Kanjani ukuhlela umshado ekhaya?

Kuze kube manje, omunye ibhizinisi ethandwa kakhulu uhlela izenzakalo, noma ukuphathwa mcimbi. Luhilela ukufakwa egcwele inqubo yokubhaliswa isenzakalo esibalulekile ezimpilweni zabantu - zokuzalwa, imishado. Kodwa zikhona izinkampani isevisi bekwi leli bhizinisi lokho kufana "turnkey lomshado", ngokuvamile hhayi ezishibhile. Ngenxa yokuthi abaningi esizayo abasanda kushada ukuyazi mayelana nendlela ukuhlela emshadweni wabo siqu.

Isinyathelo sokuqala kule ndaba ebucayi ukucoca umbono jikelele migubho. Yini ngempela ufuna ukuthola e ngalolu suku, okuyinto edingekayo emisebenzini okufanele zibe seBhayibhelini? Ingani kwamanje abanye abantu abakwazi ukucabanga ngosuku ngaphandle intengo umakoti, nezinye ezibalulekile kuphela khona photographer and Umthwebuli phezu inqubo yokubhaliswa komshado. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi ukuthi uhlela umshado, ukukhuluma nomunye njengoba kuyoba usuku empilweni yakho eyinhloko.

Khona-ke, ukuze kube lula inqubo yokuhlela womcimbi, kumele unike ngokucacile yemfanelo: isibonelo, kuyilapho umkhwenyana ihholo lomcimbi, umakoti kuvumelana umthwebuli wezithombe. Ngokuvamile, kulesigaba akufanele namahloni futhi sicele usizo abangani nezihlobo: umama, ofakazi esizayo, abangane. I kahle kakhulu okusabalalisa imisebenzi, i-isikhathi namandla ukuthatha inhlangano.

Isinyathelo esilandelayo enqubeni kunzima kanjani ukuhlela umshado, ukuba bavumelane uhlu lwezivakashi. Phela, ngamunye amaqembu ukuba sishade, izihlobo zethu nabangane abangakholwa kanye ungathanda ukubona lolu suku lwabo. Udinga ukwenza uhlu, esekelwe isabelomali umcimbi, njengoba izivakashi kudingeka ukuze ajabulise, okuphakelayo, jabulisa. Ungesabi ukuba enze umshado encane, futhi nakakhulu-ke akudingekile ukubheka imibono yabanye kulo magazini: usuku kuphela umakoti nomkhwenyana kufanele unqume ukuthi ubani bayokujabulela ukubona.

Esinye isiqeshana izeluleko zendlela ukuhlela wedding yakho engabizi: kungcono ukwenza inombolo enkulu yezimfanelo ngezandla zabo. Akunjalo ngempela ngokushesha thunga ingubo yomshado ngokwayo, kodwa ukuze asindise, ungalungisa akho izimemo yezivakashi, ukuhlobisa isixha Bridal futhi boutonniere. Futhi uma othile kusuka nezintombi noma abangane ibe namakhono akhethekile - kungani ningasebenzisi kubo? Hand wenza ezihlalweni izindandatho, imigexo umakoti zaveza champagne izibuko , noma ngisho ingcweti-ngamagugu iringi kuyoba ingxenye sikhunjulwe nokuhlanganyela kulelo holide. Futhi, ungakwazi ukuxoxisana nanoma ubani kubanikazi abangane-imoto ukushayela ukuba umbhalisi futhi yokudlela ngokukhokha yabo igesi mileage.

Kodwa uma labo abamenyiwe ukuthi imali eningi - akwanele, kodwa iholide ufuna, ungakwazi umane ugcine idili endaweni yokudlela. Kunalokho, kungcono kakhulu ukuba sicabangele ukukhetha indlela ukuhlela umshado emaphandleni. Ukuthengwa inyama, nezinkuni izoso Ungadla ukuhlela ukuza ishibhile ukuqasha ngisho zokudlela yesifundazwe kakhulu. Badinga kuphela ukuvumelana kusengaphambili ku ngubani izodlala indima umpheki eholidini yakho - into umakoti nge umkhwenyana imi izoso uyojabula zonke izoso kusihlwa. Kodwa ukuze kwehlele ukusiza zonke izinhlobo sonkana ngokuqinile ukuthi bakhonza izinga engabizi futhi okusezingeni eliphezulu epikinikini Bridal.

Njengoba ubona, izindlela ukuthi uhlela umshado, zahlukahlukene kakhulu, futhi uma izimfanelo zakho inhlangano bhalisiwe, ikhono ukuxoxisana nabantu ngokuqinile ulandele uhlelo, umcimbi izindaba ezinjalo eziyinkimbinkimbi efana lomshado, kuyoba kuwe elula futhi kumnandi ukuhlela.