Kungani ungabi nayo i intombi futhi yini okufanele uyenze ukuze kubonakale?

Lenkinga yesizungu lubalulekile kakhulu kubantu yesimanje. Zonke sizama impumelelo, ngokuvamile ezindaweni eziningana zokuphila. Thina baphathe ingokomoya ezithakazelisa kakhulu futhi ecebile, kodwa kuza isikhathi, futhi uyaqaphela ukuthi sonke ngazimbili, futhi ngandlela-thile akusebenzanga. Bese uzizwa isigamu bamangale ayophoxeka - kungani angikhohliwe abe intombi, Ngingumfana omuhle? Ake sizame sokulungisa le nkinga.

Ingabe ikhona ezizungezile izintokazi amathuba?

Uma uqiniseka ukuthi inkinga nge uhlobo ukuziphatha ungaphenduki, zama ngendlela enomqondo ukuhlola yokuphila kwabo. Kukangaki ingabe ezindaweni lapho ungakwazi ukuhlangabezana nawe futhi zizihlanganise nabantu nabobulili obuhlukile? Noma iningi isikhathi sakho khulula ingabe uchitha kuphela kwi "owesilisa" izithakazelo futhi neze babe nesibindi isikhathi sokumazi? Ngezinye izikhathi impendulo yombuzo othi, "Kungani ungabi nayo i intombi" banal: Kawuphenduli lutho isikhathi futhi akukho ndawo ukuhlangabezana nokuxoxisana. Ukusiza ezimweni ezinjalo can inthanethi. Noma Ngena umthetho: okungenani kanye ngesonto ukuphuma kumuntu disco, endaweni cafe noma kwenye indawo lapho ungakwazi ukuhlangabezana engumngane zokuphila. Njalo futhi izimo lapho umuntu osemusha has a izimfuno eliphezulu kakhulu. Futhi nje awuboni ugly, ngokombono wakhe, akwanele noma amantombazane smart. Khumbula, wena umuntu yabonisa ukunakekelwa okukhethekile muva nje? Uma enqabe lomunye make ngemva kwenye, akumangalisi ukuthi, njengoba sengike ngaphawula ngalo mkhuba omusha, amantombazane maduze ayeka ukuba khona mathupha maqondana nawe.

Mhlawumbe nami ukuthi kukhona okungalungile?

"Uma Anginayo amantombazane ngokwanele isikhathi eside, mhlawumbe, kimi ukuthi kukhona okungalungile?" Umcabango Rational. Iphutha guys ezivame kakhulu namuhla - ukungakwazi ukuxhumana kanye nokukhiqiza isithakazelo kwabobulili obuhlukile. Umuntu othile inkulumo amantombazane ilahlekile iqala ukuthela umbhedo ephelele, kanti abanye, kunalokho, bafuna kubonakale "ngesihluku" futhi ibenze ke. Into ebaluleke kakhulu - ukuze uhlale yemvelo futhi ekhululekile, kube mnandi ukukhuluma naye. Landela izitayela fashion, ufunde ukugcina ingxoxo ngezihloko ezahlukene. Futhi ngakho-ke angeke kufanele bazibuze: '? Kungani mina hhayi nentombi "

Isizungu - isikhathi ukuthuthukiswa

Iningi amantombazane lanamuhla abafundile smart ngokwanele besaba labo guys abangekho kusukela zikhathi yokuqala zokuxhumana sebeqala ukukhuluma ngobuhlobo. Abanye abantu ayayazisa inkululeko yabo, nabanye, yize abaphethwe isizungu, kodwa nje abakholelwa zethembiso ngakwesokudla ngemva nje abantu obajwayele. Phakathi nemihlangano yokuqala sasivumela esho isimo sabo - yebo, Anginayo intombazane. Kodwa musa ukutshela umngane omusha kangakanani ufisa ukuze uyithole. Zama ukuxhumana kakhudlwana futhi ungaphenduli zonke intombazane ongeyena ngokumelene ndawonye endaweni ethile ukuya noma ukukhuluma njengoba nengxenye yesibili ezingaba khona. Vumela ubuhlobo ukuthuthukisa ngokwemvelo, ngoba okokuqala udinga ukufunda kangaka mayelana nomunye, thola izithakazelo ezivamile. Futhi mhlawumbe ngokushesha kuyoba nabathile imizwa, futhi akafuni ukuchitha isikhathi sami ku omunye ngaphandle kwakho. Nakuba yokusesha asebenzayo, ube nesikhathi esanele ukuba baphile ngenjabulo, ukubukela kanye nokufunda kanye self-ngcono. Ake uhambe kwesifiso sakho esilawulayo ukubhanqwa nomuntu, futhi ngokushesha konke kuzokwenzeka ngawodwana, wena ngeke usaba obakhathalelayo umbuzo: "Kungani mina hhayi nentombi"