Bhala siyakuhalalisela enhle umshado ngamazwi akho

Wedding - umcimbi obalulekile kakhulu. Nakuba hhayi yonke imishado iphela uthando eliyingqayizivele, kodwa lo mbhangqwana bakholelwa ukuthi pair zabo uzobuyisa umuzwa umhlabeleli iminyaka eminingi ngomshado. Kusuke kufanele kube njalo, ngoba inkolelo injabulo nakanjani sidonse isenzakalo esijabulisayo.

Ngosuku lomshado, futhi izivakashi ayadingeka ukuze kuboniswe abashadayo injabulo ngenxa yabo, futhi manje efisa uzwakale ngosuku lomshado. Akukho ndawo amaphethini, ngoba umuntu ngamunye unomthwalo ukuhalalisela abathandekayo. Nokho, eminyakeni embalwa edlule kwakukhona uhlobo imfashini ukubingelelana evesini. Futhi zonke kungaba esihle, kodwa amavesi anisibo abenu, kodwa kuthathwe "endaweni ethile": kusukela ngifaka kusuka ku-intanethi, kusukela amaphrofayli esikoleni samantombazane ...

Namuhla, into evamile futhi evamile kubhekwe lapho enikeza isipho abashadayo ufunde inkondlo inyatheliswe lokuposa. Kodwa abaningi kumnandi? Ingabe sicabanga inkulumo congratulation ngokusuka enhliziyweni? Mhlawumbe once upon a time iminyaka, amabili edlule, lapho kwakukhona siyakuhalalisela evamile umshado ngamazwi akho, izinkondlo babe into engavamile yasekuqaleni. Bese zalotshelwa, ezimweni eziningi, yi-congratulator. Ngakho musa ngisho kakhulu amavesi alo yayibaluleke kakhulu ukuba umakoti nomkhwenyana. Kodwa kukhona izindaba ezinhle vesi, okuyinto vele kwakuzwakala endaweni ethile? Isikhathi esabelwe isethulo izipho siyakuhalalisela, iphenduka ibe isidina, eside esisuka imizuzu leyo, eqinisweni, akekho unesithakazelo.

Kodwa ungakwazi ukubhala imikhonzo lomshado ngamazwi akho, futhi akusho ukuthi evesini. Hlanza futhi efudumele ivuthele umakoti nomkhwenyana ngokuphelele esikhundleni imigqa okunoshukela emakhadini intshontshiwe. Ukuze lokhu ukubingelela kwaba original ngempela, sebenzisa imithetho embalwa:

1. Bayakhohlwa standard, ezifana nokuthi: ". Halala emshadweni, Ngifisa sengathi ngabe injabulo, uthando impilo" Khuphukela okuthile eyabo.

2. Musa ukuhalalisela "ngamagama amathathu", kodwa gwema izinkulumo ezinde emva kwamaminithi ambalwa. Awufuni izimenywa sebalala ngenkathi ufunda lokubingelela kwakho? Kahle kahle, kufanele kuthathe amaminithi ambalwa, plus / lokususa umzuzu owodwa. Futhi libona zikhawu.

3. Ngo-kwemigomo siyakuhalalisela umshado ngamazwi akho, okokuqala kunakho konke, uzibone endaweni abathandi. Cishe akunakwenzeka ukuthi ngeke ufisa wena umonakalo. Irekhodi okusalungiswa lokho abacabanga ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu kule zemikhaya ezikahle.

4. Manje, ake ucabange umakoti nomkhwenyana. Mhlawumbe ujwayelene kuphela omunye wabo. Uma bobabili, kungcono ngisho. Cabanga ngalokho amagugu omndeni ukhiye ekuqondeni kwabo? Record ekubhaleni noma yini engase ivele.

5. Buyekeza uhlu ewumphumela. Uma ezinye imishwana ziyaphikisana nomunye, nokhishwe kubo. Of asele Songa umbhalo akulula futhi hhayi abstruse kakhulu. Ungayisebenzisi imisho njengo: "Ngisho noma uke alwa eziningi kuze kube manje, Ngithemba, emva komshado, konke kuyoba ngcono." Kunoma yikuphi! Konke kufanele kube ezintweni ezakhayo. Futhi khumbula: siyakuhalalisela nokuhlela umshado ngamazwi akho akudingeki ukudalula izimfihlo siqu abathandi.

6. Phinda ufunde. Uma kuzwakala kukuhle, Phindza ubhale ngesikhatsi ikhadi enhle.

7. Uma namanje ngempela ufuna ukubhala vesi ngedwa, sikwenze. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuthi ulifunde emshadweni, ukumemezela ukuthi - owakho. Okokuqala, kuyoba nesithakazelo, futhi okwesibili, lo mbhangqwana bayoyazisa. ivesi yakhe - into ekhetheke kakhulu.

Ngosuku lomshado kulotshiwe ingafundwa kusuka ekhadini noma ukutshela ngelakho, pre-wafunda. Uma ukhetha incwadi, nokho niqhubeke ikhadi ususondele; ngokuzumayo razvolnuetes bese ukhohlwa into.
Lapho liyokhala siyakuhalalisela umshado ngamazwi akho, noma amavesi ngifaka, umlayezo wakho kuyoba ngenye yezinkampani ezingcono kakhulu. Ngoba kuyoba into ekhona ukuthi alikho iningi siyakuhalalisela - umphefumulo.