Kuyini lokhu?

Kuyini lokhu? Leli gama has izincazelo eziningi. Omunye wabo - ikhono ukuba baveze abakucabangayo. Ukuze siphendule lo mbuzo, "kuyini" kuyadingeka ukuze ngeso lengqondo ukuthi bekuyokwenzekani ukube lesi simo engekho ngokucophelela. Khona-ke ngabe umise yonke ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu, ngenxa umphakathi njengoba enjalo ngeke nhlobo. Ngakho - ke kuyindlela yokuxhumana nokusebenzisana ngohlelo oluthile. Ngenxa yalesi izilimi injongo - ezemvelo (isib Russian) kanye yokufakelwa.

Izindlela yokukhuluma iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Zihilela sokuzwa, ezibukwayo kanye motor analyzers ubuchopho kanye apharathasi vocal. imisebenzi Kugcine sibonga umsebenzi ehlelekile ezinye zokuphefumula, izwi kanye ukuhambisana izinhlelo.

Kufanele ukwehlukanisa phakathi kolimi kanye nokukhuluma, imiqondo lawa akuwona ezifanayo. Uma kuwukuzikhohlisa - kuyindlela yokuxhumana, owokuqala - kuba inqubo yokuxhumana. Uma noma yiluphi ulimi sizalwa nawo kuso sonke isizwe, noma ngisho abantu abambalwa, khona-ke kuyinto umuntu ngamunye izikhulumi yayo.

It has imisebenzi eminingana: yekuchumana (contact liqine, ukuxhumana kolwazi), ekhululekile (Inkulumo ka imizwa, ngokuvamile ngosizo buviyoviyo), tebuciko (indima eyinhloko kulesi simo asisho ukudlala umlayezo, futhi ezakheke), significative (ukubiza lezinto futhi izakhiwo zabo) , eqinile (umzamo ukuthonya umlaleli, esibatshela esenzweni).

Kunezinhlobo ezimbili eziyinhloko yokukhuluma - zangaphakathi nezangaphandle. Lesi sakamuva wehlukaniswa iziqephu ku etemlomo nalabhalwako (engahle ngesimo inkhulumomphendvulwano noma Monologue). Isigaba yangaphakathi ekuhleleni imisebenti, kwenta na theory (imicabango). It libhekene kusele izingxenyana kanye nesimo. Kusekelwe ngesisekelo zangaphandle inkulumo. Kodwa-ke has izici zayo siqu. Ngokwesibonelo, lo mbhalo yangaphandle phakathi internalization kwangaphakathi noma kudinga kokucindezelwa ulwazi yokuqala ivolumu.

Inkulumo nokucabanga kuhlobene. Indoda ecabanga, besebenzisa amazwi ulimi lwendabuko; amazwi afingqe izimpawu, imiqondo kanye izenzakalo. Ngosizo lwabo, ukuveza imicabango yabo kanye nabanye abantu ziqondakala. Sekuyisikhathi eside waphawula ukuthi amagama kuthinte izinqubo ezenzeka emzimbeni ukuthi kubangelwa ezikushoyo nokuthi olwalusikisela ngokomzwelo: amazwi angakhuthaza, futhi kungathinta kabi, kuze kube nokuphazamiseka engqondweni.

Ngokusekelwe ukuqonda lokho esiyikho, singasho ukuthi - into eyingqayizivele eyinqaba kuphela indoda. Abanye bangase bathi, esho yokuthi izilwane Ungaphinda usebenzise ezinye izindlela bakudala yokuxhumana. Kodwa izakhiwo yokukhuluma asivumela ukuba sisho esikucabangayo, futhi lokhu ayitholakali noma for lwane. Ukuthuthukisa ikhono lokuxoxa - kungcono ukuthi lokhu kusikhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa intelligence, ngakho ukuxhumana nengane ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe kubalulekile ukuba banake kakhulu.

Ukwenza izenzo ezithile nokuba khona umntwana, unina kufanele ihambisane incazelo yabo, isibonelo: "Ngithatha pan ukupheka isobho ... ... bayahamba ukudla" Amazwi anjalo kufanele kuhambelane isimo, okungukuthi, abazali ekhishini ukhuluma ngani ukudla. egumbini lokugezela - wash, insipho, amanzi, futhi ekamelweni -. mayelana ubuthongo, ingubo, umcamelo, njll zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi isisusa esikhulu sokuthuthukisa izingane -. Lawa imibuzo embuza ukuthi kungani ukuxhumana ingane kumele yakhiwe ngendlela inkhulumomphendvulwano ( "umama wenzani manje?" - "cleaner wezindlu"), umngane ophelele ngoba. abazali kuyoba incwadi. Kuyadingeka ukuba ngezikhathi ukufunda izindaba ingane sokulala. Ukunaka imifanekiso, ungacela imibuzo. Ngale ndlela, ukuxhumana ngamazwi ukwelekelela ukuhlaziywa kwezithombe.

Khuluma nabantwana kade kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila kwabo, ukuze kancane kancane ukujwayela ulimi. izici bokuphila umntwana akamvumelanga ukuphinda ncamashi lokho asitshela abadala, ngakho umzamo wokuqala ukukhuluma - kwanhlanga zimuka nomoya. Yini okungukuthi ke ingane abaneminyaka engu elilodwa ngonyaka? Lokhu Ukuphoshoza imisindo engaqondakali. Ngemva kokuxoxa naye kuyinto kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, ngakho kwaba lula ukufunda ikhono elihle lokukhulumisana nabanye.