunda ngokungazelelwe lo mbhalo? Futhi mhlawumbe hhayi ngeze? Ngokuvamile, konke okukukho, okuyizinhloko.