Iphethini Owesilisa. Izinga top indoda yesimanje

Okwamanje isimo Ukushoda okukhulu okukhona emhlabeni wanamuhla zabantu zangempela. Lapho sigcina zonke izinhlobo nemikhutshana kuleso uqobo ucela umbuzo: uhlamvu komuntu - lokho ufana? Futhi ababuzwayo hhayi kuphela abesifazane kodwa futhi amadoda. Kukhona inhlekelele ungubani sabantu besilisa. Ngakho, ephendula umbuzo othile, sanquma ukuhlola okukhethwa ahlukahlukene indoda ekahle. Phela, njengalawo noma cha, futhi umbuzo ukuthi uyini ngempela yokucabanga indoda yomuntu ekhombisa ekufezeni kanokusho ummeleli wobulili namandla. Leso sihloko wayengekho unesicefe khulu, sanquma uhlanganise cocktail elipholile movie stars, izibalo etemibhalo nabantu abavamile.

Icacisa uhlobo lasungulwa

Academic ukucacisa uhlobo yisicefe futhi engaqondakali umfundi ungakulungele, ngakho sizozama ukuphendula umbuzo mayelana nesimo ngendlela yabo futhi njengoba nje ngangokunokwenzeka.

Confucius wathi: "Hlwanyela umcabango - uvuna isenzo uhamba emhlabeni isenzo - uvune umkhuba, uvune umkhuba - bavune uhlamvu, ukuhlwanyela uhlamvu - bavune phetho."

Ngakho, umlingisi - isimiso izimfanelo zangaphakathi lomuntu, okuyinto inquma ubuhlobo bomuntu ngokwakhe, izwe kanye nabanye abantu.

Njengoba kwakhiwa it is, Psychology, yebo, uyazi konke lokhu kodwa, kunalokho, njengomuntu ocatshangelwayo. Kungani umuntu onjalo, hhayi omunye, kusenzima imfihlakalo. Kodwa umqondo oyisisekelo bengqondo usengakwazi ukudweba. Kunezici ezimbili eziyinhloko: imfundo kanye nezici bokuphila yomuntu. Kulesi sisekelo, singasho uhlamvu komuntu - isilinganiso olinganiselayo evumayo imvelo yangaphandle nezimfanelo yangaphakathi. Isibonelo: abazali bagxilise ingane umkhuba wazibekela imigomo futhi uyifinyelele imigomo. Kwenzeka futhi okuphambene nalokho: umuntu ukhiqiza buwumsuka kwangaphakathi ukugwema emiphumeleni elimazayo umndeni ukuphuma umthelela wabo. Kafushane, kwenzeka ngezindlela ezahlukene, kodwa uma uku amabili nanhlanu, ukuthi nokububula ngokumelene abazali isivele isono. Uma ngalesi abantu yobudala akekho isibe, ke kwenzelwe nje izinkinga zakhe. Lona isihloko "kwencazelo uhlamvu."

lena yesigaba sabasebenzi

Kukhona emhlabathini Russian are labo ungalithengisi omakhalekhukhwini, umshwalense, ayi nokunye. Kungenzeka ngisho emifushane: kusenabantu kwalabo abangamazi ukudayisa. lawo madoda kancane kancane sisengozini yokuqothulwa njengoba endaweni yazo iphele. Kuyinto Yebo, ngabantu amakhono ukusebenza. Thatha isibonelo umuntu, isisebenzi efektri.

Umfundi uzothi, akuyona le ndawo enhle, futhi lapho kukhona uhlamvu wesilisa? mfundi othandekayo, sibekezele bese umbona ngamehlo engqondo ukuphila yesisebenzi elula. Avuke nsuku zonke, ngaphandle ngezimpelasonto, at 6:30, nokunye iminyaka engu-30 noma engu-60 ubudala (ngokuvamile ngesikhathi isitshalo ukuza kusenesikhathi). ethile isibindi siyadingeka ukuze baphile usuku nosuku.

