Abantu abangenalutho ezimweni eziningi bafaka ngamabomu "imaski" yokunganaki

Umuntu ongenandaba noma "u-nihilist" ungumlingisi ogcwalisa ngokuphelele isithombe sezwe lanamuhla futhi ngisho nokuzenza sengathi "ulungile". Njengoba uzibeke umgomo othile, uyakwazi ukugxila kulokhu kangangokuthi konke ukuphila kwakhe (kufaka phakathi ukukhathazeka ngenhlalakahle yabathandekayo bakhe) kuzokwenza ngemuva.

Lekhono emphakathini wanamuhla ubizwa ngokuthi inhloso (ezinye izazi zengqondo ziyibiza ngokuthi i-pofigism ehlobene) futhi ithathwa njengekhwalithi enhle. I-Absolute "nihilist" evela esihlotsheni ihluke ngokuthi ayikhathaleli nje kuphela izidingo zabanye abantu, kodwa nakwabo.

Ifomu elihle lokunganaki libhekwa ngokuthi "pofigizm" elizwakalayo. Ukukhangiswa kwaleli fomu lokungabambi iqhaza ukuthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lo muntu uzizwa kanjani, uzohlala engenandaba nanoma yisiphi isimo, "engaqapheli" izenzakalo ezimbi. Kodwa uma ebona okuthile okungalungile, angeke anikeze incazelo.

Kuyini ukunganakwa?

Izazi zezenhlalakahle zibiza ukunganaki ukulahla komuntu ukuthi ahlanganyele ezingeni ezithinta impilo yakhe kuphela, kodwa futhi impilo yomphakathi. Abangenandaba nabo abakhathazeki ngabanye, bathambekele ekusebenziseni futhi bahlale bengenandaba.

Ukunganaki kuyinto ekhethekile kubantu abaningi futhi akuveli ngaphandle kwezizathu. Omunye umuntu ongenandaba naye kusukela ebuntwaneni wathola konke ayekufunayo, wakhulisa ubugovu, wayejwayele ukuzicabangela yena kuphela futhi akanandaba nabanye. Omunye, wakhulela esimweni sokuhloniphana, kodwa wazithola esesimweni lapho okuhle kwakhe kwaphendulwa ngokubi, ukholo olulahlekile enobulungiswa futhi ngokungazelelwe lugxila ebubini bomunye umuntu.

Abantu bahlobene nohlobo lwesibili, abangafuni ukuthi leso simo esingathandeki siphindaphindiwe futhi, sisuswe kulokho okwenzekayo futhi ngokuvamile sidlule ngesihluku. Kodwa kukhona futhi uhlobo lwesithathu lwabantu. "Wonke umuntu uthola lokho akufanelekelayo. Ukungenelela, ngibavimbela ukuba bangalungise lokho okhokho babo noma abakwenzile empilweni yabo yangaphambili, "lokhu kuyinkambo yemicabango yabo.

Ezimbangela zokunganaki

Esinye sezizathu zokunganakwa kungaba yinkinga yengqondo - isimo lapho umuntu engazi khona ukuveza imizwelo. Uzwela ngumzwelo ongaphezu kokuqonda kwakhe. Abantu abanjalo bavame ukubizwa ngokuthi ama-pragmatics, ama-phlegmatic, ama-biscuits, kodwa amagama amangazayo angeke ashintshe isimo, ikakhulukazi uma imbangela yesifo sengqondo kuyingozi kakhulu engokomzimba.

Akuyona engozini kakhulu ukulimala kwengqondo nokulimala kwentsha, eyatholwa ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho kothando. Umuntu osemncane, kodwa ongenandaba naye, ngisho noma abe nesifo esiqinile sengqondo (noma somzimba), angahlala elahlekelwa ukholo kubantu.

Ukuntuleka kothando nokufudumala, okuhlangenwe nakho ebuntwaneni, kuyisakhiwo esihle "sokwakha". Ngokusho kwezibalo, iningi labantu abangenandaba nabo "babengekho othandweni" ebuntwaneni.

"Bantu, hlala ningenandaba!" (Isiqubulo se-psychopath)

Ochwepheshe emkhakheni wezokwelapha, igama elithi "ukunganaki" kuvame ukuthatha indawo yemibandela yezokwelapha "ukunganakwa" nethi "inqola." Ukuzola okwesibindi, isici somuntu ongenandaba, imithi esemthethweni ibheka ukuphambuka kwengqondo okukhulu.

Ukunganakwa kuyinto yinkinga yengqondo elele ukulinda wonke umuntu, kokubili enenhlanhla futhi engaphumelelanga. Kungase kuvele kunoma yimuphi umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isisombululo sakhe sengqondo nesokwenyama. Isizathu esiyinhloko sokunganakwa, futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ukunganaki, odokotela abathile babiza intukuthelo. Kungenxa yokwehliswa ngokweqile, ngokusho kweqembu lezazi, ukuthi ngisho nemindeni ejabule kakhulu enomsebenzi wamaphupho abo nokufundisa izingane ezinamakhono nezithobelayo aziqinisekisiwe.

Ukukhathala kungabangela ukukhathala, kokubili ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba. Umuntu ongenandaba naye uvame ukubhekana nokuhlaselwa (ukunganakwa), ucindezelekile, akenzi abangane futhi angenzi izinhlelo. Ukuphila kwakhe kubonakala sengathi kuyinto engcolile futhi engenamsebenzi.

Umuntu othakazelisayo futhi othakazelisayo ongenandaba nokungazwakali angenza isimo:

• Uma ephikisana isikhathi eside;

• Ayikwazi ukuphumula;

• Kusinda ukufa kwabathandekayo noma ukuxoshwa emsebenzini;

• Uma umuntu ongenandaba, obi kakhulu kunabanye abashintsha emphakathini, unamahloni ngezidingo zakhe zemvelo;

• Ukuhlupheka ngenxa yokuntula ukuqonda kwabanye;

• Ingabe ingaphansi kwengcindezi yomuntu oncike kuye;

• Uma ethatha izidakamizwa ze-hormonal.

Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukuba zifune izizathu zokungakhathaleli ezweni langaphakathi lesiguli - lapho zonke izikhalazo nezifiso zakhe zihlala khona. Ochwepheshe abavela emkhakheni wezokwelapha bebheka ukunganakwa njengendlela yokuzivikela ekucindezelekeni nasekungabi nandaba.

Abantu abaningi abanezinkinga zengqondo bagqoka ngamabomu "imaski" yokunganaki nethemba lokuzivala ezweni elibi eliye lalahla isikhathi eside.

Ukunganaki ngamehlo wefilosofi

Abafilosofi babheka ukunganaki njengenkinga yokuziphatha, ngokusekelwe ekuqaphelweni okulahlekile kokubaluleka komuntu ngamunye njengomuntu oyingqayizivele. Kancane kancane ziphenduka ithuluzi lokufeza imigomo yazo, zicabangela njengento, abantu ngokwabo baba izinto.