Eyizigidigidi ezingu: kanjani njengabantu?

Kusukela zisencane, izinkathazo zesifazane wacabanga ukuthi njengabantu. Ntombazanyana egqoke umgexo sikamama futhi hobbling ngokuntenga kuya esibukweni esikhulu ngokweqile izicathulo ne izithende, kakade ihlola ngokuhlolisisa ngokwezinga kudlulisa kwakhe icala.

Le ntombazane liye landa kancane. Eneminyaka eyishumi nantathu, futhi enendawo eningi izakhiwo, "ikhala elikhulu" noma ukuthi "mubi izinwele umbala," noma "Ngingumfana amafutha amaningi." Njengoba abadala, amantombazanyana ngizibuze umbuzo: "Kanti ngingumJuda yini mina enhle ngokwanele? Akulona kancane, namabele ami? Ingabe kukhona ngokwanele eside izinyawo zami na? "

Futhi empeleni, lokho imilenze njengabantu? Long-predlinnye - ngokushesha ababaze abesifazane abaningi. Uyaqiniseka ngalokho? Ngisho nangemva kokuba umdala ngokwanele futhi abavuthiwe nakho, thina, izintokazi, bengayeki bazibuze ukuthi amadoda sengathi ngaphezulu? Kuyini ngowesifazane edonsela ubulili namandla? Kanjani ukuze nidonse ukunaka? Futhi okubaluleke - indlela uyigcine? Mhlawumbe behave fana abesilisa abanjalo ukuba lalelani noma ezingezwakali, okuncane noma kunomoya?

Kwaphela amakhulu eminyaka, indima ubulili abanamandla nababuthaka abangu ngokuqinile echaziwe. Abesilisa - amaqhawe, abazingeli, zivikeli, abavukuzi. Abesifazane - endlini, ekhishini, izingane. ukunakekela ikhaya Ikusasa kusuka ebuntwaneni ephefumulelwe, wachaza indlela futhi yini amadoda uthanda. It kufanele kube nesizotha, enhle, kanzima-working, lutho kungqubuzana "umondli". Phela, owesifazane ongashadile ngalezo zinsuku, lokho ngobuqili - ngezinye izikhathi ezweni lanamuhla kubhekwa cishe esekhishwa inyumbazane. Ngenxa yokuntula amandla ezifana indoda, owesifazane akakwazi bagawula indlu ngokwayo noma Zilwa nezitha eziningi, izicupho ukubamba usuku lonke nge umkhonto esandleni sakhe, noma zungeza ihhashi restive.

Kodwa izikhathi sezishintshile. Indlu kungenzeka ukuthenga kule game esitolo ngeke abaleke, futhi imoto esikhundleni ihhashi. Nokho ngaphandle amadoda esakwenza. Phela, kukhona kumele umuntu ukuhlola entsha isiketi esifushane noma amabhuzu nge izithende. Noma kunjalo, njengoba ingane, egqoke ubuhlalu manje siqu, eqiniseka kakhudlwana sivinini ku pyatnadtsatisantimetrovyh "izithende" ukuze nomhlobiso ngokwabo rainbow imibala, ufaka ehlukile emzimbeni amasayithi abicah, thina abesifazane bengayeki ukuba aqhubeke umdlalo eside ngokuthi "Catch indoda. " I ntuthuko, umdlalo ngaphansi fair kuvela, lapho sifunda okwengeziwe ukuze akhohlise abantu bobulili kunamandla. Izimo zethu zihluke kakhulu ngendlela enganakekile, ngosizo izimonyo, eyelashes futhi hairpieces, nokuhlinzwa kwesinye isikhathi ngisho plastic. Futhi ngubani phakathi kwethu manje hunter?

Ukuze ingqondo yami, ngizibuza wacabanga ukuthi njengabantu, kuzomele uqale ucabange mayelana nendlela yokujabulisa ngokwakho. Futhi akusiyo ezibalulekile zikhona, ziyini imilenze yakho futhi yini usayizi amabele, uma ukuzijabulisa wena, umfana nakanjani ukuwuzwa. Kusukela amehlo akho njengoba amafasitela amakhaya esinesithunzi sezulu ezimanzi, polyhnet ukufudumala bangempela kuzosithinta umphefumulo wakho futhi bathinteka. Futhi kanjalo uyokuqonda - nguwe owaziyo, futhi ungumuntu wangempela.

amantombazane Cute, abesifazane, ake nje sizithanda njengathi. Ekuphileni nobunzima eziningi kangaka. Futhi uma umbuzo uwukuthi kufanele kwenziwe kanjani njengabantu, ayibalulekile kuphela kuwe, obhekwe khona okunye esikuthandayo ekuphileni uba nesikhathi esikhululekile esengeziwe ukuze nje wena nabanye, ukuze nje ajabulele futhi okumelwe athandwe. Sicela wena, uzithande - futhi sijabulise ngokushesha kwabanye, futhi uzongithanda abanye.