Ubuthakathaka futhi ebheka namakhono sabasebenzi njengoba uhlobo

amantombazane Socialite nezinye enesimangalo kunzima ukukholelwa ukuthi lolu hlobo indoda kungaletha. Futhi okwamanje kunjalo. Ungase uthi ngisho ukuthi isithombe indoda has a uhlamvu oqinile.

Isithunzi. Le ndoda kuleli cala won abesifazane by alula, ukuntuleka frills. Uma lena yesigaba sabasebenzi ayinakho ukushiyeka okungathi sína kobuntu, kwakungase ngisho imali kuthiwa wenziwa esezingeni eliphakathi nendawo.

Inkinga ukuthi umuntu noma kunjalo kuvimbela emsebenzini isimiso engekho incazelo ephakeme.

Uma lena yesigaba sabasebenzi - kumuntu othambekele imikhuba emibi, khona-ke sizosebenza umndeni nezingane. Nokho, ukuze lokhu kubalulekile ukuthi owesifazane wafika ebucayi nokuqonda.

Okumbi. Kumele ukuthi kobukhulu umsebenzi ngokomzimba kuhilela izinhlobo ezithile nokuzilibazisa, okwakusho musa athembisa abantu abazenzayo noma yikuphi okuhle. Ngokwesibonelo, singakhumbula imodeli zokuphila nozakwethu izikhungo ezinjengalezi iqhawe tetemibhalo, Martin Edene.

Umphathi - iqhawe besikhathi sethu

Kunzima ukusho ukuthi isithombe lilonke umphathi uhlamvu wesilisa. Kodwa uma ucabangela ukuthi manje abaphathi kufanele cishe konke, cishe akunakwenzeka vele. Cabanga ukuthi inhloko yawo esitolo beza kuye ekuqaleni njengoba ukuzihlanza, bese, ngokusebenzisa uchungechunge lwezinto ezenzeke ngengozi, baba umqondisi.

Nakuba, cishe, ekubeni ngokoqobo Russian Kunzima ukucabanga Esimeni esinjalo. Phela, ku uchungechunge eyakhiwe kahle icebo movie zenzakalo "Imfihlo yempumelelo yami" nge uMichael J. Fox in the indima abaholayo.

Umphathi - impohlo ingafaneleki?

Isithunzi. Uma sicabange ukuthi kusenabantu eRussia (nakuba kunzima ukuthi yenzeke), kuba izimfanelo elingenakuphikwa ukuthi uvusiwe phansi, futhi uyazi ukuthi imali. Wavele azenza. Mayelana uyiqhawe ngengqondo besikhathi sethu ungakwazi nakanjani ukusho ukuthi unalo uhlamvu oqinile. Cishe noma yimuphi izenzakalo ekuphileni imi ngokuzimisela. Ezimweni ezinjalo, abantu bathi umuntu induku.

izimfanelo Negative. Lapha kunzima ukusho, umphathi akusho nokukodwa deformations professional ethize. Konke kuncike umuntu. Thina ukukhuphuka okwengeziwe isikhundla esiphakeme emphakathini.

Businessman Okuqukethwe akuzwakali

Ngokwesibonelo, umnikazi wenkampani yokwakha edolobheni yesifundazwe, akusho ukuthi encane. Ngokuvamile, eqinisweni, ifemu kungaba noma ikuphi, ngisho ukukhiqizwa downy shawls. Into esemqoka akunjalo. Lolu hlobo uchaza engenayo kuqhathaniswa eliphezulu futhi umuzwa wokuzizwa ubalulekile. Wayengahlezi esetshenziswa imikhawulo nezifiso zabo siqu. Uma umuntu othile ecela uhlamvu wesilisa - kumayelana kuye? Yiqiniso, ukuhlela eRussia ibhizinisi, kubalulekile ukuba hhayi kuphela ngamandla omoya, kodwa futhi isibindi.

