Colin Isimo, "ukuthethelelwa Radical": imibono mayelana nendlela

Khumbula eqanjiwe ifilimu nge Arnold Schwarzenegger wabiza "Ubude Khumbula"? Zinike umzuzwana ucabange ngesimo isimo reverse - kufanele azikhohlwe zonke izinto ezimbi ezenzeka ekuphileni. Ubungazizwa kanjani ukuphila kwakho ukushintsha? Yiqiniso, ayengayifundisa kwaba ngezikhathi ezingcono. Ngeze walindela iqhinga engcolile abantu ngeke wesabe ukuphoxeka, hhayi ukukhathazeka wahlupheka mayelana nezinto ezimbi esikhathini esizayo futhi ezimbi.

Kungenteka yini? incwadi "Radical Ukuthethelela, 'umsunguli uveza ukuthi kungcono ngempela, bekuyoba ufisa. Ekugcineni, konke okudingekayo - iwukufunda umsebenzi, owabhala Colin Isimo. "Radical intethelelo 'izipesheli ukudlula izinyathelo nantathu, bese uba umuntu ohlukile. Le nqubo akuyona kulungiselelwa zenkolo, ngokwengqondo noma esoteric. Step by step, ukuhlola yokucasukela lakho likwenza ekusebenzelaneni abaphuli ngengqondo, uzokwazi ukuba ahlukane imizwa engadingekile futhi uba khulula.

I archetype we isisulu

Ucabangani, can izenzakalo ezenzeka esikhathini esidlule, layering ezinye isinyathelo okwamanje? Ngokwesibonelo, indoda ngaphuka umlenze wakhe. Amathambo tho, kodwa kwakusasele Limp, ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala. Nokho, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi umzimba wenyama kungenzeka nakho kwethu okungokomoya kungaba nomthelela olukhulu ekuphileni kunabafundi ngokomzimba.

Ngokusho umcabango kombhali Colin ezithothene, ngamunye wethu ithwala iminonjana yokucasukela zonke izenzakalo zokuphila. Noma ubani has archetype we isisulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unamandla kangakanani-ke kungase kubonakale kwabanye futhi ngaphakathi kuye, ethathelwe zasebuntwaneni yokungaphathwa abanye.

Insult ku abazali, othisha, othisha, ontanga, abangane aqoqana efana umthwalo osindayo. ukuthi lo mthwalo ethize kungaba kanjani ngesikhathi indoda amabili? Ngezinye iminyaka engamashumi amane? Ngakho-ke, ukuthethelela olukhulu ukhetho kuphela ukuba abe khulula kwalesi umthwalo uziphe ukubheka ukuphila ngamehlo fresh.

Ubani odinga intethelelo?

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi kudingeka sibathethelele, ngoba kuyadingeka ukuze izaphula-mthetho wethu. Kodwa kwesinye wathi Isimo. "Ukuthethelelwa Radical" kuzosiza kwasekuqaleni ngawe. Kepha ukukulimaza, mhlawumbe izikhathi ezingaphezu kwekhulu kakade ukhohlwe ngakho ngathuthela kwelinye idolobha noma izwe.

Intukuthelo alikho kuphi ngaphandle engqondweni yakho. It kuvela, uma ungakwazi ukuthethelela ngempela umuntu, ukucasuka bayophila nawe nisuse ngezikhwepha zakho, okungase singaba usizo kabi.

Negative ngokuba umuntu onikeza icala

Ake sibheke ukuphila kwakho. Uma ngokuphelele ojabule ngubani aneliseke konke futhi njalo smiling ke lesi sihloko, kanye incwadi "Radical Ukuthethelela, 'hhayi wena.

Kodwa umuntu onjalo namuhla esimweni engcono, oyedwa enkulungwaneni. Zonke ezinye esinakho? abazali Uncomprehending, omakhelwane elikhulu ezimbi, kubo ukuthi abathuke nozakwethu, umphathi-umashiqela, othisha oyisiphukuphuku. Bonke laba bantu, cha, cha, yebo, futhi aphonse phezulu nakho kwethu ngokomzwelo. Ungakwazi asole ekuhluphekeni yabo, kodwa-ke kulula simbe ngokwami ukuthola amandla ukumthethelela umoni futhi uqalise olusha, hhayi burdened nga ngalindelekile yini ukuphila. Ngakho yini okufanele uyenze ukuhlanzwa okusindayo okungadingekile ngezinyathelo 13?

