Indima Ubulili - kuyinto ... Ubulili izindima zamadoda nabesifazane

Umphakathi wanamuhla ejwayele ukucabanga stereotypically bese wabelana izindima ubulili. Ukuthola abajwayelene nokungeza umbono wokuqala eziningi Niyaphaphalaza, ngoba elinye ilungu ukuba attribute Yilezo zimfanelo ezazenza, ngaphandle ehambayo nokuthi anazo kubo. Zonke kusekelwe kuphela umbono owandile. Ukunaka sub-amaphethini, ungakwazi ukulawula kubo, ukuze avimbele nomthelela ekuphileni kwethu futhi bezibona emhlabeni. Omunye clichés ezivamile ukuqonda ukuziphatha kwabesifazane nabesilisa ejwayelekile. indima Ubulili - kuyinto ngemibono, bona akhiwa khona izindima social, nakho kukhona umehluko oyisisekelo in psyche kwabesifazane nabesilisa nomsebenzi womuntu. indima ebalulekile kuleli eyadlalwa isiko umphakathi.

eyeqisayo kwamasiko

ukwazi Ordinary has e oyiyo i ebalulekile okuyingxenye - eyeqisayo kwamasiko. Ngamanye amazwi, usebenzisa isipiliyoni collective, ngamunye kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe uthola isiphakamiso ezithile phakathi nokuqeqeshwa kanye nokukhulumisana, ngayo nefunda ngayo kamuva igxile empilweni futhi umthombo ololonga ukuziphatha kwabo emphakathini. Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi izindima ubulili emphakathini emasikweni ehlukene namaqembu omphakathi kuhluke, ngezinye izikhathi kakhulu. kuphakama Zonke lezi clichés ngesisekelo izindima isikhundla emphakathini. Lokho, ngokusebenzisa lezi eyeqisayo kukhona sivamile abesifazane futhi amadoda kanjani nokuthi kufanele iziphathe ngendlela umphakathi othize. Futhi lapho sibona lokhu noma lokhuya ukubonakaliswa zokuthambekela kobuntu, thina ngokuzenzakalelayo ukuqhathanise umbono wabo izindima ubulili yomuntu.

umehluko Ubulili nezingane

Kukholakala ukuthi, kuncike ubulili wengane, abadala bayibheka ngendlela ehlukile. Ngamanye amazwi, ukubonakaliswa okufanayo yokuziphatha wengane uzobe ziqondakala abadala ngezindlela ezahlukene, kuya ngokuthi uma ngabe umfana noma intombazane phambi kwabo. Futhi ngokunjalo, ingane elinde ukuziphatha ezithile futhi ukusabela, kuye ngokuthi ubulili bayo. Ngenxa yalokhu, kukhona ukusikisela ingane, njengoba kufanele kube, futhi yena wanithwesa zamanga, ukucabanga stereotyped. Lokho indima ubulili - stereotyped becabanga ukuthi uphefumulela ingane ngesikhathi imfundo komphakathi.

ubunikazi bobulili

Leli gama eveza izici zobuntu yezenhlalakahle agcwele ke kusukela ephuzwini elithile umbono nokubonisa ukuthi uyilungu leqembu phakathi kwamadoda noma abesifazane. Into ebaluleke kakhulu indlela umuntu ihlola yena, futhi kwenzeka kanjani ukuba komphakathi yayo isiko elithile. izici ezingokwengqondo, zokuhlalisana, zamasiko kokuziphatha ndawonye ukumela phansi ngokwengqondo. Lapho usebenzelana nabanye abantu, futhi ngesikhathi ukubabona, indoda ubeka imibono yakhe mayelana nokuthi iziphi izinhlelo iqembu ukuthi kuyafaneleka ngaphezulu. Futhi ngesisekelo imiphumela yayo, uqala ukukhetha indlela aziphatha ngayo izithakazelo eqembu ukuthi eduze. Ngakho basakaza izindima ubulili nomphakathi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo kubonisa engaguquki kwenzeka kuzo zonke izigaba yentuthuko. Ngisho e zasenkulisa yobudala izingane kakade zigonywe bezibona a ocacile kobulili ehambisana ngqo nensiza. Ngakho, ukuxhumana phakathi abafana namantombazane kuba ingasaphathwa ezivamile kunezingane uhlanganyela bobulili obufanayo, futhi izithakazelo futhi wabelane, umuntu kufanele ahileleke ngayinye, nalezi ezinye - omunye. Ngakho-ke, sivamile siyibukele phansi indima kwenkolelo engaguqukiyo ubulili kwetinhlavu ubuntu kanye worldview. Lapho, eminyakeni eyalandela, abesilisa nabesifazane bavame ukuxhumana, abaqondi nomunye, izithakazelo zabo washintsha.