Umsebenzi inomthelela kakhulu lo somabhizinisi ekuphileni komkhaya?

Kunzima ukusho, bonke ngamunye. Konke kuncike okuqukethwe zokuziphatha komuntu ngamunye. Ubunzima wukuthi ibhizinisi kungenziwa ezigxilile ngabanye, futhi kungenzeka nje kube umsebenzi lowo muntu ekwenza kahle. Ngakho-ke, ukuhlukahluka zingenzeka. Lapho indoda enhle igxile umndeni, kuyoba umyeni imodeli. Uma umndeni wakhe libaluleke kancane futhi yenza isivumelwano ngenxa Izinsiza, indoda enjalo izithole iphathe umkayo njengomuntu wezangaphakathi. Izingane kulesi simo, ingabe waqonda njengoba into "kufanele kube", kodwa bavame - unkosikazi ngokuphelele okhathalelayo.

Angicabangi ukuthi isihogo. Abanye besifazane akukhona nje abekezelela lokhu isimo sezinto, kodwa futhi inkanuko ezikudingayo. Bazimisele ukudayisa inkululeko yabo ngisho induduzo ekhaya, kanti ezinye isiqinisekiso social futhi ekuphileni, engazi ukuthi empeleni akuzona. Akekho ongaba athembisa lutho ngokugcwele.

usozigidi

Ekugcineni sifika izithonjana iningi abesifazane zanamuhla. Futhi ngisho yokusesha amaphutha kunzima. Ngenxa isicebi, kusukela iphuzu Ngenxa iningi labesifazane, "nokwelukiweyo kusuka izimfanelo olulodwa okuqinile, 'njengoba hero of the ifilimu abadumile Eldar Ryazanov. Kodwa umsebenzi wethu - Umhlaziyi, ngakho indiva mihlangano futhi waphuthuma ngesibindi ukucinga isicebi sintula.

Yiqiniso, ngokuvumelana abesifazane, yena a isiqhwaga. Ubufakazi amandla zakhe zinobulungisa ngezindlela wakwazi ukuzuza.

Ngesikhathi lapho zenani kakhulu imali, abantu bazimisele ukukhulekela muntu owayekhulula yokulawula kubo.

Okumbi kokubili uhlobo Millionaire

Amahloni, kodwa kusadingeka ukuba nihlukane lesi sithombe elikhanyayo.

Okokuqala, umka-isicebi - le nto futhi amathuluzi, hhayi umuntu.

Okwesibili, owesifazane waphuma ngomuntu ocebile kwakungeyona yena. Akukhona khulula.

Okwesithathu, isofthiwe ephelele Angekhe utjho kwelinye akumnandi kakhulu isikhashana kukufake ukuwohloka ngokuphelele nobumpofu ephelele. Ngezinye abayizinjinga abameli ezinhle, futhi ngenxa yalokho yakhelwe zomshado.

Lolu luluhlangothi flip yesithombe, ngokuthi "indoda enamandla," - umfuziselo usozimali.

Superheroes - kunjongo?

Kungani Batman noma Spider-Man okubangelwa injabulo enjalo besifazane? Akunzima ukuchaza. Superheroes - ubeqhakambisa amaphupho zabesifazane. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Bryus Ueyn - isicebi, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, akusiyo engekho nomuzwa wobulungisa. He is walilwela yokulwa nobugebengu futhi Dark Knight ka Ubutha City. Kafushane, beefcake. By the way, B. Wayne futhi ngoba iphupho ukuthi - omunye ngenhlonipho ezimbalwa, filantropichnyh abantu abacebile. Ngisho nento amahloni ukubuza, kodwa ubunjalo indoda? Yiqiniso! Wena ukugembula! Testosterone nje liphenduka.