Isinyathelo 1 no-2 - sichaza nezamanje

Kulo sinyathelo, udinga ukukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo ngesimo ekwenza imizwa enamandla yokucasukela. Chaza hhayi kuphela izenzo ezenziwa wena umhlukumezi yakho, kodwa futhi imizwelo ukuthi uhlangabezana nale nkinga.

Cabanga ukoniwa ngesimo ubuhlungu ukuthi yakha up endaweni ethile emzimbeni wakho. Vala amehlo akho bese uyazama ukuzizwa, lapho kubuhlungu. Beka entendeni.

Isinyathelo 3 no-4 - ukumemeza ukuqaphela

Isinyathelo sesithathu - asigcini ngokwakho. Hhewulani ukukhala uma ngifuna - ngizwe umuntu ethuka inhlamba. olukhulu intethelelo ubuchwepheshe kuhilela ukungabi ephelele ukukhombisa imizwa yabo.

Eyesine isinyathelo - imisindvo. Ucabanga ukuthi zonke izimo ezenzeka ekuphileni, ngengozi? Technique intethelelo olukhulu kusukela Colin Isimo ikunikeza ukuthi ngisho nalezi zikhathi ezingemnandi, njengoba ubudlova futhi ukuhlazeka phezu ingxenye abanye abantu, wena nje ukuqondana kwezinto. Qonda futhi wamukela iqiniso ukuthi isizathu yakho engokomoya kanye nentuthuko ngokomzimba.

Izinyathelo 5 no-6 - eqonda futhi amukela

Phendula esinyathelweni yesihlanu embuzweni olandelayo: "Ingabe unomuzwa wokuthi yokucasukela kuvimbela uhlala?" Lona ungomunye izingxenye ezibalulekile kohlelo ezifana ukuthethelelwa olukhulu. Herman Semeniuk kwezobuchwepheshe yayo inikeza ukuphendula lo mbuzo. Ukuqaphela lokhu kuzokusiza ngokushesha ufisa ukuqeda imizwa engadingekile.

Isinyathelo esilandelayo - ithawula ukwahlulela. Bayakhohlwa ukuthi umhlaba kubi ezinhle. Okwenzekile - kahle, kwenzeka, manje into yesikhathi esidlule.

Isinyathelo 7 no-8 - siyeke ukwahlulela ngokwakho

Isikhathi esining impela, ucabanga abahlukumezi zabo, abantu ngokushesha ngazitshela: 'Hhayi-ke, engikhonza kwesokudla, ngoba angiyona kude usanta. Engifanele ke! "Uma nje ningabathetheleli ngokwakho, ningabathetheleli abanye. Khumbula, nguwe yini.

Uma ufuna ukuthuthukisa, sicela, kodwa samukele ngokwakho, uthando futhi uthethelele. Yekani ukwahlulela wena ukuhlola. Ukwenza iphendula zonke izinyathelo 13 ukuze ukuthethelelwa olukhulu, ukukhokhela ukunakekelwa okukhethekile ukuze isinyathelo yesikhombisa. Ungithethelele zonke izono bebodwa. Lokhu kuyigxathu.

Isinyathelo lwesishiyagalombili ihlobene eduze lesikhombisa - abanjengami lapho Ngiyaxolisa. Wena engcebweni enkulu kuleli zwe, futhi wena abafanelwe uthando kwasekuqaleni eyedwa.

9 no-10 Isinyathelo - engenabulungisa yakho ongumfundisi wenu

Manje ungacabanga ngokubanzi. Intukuthelo futhi kumuntu osonile angene empilweni yakho, hhayi kuphela ukuze sikunikeze imizwa ezimbi. Kwaba sifundvo ukuba ube bahlakaniphile kunathi, futhi umuntu ekucasulile - uthisha wakho. Ungakwazi, njengoba ingane, qhubeka wanyukubala futhi kungaba 'sikhule' ubone yonke isimo kusukela ngaphandle.

Nasi isibonelo. Wena njalo uthole ukugxekwa kusukela kumqashi. Njengazo zonke obuhle emsebenzini, futhi iholo muhle, nobudlelwano nozakwethu, kodwa induna nje akubekezeleleki. Wena akufanele sisole, wazi ukuthi wena nje umsebenzi ephelele. Kanjani ukuba, kanjani ukuthethelela boss? Vele ukukhulula isimo. Cabanga, kunokuba kuwuphawu lokuthi kwaba isikhathi ushintsha imisebenzi, thola lokhu kuqonda okusha boss?

Noma nakhu esinye isibonelo. Uneminyaka matasa kakhulu kunemisebenzi yasekhaya ukusebenza, kokuchitha ukuphila kwayo konke ehhovisi nokuxhumana nozakwethu. Bese ufunde ukuthi abashade othandekayo wakho washintsha. Okufanele ukwenze, indlela ukumxolela? Futhi hhayi ngoba uma kwenzeka ukuthi awuzange unake kuso? Ngoba ekuqaleni bese uyishintshile nomsebenzi wabo?

