Ukuzindla ngesihloko esithi "Uyini umehluko phakathi komzana nomzana?"

Leli dolobha liyisakhiwo sokuphatha kanye nesifunda. Ihlanganisa abantu basezindaweni zasemaphandleni, ngokusekelwe emasikweni, emiphakathini yezenhlalo nezomnotho, umphakathi wendawo, amasiko kanye nezimo zendawo. Manje kukhona ukungqubuzana okuningi mayelana nokwahlukana phakathi komzana nomzana, futhi kuyini ukuhlobana nabo kwesinye igama, i-Selco. Iningi labachwepheshe liyavuma ukuthi isikhathi eside isikhathi sokuhlala kwendawo kwakuyinto ethandwa kakhulu kumaSlav, ikakhulukazi kubantu baseRussia. Ngokuvame ukuthi kwakunamadidi angu-5-10. Abanye abacwaningi bathola izimpande zegama laleli dolobha kusukela emagameni athi "ukuvuthwa" nokuthi "ukuphumula". Lokhu kwakusho ukulungiselela umhlaba ovuthiwe nokuhlanza umhlaba wehlathi. Leli qiniso liqinisekiswa ukusetshenziselwa kwegama elithi "emzaneni" ezindaweni ezisemaphandleni enyakatho, lapho kuhlala khona amancane amancane.

Ukuphendula umbuzo othi "umzana uhlukile kanjani emzaneni", kunezinhlobo ezimbalwa ezibalulekile. Okokuqala, lokhu kuyinani elikhulu lamakhaya - isilinganiso samalunga angamashumi amabili nesikhombisa. Futhi endaweni eyodwa lapho kwakukhona izindlu eziningana ngesikhathi esisodwa, lapho amadodana asekhulile omnikazi ayekhona nemindeni yawo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwakukhona indlu yomuzi ne-bazaar. Okwesibili, ukuba khona kwebandla kuyimpoqo. Kodwa uthando olunjalo lwavela kancane kancane, ngokusungulwa kancane kancane komqondo weyunithi yokuphatha. Ngesinye isikhathi amadolobhana athiwa ngamadolobhana amaningana ayeseduze kwebandla elilodwa lesonto, kodwa abe nemithombo ehlukile futhi engahlanganisi endaweni eyodwa. Okwesithathu, inani labahlali lidlala indima ebalulekile. Lesi sibonakaliso sithembele ngokugcwele ekukhuleni kwesibalo, futhi saholela ekwandiseni kancane kancane, futhi kanye nokuguqulwa komzana waya emzaneni, bese ungena emzaneni ogcwele.

Kuzo zonke ezingenhla, ungakwazi ukuqonda kalula umehluko phakathi komzana nomzana. Ngakho-ke, ake sihambe kancane emaceleni bese sitshela ngomuntu owandulelayo - ukuhlala. Le ndawo yokuqashwa ibhekwa njengehlobo elidala lokuhlala. Okwokuqala kwalokhu kwaqala ukuphakama eduze kwemizi enezivikelo eziqinile nemigqa eqinile. Kukhona lapho, kuqala, "servicemen" nemindeni yabo. Ochwepheshe bathi kwakuyi-settlement eyayiyi-forerunner yomzana wanamuhla. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi igama lalezi zindawo lalivame ukhethwa ezinkumbulo zezwe lakubo (iChernigovka), egama lomsunguli (Karlovka), noma igama elithi "elisha" noma "elincanyana" lenezelwe egameni elingaziwa.

Ekuphetheni, ngingathanda ukuveza ithemba lokuthi le ngxenye izonikeza zonke izimpendulo embuzweni wokuthi umzana uhlukile kanjani emzaneni, futhi usho amazwi ambalwa mayelana nezinhlobonhlobo zalezi zindawo.

Izindawo zasemaphandleni yizi:

• Isikhathi esincane (sisebenza ngesikhatsi) futhi sinomphela;
• Ihlukaniswe futhi iqenjini.

Eyokuqala evamile emazweni aseBaltic nakwamanye amazwekazi ahlukene: e-Australia naseNyakatho Melika. Lezi zinsuku zisezindaweni eziningi eziseYurophu, eRussia nase-Asia.

Ezweni lakithi, izindawo ezinjalo zasemaphandleni ziyaziwa njenge-zaimki, auls, nemizana, nemizana, amakamu, nemizana, nemizana.