"Spider" - sibalo okuningi nesizotha more. Yena nje klutz umthwebuli wezithombe. Hhayi njengoba cool njengoba Bryus Ueyn, kodwa namanje cute.

Kuzo zombili nabalingiswa abasemqoka ukuthi zingabantu namaqhawe. Kuwo wonke owesifazane ophila ngiseyintombazanyana, futhi yena amaphupho yinkosana. Batman ukule umqondo kukho stylish ezingaphezu kuka indodana bendabuko yenkosi, nehhashi manje emfashinini, futhi enye into - the Batmobile.

Washada superhero. Ungazibona yini ngeso lengqondo lokho?

Ngikhumbula anecdote ubudala: ". Umyeni ephelele - ukaputeni ulwandle yisithulu phumputheka!" Ngempela, ukulwa emelene okubi akuyona okuningi ezahlukene kusukela ukuthi itilosi. Ngakho-ke, izinhlamvu zamahlaya kuphela abangane, kodwa akukho abesifazane. Khona-ke wagqoka isisindo futhi aphume umumo, futhi kwakunjalo wayemelwe umhlalaphansi, kodwa okhathalelayo?

Cha, izinhlamvu kudingeke ngibe ngedwa. Lokhu kunezela indlela yabo romanticism. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zihlale abasha, sebeke baya ocansini namanenekazi. Uma "isicabucabu" noma Batman akuyona umnumzana, unesikhundla villain. Kuyadabukisa lokho ngakho empilweni ompetha - kuphela ngaphansi kohlaka ezinhle njalo futhi yonke indawo. By the way, akunandaba, umuntu omubi noma omuhle (noma iqhawe), kodwa ubunjalo indoda akusho ahlupheke. Guys kungaba ezingafanele.

abalobi Real futhi wacabanga

Laba balobi ngokuvamile yisicefe futhi njalo ukubhala, empeleni, yingakho amagama abo. Ngakho-ke, ukukhuluma ngazo ungakujabulisi. Sizokhuluma kangcono mayelana abalobi ozijwayele abafundi nezibukeli: Wizard lesitsetfwe enovelini main M. A. Bulgakova futhi umbhali-sihlubuki Hanke Moody.

Master - lena iphupho wonke amantombazane romantic. Muhle smart, enhle, abanamakhono. Lena izimfanelo zayo ezinhle uhlamvu. Nokho, ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuthi akanawo amandla kaPawulu angena ajule, sengozini, okubuhlungu. Ngamanye amazwi, u-Master - kuyinto enhle generalized akayena umuntu, njengoba umuntu zokudala jikelele. Master ngezindlela ezithile ngendlela isifazane kakhulu. Kodwa amantombazane akanandaba imali, kodwa ufuna uthando ehlanzekile omkhulu, limnandi kakhulu.

Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi Umninimuzi UMargarita alikwazanga ndawonye phansi, kodwa kuphela lapho esephumule (thina ngamabomu akashongo "emazulwini" ngoba akucaci kahle lapho umbhangqwana kowamanqamu noveli). Futhi kungcono ngokuphelele kweqiniso. Uma uqhubeka lesi love story emhlabeni in the best Margarita ENkosini kwakuyoba zonke yami abathandi ukuphila, futhi neze ngabe zamhambela Master endaweni ukunyakazisa iminwe, futhi yena wazibulala.

Uma ukusika ngokwengqondo off uhambo nge pair of Woland, indlela ekugcineni. Zonke olwaphela. Zonke wafa. Futhi labo akazange wakhe uyaphuma, yena Uyahlanya.

Kuyaziwa ukuthi sibonelo Hank kwaba Charles Bukowski. Mangisho ukuthi Hank - ekhululekile futhi "kakhulu ayesebenza 'engumfanekiso umsunguli" okwangempela ezingcolile ". Okufanele ukwenze, Hollywood uhlushwa ubuthakathaka ngezithombe amahle. Eqinisweni, uma Bukowski ezihlongozwayo ukukhetha olukhulu phakathi utshwala nabesifazane, ayeyohlala ngowokuqala. Ngenhlanhla ngokoqobo lokhu kukhetha hhayi ahlinzekwa, futhi uvikelwe phakathi izinto ezimbili kukhona izinto eziningi angenamkhawulo.

