Ukukhuluma kokulala

Ayikho into mnandi futhi ehlekisa kunokukhuluma elele. Yileyo indlela abantu abaningi emhlabeni. Kodwa eqinisweni, lesi simanga owenza akuyona. Ikakhulukazi nomuntu okhulumayo, ngoba ngamunye wethu izimfihlo ezifihliwe yayo, uyesaba izifiso, okungase igeleze ubhontshisi ephusheni a lifetime sorry.

Uma umuntu ukhuluma elele, bese ngokuqinisekile somnilokviya noma ngenye indlela wabhekisela kulesi simo, odokotela nososayensi, snogovorenie. Lesi sici isayensi ibilokhu wafunda isikhathi eside, kodwa awukwazi ukusho ukuthi bonke esiphethweni. Ngakho, siyazi ukuthi ukukhuluma kokulala yami "like" amadoda kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, monologues ikakhulu ebusuku kwenzeka ngezigaba phakathi delta sokulala (lokhu kusho ukuthi umuntu kancane ongenza nokukhuluma kwakhe kufana nokububula ongaziwa), futhi ngesikhathi lapho thina dream. Kulokhu wonke la mazwi ezindlebeni khuluma ngokucacile, kuba akucace.

Ngenhla abantu besalele, iphethe isici ukhuluma elele, ekubekeni okuningi zokucwaninga ayinangozi. Ngakho, ngokwesibonelo, yabe seyaziwa ukuthi umuntu angakwazi ukuphendula umbuzo ngezinye izikhathi ngokucacile. Futhi uma umcele ukuba zithule, khona-ke kwangathi kahle ucelwe khona izwiwe. Inkinga sina zalesi simo akusona Nokho, ukhuluma ebusuku uyangiphazamisa ebuthongweni kungenye indaba.

Ohlushwa snogovoroniem futhi kungani inkulumo ebuthongweni bakho na? Okokuqala, avame kuba izingane kusukela eminyakeni 3 kuya ku-15, ngoba bayathatheka futhi abangothathekile. Ngokwezibalo, 50% izingane Cishe njalo ukhuluma elele. Phakathi abadala, le nkinga kuthinta% 5 kuphela.

Ngakho, umntwana ukhuluma elele cishe bonke abazali. Ngezinye izikhathi kungaba phetho ukubukela opopayi noma ama-movie, watshela sokulala izindaba noma umane okuvelayo okuthile kubonakala emgwaqeni. Ngiyazi iqiniso ukuthi imizuzu okungenani 30 ngaphambi kokulala ingane noma ingane kumele igcinwe uphumule hhayi sezinzwa.

Ukukhuluma elele ingozi umntwana noma cha kuze kube sekupheleni alwaziwa. Kunoma yikuphi, uma lesi simo kungapheli futhi kuphindwe njalo ebusuku, kufanele nakanjani kumele ubonane nodokotela. uhlelo Wezingane sezinzwa iyaxokozela kakhulu nabangaqinile bakuhlanekezela, ngakho udinga ukuze sikhathazeke ngayo kwasekuqaleni. Ngisho nakho esijabulisa kunazo zonke ekuphileni futhi ujabule kungaholela yokuthi ingane ukhuluma elele. Zama ukuqonda umphumela okuyizinto amazwi ebusuku, can umuntu obumnandi kancane. Kulokhu, yibeke eceleni kwakhe ukuthi kwadingeka umuzwa wokulondeka nokuzola.

Esinye isizathu, okuholela yokuthi ingane iqala ukukhuluma elele - yokuntuleka esemsebenzini lokulala. Qiniseka, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isimo sezulu, pholisa ingane okungenani isigamu sehora ngaphambi kokulala ingane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona abangu amacala laziwa lapho, ngenxa yokuntuleka sabazali uthando ingane ngesikhathi spillage kukhanya kwakubizwa lulling yena.

lonyaka owodwa noma iminyaka emibili izingane ibe isici "ukujwayela" ukuze amagama amasha ngephupho. Lokho sengathi ukubukeza kuqala yabo ephusheni ngosuku olulandelayo ukunikeza abazali babo. Kulokhu, akukho okumele ukhathazeke ngakho. Kodwa zikhona eziningi izimpawu, kuleso simo udinga ngokushesha ukusebenzisa kudokotela.

Okokuqala kubalulekile ukulandelela isimo indoda kancane evuka ekuseni. Uma ukwazi is udidekile, bheka zomile, udinga ukuqala ukukhathazeka. Ukukhuluma elele, futhi, kanye izimpawu sleepwalking futhi kufanele ukuphoqa abazali ukuba afune usizo lwezokwelapha ngokushesha ukunquma izimbangela.

Kungakhathaliseki nokuhlupheka ingane yakho noma othandekayo snogovoreniem, kubalulekile ukuba amnike konke othandweni lwami nokuzola njalo, ngoba indlela kuphela ukulondoloza impilo yakhe iminyaka eminingi ezayo.