Indlela yokuziveza ngendlela yokuthi uzothola ukwethenjwa ngokushesha?

Inhlalakahle yakho incike ekutheni uzethule. Ukuze uthole umsebenzi, thola abantu obalulekile kuwe, uphethe isivumelwano esisebenzayo nomlingani onentshisekelo, udinga ukuqhuba uhlobo lwenkampani yokukhangisa lapho "umkhiqizo" okhangisiwe kufanele ube wena noma imibono yakho, ulwazi, ulwazi.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungakwazi ukunamathela kumgomo jikelele wokumaketha, ngokusekelwe ezinzeni ezinjengokuthi:

• Yazi;
• Funda izidingo eziyisisekelo ohlangothini oluphambene;
• Zethule ngokwakho;
• Ngokugcwele nangokuhambisana nezintshisekelo zabo ukunikeza izimpendulo zemibuzo evelayo kanye nokuphikisa;
• Xoxa, vala isivumelwano noma nje;
• Ungapheli isikhathi eside kusukela emkhakheni wombono futhi ugcine othintana nabo isikhathi eside.

Isikhathi sokuphola sibaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Ukuze uphumelele, ziqaphele, yenza ukuzihlola okugcwele. Okokuqala, hlola idatha yangaphandle, ngoba, njengoba wazi, bahlangana nathi ngezingubo. Bese ubheka lezo zici zobuntu ezizosiza ukuheha nokuthola abantu kuwe.

Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukusebenza kancane - thatha iphepha lephepha bese udweba kuwo imigqa emibili equidistant. Ngenxa yalokho, uzothola amakholomu amathathu. Bhala phansi amaphuzu akho obuthakathaka ekuqaleni, weqa okwesibili, bese ugcwalisa ikholomu yesithathu, ubhala izifanele zakho kuwo. Manje thatha izikali, uthathe futhi ushise ikholomu yokuqala nazo zonke iziphambeko zakho eziveziwe. Lezi zimfanelo ngeke zikuvumele ukuba uzicabange kahle.

Kodwa awukwazi ukukhohlisa abantu ozohamba nawo ukwakha ubudlelwane obude, ngakho-ke kukholomu yamahhala, okwesibini ulandelana, bhala kabusha amaphutha akho kufomu elincane. Ngokwesibonelo, esikhundleni sokuthi "umona," ungabhala "ukulingisa impumelelo," futhi "ukuthambekela okwandayo ukuphikisana" kuguqulwa "isimo sengqondo esingenakuqondana nemikhuba emibi yabanye abantu." Lokhu kakade, naphezu kokuncane, kodwa isinyathelo sokuya ekunqobeni.

Isibonelo, kuzomele uzethule kumncintiswano, futhi lokhu kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izimfanelo iqembu elihlolayo elifunayo futhi elifuna ukulibona. Ngisho noma unezimpumelelo ezithile, kodwa endaweni engathandeki kubantu abanombono onesithakazelo, awunakho ukuziqhenya. Kungcono ukulalela kulabo asebevele benze okwengeziwe kulolo lwazi, bese uqala ukwamukela izimfanelo zabo. Ukuboleka amanye amakhono awusizo abantu, ngamunye wethu uba umuntu othembekile kakhulu, okuwukuthi ukuzithemba kubaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni.

Kulesi simo sengqondo, umuntu kufanele anikeze izimpendulo zemibuzo ebuzwa ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana. Lokhu akulula ukwenza, ngakho-ke udinga ukufundela ubuciko obukhethekile, okukunika ithuba lokuba nawe futhi uthole kalula imali yokukhokha.

Ukuziphakamisa akufanele kungabi nakwazi. Ngisho noma ungewona isigaba sama-rooks acabanga ukuthi ungaziveza kanjani emncintiswaneni wokuhle , futhi uphuphe isiphetho esincane kakhulu, khumbula ukuthi awudingi ukudlula. Ukungahloniphi noma ukuthobeka ngokweqile kuholela empumelelweni.