Uma umuntu phakathi kwenu umuntu efunda leli vesi lizokunika sisuke sithi cha, thina bangezi Hank, abakopelayo noma kithi, noma yena, ngoba izilinganiso uchungechunge ungahlali. Futhi nakanjani akubukeki kuphela amadoda.

Hank ukuthandwa abesifazane ngoba inikeza ababukeli umlobi - indlela ngesihluku (ubuntu bakhe, mangisho ngakho ngokwami) lokhu Malchish-baddie. Ake Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, scoundrels bathande abesifazane njalo ezingaphezu kuka guys okuhle. Enye S. Dovlatov wabhala ngo "ebucayini": "Ngilapha ezinhle, umuntukazana ngidinga?" Umbuzo zakudala zonke guys omkhulu.

Hank hypnotizes abesifazane, ngoba testosterone okumsulwa (baningi ngisho nangaphezu kwezinwele Batman). Yena emelela dream endala njalo intombazane kwi romance abampofu, kodwa ebukekayo.

By endleleni, uma thina umfuziselo phakathi isithombe ezimbili ngengqondo yomlobi, uthola lokhu okulandelayo: uma Master wazalwa esikhathini sethu, lapho kungenzeka ukuthi ube Hank. Yilokho ngakho 21 leminyaka th sibi kakhulu kunalokho okuboniswa th 20.

The Godfather njengoba indoda zemikhaya ezikahle. "Owesifazane sibe abanganaki, indoda - neze"

Kuyacaca ukuthi wonke amaqhawe movie odlule nezinhlamvu etemibhalo bebelokhu abayeni ezimbi, kodwa hhayi The Godfather - Don Vito Corleone. Yiqiniso, uma nje sifulathela imisebenzi yakhe professional kanye nezici ezihlobene nazo.

uyise kaMichael kwezinye izindlela i ikhanda ekahle umndeni.

1. Smart. Behlakaniphile.
2. ukuvikela Njalo nomndeni wakho.
3. Awunantshisekelo abesifazane, ukuphuza nokugembula. Ngamanye amazwi, akukho imikhuba emibi.
4. Naphezu indima yayo eyinhloko esithombeni umkhaya, futhi balazisa uzithanda nonkosikazi wakhe, unina wamadodana akhe.
5. Kakhulu uyakuthanda (mhlawumbe ngokweqile) izingane zabo.

Ngisho kule ukuhlaziywa olukha phezulu umfanekiso Don Corleone kuyacaca ukuthi ubuswa izici wesilisa omuhle. Umutjhwana kusukela ingxenye trilogy yesibili, lapho uVito iza umngane yaseshashalazini, lapho udlala umngane wabo, abese ebuza lo Godfather esilandelayo "uVito Nokho, yena muhle?" - "Ngoba wena mhlawumbe, kodwa kimi kukhona emayini kuphela ngenkosikazi nezingane. "

Yini yowesifazane yayingeke ababefuna ukuzwa amazwi ayethule? Enye inkinga: akuzona zonke sibekezelele nesimo sokuziphatha Don Vito. Nobuntu lwekhanda Mafia kungaba nje esimangalisayo, uma ebengalidluliselanga waminza izandla zabo egazini.

umbukiso kwezifiso

Isithombe wadala ngokuhlanganyela Marlonom Brando, uFrancis Ford Coppola kanye Mario Puzo, amaHubo bugcizelelwa athikili yethu. Waba yini umphumela wesibindi ke kancane elibuhlungu, okungukuthi, safika esiphethweni sokuthi esinalo abamele amaqembu athile yezenhlalakahle (prole, umphathi, usomabhizinisi, isicebi), okuyinto ukungaqondi kubhekwe kuphela izinhloso, ngoba "ngamunye amaphutha ayo," futhi-movie namaqhawe, kuphela omunye okuyinto efanelekayo ngisho umshado.