Izitayela indlela yokuziphatha emphakathini

Lapho sigcina ukuhlukahluka ukuxhumana phakathi amalungu ubulili ezahlukene emphakathini, uzophawula ezihlukahlukene ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu. Ngamanye amazwi, kuye ngokuthi inhloso yokuxhumana phakathi kobulili, ukuziphatha kokubili iyokwehluka kakhulu. Ngaphambi amadoda kuchasiselwe izimfanelo ezinjalo zomthetho njengoba umsebenzi, ulaka, ukusebenza kahle, ikhono ukuze uxazulule izinkinga. Laba besifazane kwakumele kube ngokomzwelo, yokwenziwa, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi unesithakazelo - kuba ubuhlobo, akunjalo. Abacwaningi bathole ukuthi phakathi izinsana kungekho umehluko isitayela ukuziphatha, kodwa sebevele kuphakama ngeminyaka. Futhi abadala umuntu, kulapho zivela. Tindzima ubulili besifazane nebesilisa zisekelwe kuphela nezidingo zomphakathi, kodwa umuntu ihlola yena, unikezwa lezi zidingo, futhi akusho isikhombi nesibonelo uqala azibheke sibi kunabanye. Okungukuthi, izimpawu zokuqala ezifana umehluko ngobulili kuphakama kuphela lapho ingane ngetlhogakalo ngokuba khona kwabo. Futhi ebabonisa, wamane wenza uhlelo kusengaphambili. Kodwa ngenkathi abafana ingase ibonise kahle izimpawu yala mantombazane, futhi okuphambene nalokho. Jikelele, waboniswa ukuthi isici esiyinhloko ezinomthelela umehluko ubulili, kuyinto komphakathi.

abantu Ukulethwa inqubo yezobulili

Ngokusho ucwaningo nge Shona Berna, kukhona izinhlobo ezintathu kuhanjiswa abantu ukuba izindinganiso zomphakathi. Okokuqala - lokhu kuhambisana, ukuthi kuziveza ngokuthi ukuvumela umuntu Akwamukelekile ukuthi ukuba izimiso zomphakathi, futhi oluhambelana kubo ngenxa yokugwema ukulahlwa, isijeziso futhi sethemba ukuvunywa yokuziphatha yayo emphakathini. Okulandelayo yikona, ukuthi kuyinto sonke kwesivumelwano wabalethela umuntu nge inqubo yezobulili. Uhlobo lwesithathu - ukuhlonza umuntu obambe nekuhambisana amacala ayemangalelwa ngawo njengoba yisibonelo yokuziphatha emphakathini.

Retreat kusukela eyeqisayo

Umphakathi wanamuhla akubukeki sengathi stereotypical Hlela. Ngakho-ke, indima ubulili yesimanje - ngumqondo usongene. Abesifazane abaningi ukuthola umsebenzi wabo ukuqashwa elidume wesilisa, okungukuthi kwezamabhizinisi, kwezesayensi nokunye. Futhi zabanye abantu ukulima, izingane umshado, lokusungula kanye neminye imisebenzi, nge ncazelo abesifazane. Umphakathi wamukela ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane azigcini nje uhlamvu, kodwa futhi Psychology. Uma umbono stereotypical ka i- ke umuntu liyakulahla nokungaqondi phezu ingxenye izihlobo, okuyinto nakanjani ibe nomphumela ongemuhle ekuthuthukiseni ubuntu.

Umphumela ongemuhle kwenkolelo engaguqukiyo

odokotela bengqondo abaningi banamuhla bakholelwa ukuthi igcizelelwa umehluko ubulili ngendlela efanele. indima Ubulili - ngokuyinhloko ephoqelela izidingo umphakathi ngaphandle kokubheka izifiso ngabanye kanye imigomo. Ngamanye amazwi, umehluko phakathi abesilisa nabesifazane bayaboshwa ihaba, hhayi subjective sicabangela isimo ingxenye umphakathi. Ngakho, babukana nesenzo esifanayo, owesifazane futhi umuntu usabela ngendlela ehlukile. Lokhu akulungile, njengoba eyeqisayo akuhambisani ekuthuthukiseni langempela ubuntu, uhlamvu yayo nokuziphatha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, nomthelela ekuthuthukiseni ngezimfanelo ezithile umehluko izindima ubulili zamadoda nabesifazane, umkhuba ukuthuthukisa kakhudlwana futhi ezinye zivimbela nokucindezela. Ngokwesibonelo, uma wenza umfana ukufihla imizwa yakhe, ne ubudala, ongakhohlwa indlela ukuthatha kubo, futhi uqale uphike ukuthi ukhona abanye abantu, engaboni izimpawu zabo. Kuyaqondakala ukuthi umuntu ngamunye uhlukile, kungakhathaliseki ubulili babo. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuba kulesetayelekile isimo ezingokwengqondo, ziphumelele nakakhulu ukuze benze umsebenzi wabo futhi babe nobunye. Ngeshwa, naphezu unenkululeko kwenkolelo engaguqukiyo yesimanje, abantu abaningi Sisehluleka ngaphakathi kuwena, hhayi kuphela clichés nomphakathi, kodwa futhi nge Imibono yabo.