Kuyini mauvais ton endleleni yokuphila yaseNtshonalanga yokuziphatha

Iminyaka engamashumi amabili, njengoba eU.SSR kwanyamalala ubuso bomhlaba, wawa "yensimbi kwesihenqo" futhi ube yize umqondo wokuthi "Ketha" kwesokunxele. Futhi ngokuvamile amalungu alesi "Ketha" kubonakala kwemayela. Nansi i-pair yama emgwaqweni elivamile edolobheni abavamile European: kuba - isudu ngu Voronin, izicathulo kukhanye isicwebezelisi, kuba - ingubo kusihlwa kusukela Gucci, izikopelo desyatisantimetrovyh kanye esikhwameni NOHERMESI. Kuxoxwa oluneziqhingi amadayimane, like Christmas izihlahla oyinyoka. Kubonakala esefeshinini abagqoke, behlanzekile, ecebile, ebheka emuva kuphela Ngamangala abedlula ngokukhuluma ngazo - mauvais ithani. Inani leli gama lihunyushwe lisuselwa French ngokuthi "ukuziphatha okubi» (mauvais ton). Hhayi ngoba laba bantu abanalo ukunambitheka izingubo, nje awunawo nesiko kanye nobunye bomuntu hlobo lokuziphatha yamukelwa umphakathi unikezwa.

Uma pair enjalo emvunulweni eligcwele lizovela endaweni ethile ezikhaleni bomdabu evulekile, ukusabela umphakathi kuzohluka ngempela. Abantu bakubo ngenhlonipho ukuyeka, abesifazane ngokulangazela sibukisisa ahlukene ikhabethe izinto (ukulondoloza ukuthenga efanayo amabhuzu amehlo kokuphuma rhinestones!). Lapha, la amabili bheka Bonthonneau (emazwini "imikhuba emihle"). Eqinisweni, ukuchaza ukuthi yini mauvais ton, eliyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunalelo kubonakala efika kuqala. Phela, amasudi amadoda abo kusuka Voronin, Puma izicathulo, ngisho ukudlala gizmos sequined Dolce & Gabbana (noma ezinye call le nkampani "Ibiza kakhulu futhi eyisilima ') akulona uphawu ukwehluleka ukwenza. It is hhayi Kitsch, kodwa ezimweni ezithile kanye nomphakathi ezithile iba ezinjalo.

Ngokwesiko lethu uye njalo enziwe ukuziqhayisa bengabangane bengcebo yabo. Billionaire ukuze Qha, makungabi njalo, ngeke kudidaniswe isicebi, udalula zonke izici lalichumile (igolide chain, efana wabathengi, "Rolex" nenkundla Saucer ikhofi, nokunye okunjalo). Ngale ndlela abantu ufuna ukukhombisa ezingaba abalingani babo Western Europe ukuthi esimweni sayo sezimali futhi evikelekile naye zingaxazululwa. ukubukeka yenza okuhluke kakhulu ngesikhathi shining 'ngubo "European abacebile Western. Wasebenzisa ukukhombisa Bakwethu lwakhe ukuthi imali wazakhela emuva-breaking zabasebenzi kanye neze akuzona uzikhohlise. Ngakho-ke, ngo-abantu ngokuvamile livela pullover kanye jeans. Ngaphandle-ke, lesi akusona soiree, imidlalo yaseshashalazini, ibhodi yabaqondisi noma yimuphi omunye umcimbi efanayo. Ngalo mqondo, impendulo yombuzo othi, yini mauvais ton, ngaphezu kwanoma yini leli zwi Russian "Wamemezela ndawo ngesikhathi esingafanele."

Ngo nobukhulu ezweni lakithi enkulukazi owesifazane ebanjwe yahlulelwe yayo "lezimpahla engqondweni." Ngakho-ke compatriot marafet ukuphakamisa, ngisho noma uya ukugijimela esitolo esiseduze ukuthenga isinkwa. Ngo -Western Europe, elikhanyayo ukwakheka emini is, uma sikubeka kahle, okushesha ngendlela edidayo. Ngaphandle-ke, asikho basonta subculture intsha (Goths, amapunk, emo nabanye), ezambiwa, iso ithunzi, ivolumu noma Eyelashes othi awube bheka ongaziwa. Kuyini mauvais ton e izingubo zabesifazane? Lona uma ngamabomu kakhulu futhi kugcizelela ifomu zesifazane. Ngakho abantu akazange acabange ukuthi uhola ngomzimba, nje musa ugqoke njengomuntu lady ubuthishela ezithile, yokufisa sengathi "kushafiswe ikhasimende."

Kodwa ifomu embi kubonakala hhayi kuphela ukwenza izingubo zokugqoka. Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu kungabonwa ukuziphatha kwakhe (ngisho uma engazihlanzi zidla imbewu sunflower). Kuyini moveton ukuziphatha? abantu Western ewubheka ubumfihlo e nobuhlobo babo omunye nomunye ukugcina ibanga lakho. Akubalulekile kuyiwe omunye umuntu sisondele kakhulu iyoshaya kuye ehlombe, ukuthatha esandleni sakhe. Imithetho yokuziphatha isicelo ngalé nokusingatha yembangi. Abantu bethu esetshenziswa ukuphendula ucingo mobile lapho ehlezi kule nkampani: wayekujabulela okubonisa lokho "cool" imodeli lakhe nalokho ibhizinisi. Kwamanye amazwe kuyinto - hhayi comme il faut, okungukuthi, kukhona ngakho kungamukelwa ukukwenza.

Norm yokuziphatha ezakhamuzini eNtshonalanga Yurophu ukuba uthole ukuthi iyini ukuhlonipha abanye, ngisho nakubantu esingabazi ephelele. Ngakho-ke, kukhona inkulumo yokwesabela ethule, amamathekayo emhlanganweni. Akubalulekile ukubukisa isimo sabo futhi ukuze nidonse ukunaka ngezwi elikhulu nokuziphatha cheeky. Lokho siyocabanga: "Lolu hlobo angenza noma yini", futhi ngeke uthi "Hlobo luni liluhlaza, cishe ngenxa temave lasatfutfuka.