Uma sizibuze, iziphi izimfanelo okufanele abe umuntu wesimanje, impendulo kuyadida. Abesilisa namuhla sinikezwe izici ezifana:

1. Enempilo.
2. Ezihle.
3. Neat futhi icocekile.
4. abahola ehloniphekile.
5. Uyabathanda abesifazane.
6. It izibophezele obuqinile.
7. Collectivist ngokuvumelana nesimilo ezinkampani umoya individualist. Kahle kahle, lezi zimfanelo kumelwe ngandlela-thile uhlangane ukwakha ubunye obunobunye.
8. Abaningi ungaphuzi (ezweni ukuthi ibusa ngonyaka 15 amalitha utshwala lengenako, lokhu kuyinto ipharamitha ezibalulekile).

Ngomqondo onabile, ezinye zezinhlobo eboniswe lapha (okusho ukuthi "amasampula" yangempela kuphela) kungaba ukubabela irhuluphelo indoda zanamuhla, ubani owaphucwa emelela engcono besilisa izimfanelo. iphethini Male, ngokulandelana, ngokuya izethulo langempela kufanele kube.

Sonke - ngensimbi isithombe siqu

Kuyini ecacile wukuthi indoda kungaba ilungelo, owesifazane ofanele eseduze. Uma intombazane ihlangabezana umfana njalo ebusuku ka Indathane izikhalazo, umuntu angabona ngeke alindele ukuthi kuzoba besilisa ekahle. Nakuba kungase kube ukuphathwa zishukumise ezinjalo. Ngamanye amazwi, ubunjalo ngokoqobo ihlukile, wonke umuntu siqu sakhe. Kodwa zonke siyakwazi ukuthola kancane kangcono.

Into esemqoka ukuthi kufanele uqonde: ubani asisona esingenathemba (ngaphandle, mhlawumbe, a umlutha wezidakamizwa yokugcina utshwala), okuyinhloko onekhono ungakha yobuciko ngisho kusukela izinto ezimbi.

Futhi owesifazane akufanele alindele ukuthi ngeke ngomkhumbi ezandleni irhuluphelo umuntu wesimanje, kodwa ungahlala udala ke kulokho bekulokhu, kokwesikhulu (nokuphelela) incane, futhi bonke ngothi lwabo azikho.

ukubukeka komuntu, okuyinto yawela ezandleni zakhe, ungashintsha ukuthi ingagqugquzela isizinda imali. Yiqiniso, akuwona epanini ukuthosa, kodwa uthando kuphela ezihlekela futhi unesimo sengqondo esihle. Lapho umqophi uthola ucezu itshe, it is ngokuyinhloko ucubungula ikhwalithi impahla, namathemba ahambisana nako. Owesifazane ubuka indoda akufanele usibone kuyini ngempela, kodwa indlela kungaba. Masingabi ukufihla ikhono ukuvulwa kwamehlo ubunjalo beqiniso bomuntu - ubuciko okukhulu, futhi kufanele bafunde ngaphezu konyaka owodwa.

Ngamafuphi, sithanda hhayi kuphela ukukhuluma mayelana engcono izimfanelo wesilisa, kodwa futhi kancane olushaqisayo oluhloselwe ukuhlekisa nekujabulisa umfundi. Asazi ukuthi impumelelo izuzwe kule ndaba, kodwa sifuna ukuba bakholelwe ukuthi yebo. Kunoma ikuphi, ubunjalo ngezigaba yethu kwaba yesayensi, kodwa nokho ayelapho izici zayo yezinye izinhlobo zobu-amadoda. Futhi kumele abe wusizo ngco kulofundzako.