Isinyathelo Weshumi - kuyinto ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi engenabulungisa yakho - abantu ehloniphekile ngubani nje ukudlala indima yabo ukuze uthuthukise impilo yakho. Yilokhu inikeza Colin Isimo. "Ukuthethelelwa Radical" - lena uhlelo eyehlayo kuphela uma hhayi kuphela ongathethelela abantu abenza izinto ezimbi, kodwa futhi baqaphele ukuthi azizimbi kunawe. Yebo, ziye wadlala indima omubi empilweni yakho. Kodwa hhayi ngoba uma abazange uba ngcono, namandla namuhla? Lapho ubungaba futhi yini ezokwenzeka kuwe, ngeke basinde uma esasibucayi?

Eleventh futhi isinyathelo yeshumi nambili - uthola kangcono

Ngesikhathi isinyathelo nanye siwukuqaphela yokuthi kunoma isiphi isimo, ngisho ezingezinhle kakhulu, iyona nokubonakaliswa Waphezulu noma Ephakeme ukuhlakanipha nothando. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani - ngakho-ke kuyadingeka, okokuqala ngawe. Ngaphandle lesi simo, ngeke ubone ukukhanya, ngobuchule, ngcono, braver, namandla.

Phendula umbuzo - Ingabe unomuzwa wokuthi yokucasukela ezikhoselweni ukuthi uzizwe ungcono, kuba lula? Lokhu kuyisinyathelo weshumi nambili ka uhlelo "ukuthethelelwa olukhulu." Izibuyekezo zabantu ukuthi sekudlule workshop phezu isimo aveze ukuthi impendulo kuza kalula. Futhi impendulo - ". Yebo" Uma ubheka isimo ngemehlo lehlukile, adikile izigwebo zabo, yonke into ibukeka ezahlukene. Futhi engenabulungisa, futhi imizwa yakho kule ndaba. Ungaqonda ukuthi abelusi baka Loti nabaka okungahleliwe, futhi kuba ngisho esisemthethweni, esekelwe yokuthi kwadingeka noma baziphathe.

Isinyathelo sokugcina nantathu

Isinyathelo sokugcina kwenzeka ngokwalo. Wena nje nazi ukuthi kunokuthile ngaphakathi kini eliye obathuthuka, njengoba washintsha yayo ukugeleza amandla. Ngesikhathi sigaba nantathu indaba ubudala uya hhayi esidlule, ihamba ishabalale. Amabutho oyisebenzise izinkinga ukuhlafuna, ukuqonda kwakhe, zikhishwa. Kepha manje, bhekani, entsha ungakwazi ukusebenzisa isikhathi khulula indalo, ukudalwa, amaphupho.

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Kusukela ebuntwaneni, abaningi bethu zanqwabelana acasukele. Uma sicabange inkumbulo yethu njengoba closet ongagcwali, thina cishe nsuku zonke tente ubudala, izinto inundu, amathoyizi eziphukile, thina akudingeki imininingwane nemfucumfucu.

Endaweni ethile e iKhabhinethi amabhuku, imigexo, izingubo ezintsha, kodwa phakathi kwakho konke lokhu "izinto" yilokho okudingayo, futhi ayitholakalanga. Le nqubo ye "ukuthethelelwa olukhulu" linikeza ukusula ngempumelelo lowo doti futhi wenze isikhala ngokwabo kanye ukuphila kwabo kube mnandi. Ungabuzi imibuzo mayelana nokuthi ubani iyalidinga, ngoba kuyadingeka ngawe.

abaphuli lwakho - hhayi abantu okubi, noma ngisho amandla. Cha, lawa abantu esisodwa, njenge wena, nje ngabo indima ekhethekile - ukufundisa okuthile. Yiqiniso, ukufunda kungaba ne "isanqante", kodwa uma unezingane noma nezilwane, uyazi ukuthi "isiswebhu" ngezinye izikhathi ayinakugwenywa. Ngakho-ke, musa ukwahlulela yobubi abahlaseli yakho, ungafisi okwemihlelo yazo - abayikho afanelekile engengaphansi kwengu-abangane bakho. Thatha isifundo, futhi abeqa, ubuhlungu futhi niyibhubhise yonke imizwa yakho nje let go. Kuyinto elula kakhulu ukukwenza, kokuba izinyathelo olukhulu Uhlelo intethelelo Colin Isimo 13.