Ukuziphelela, I-Psychology
Ungakwazi yini ukucacisa uhlobo lomuntu ngokudweba? Lokho abantu abakushoyo mayelana nama-murals abantu
Esimweni sethu, sivame ukuhlangana nabantu abathintekayo. Okungenalutho nokungenandaba, okuhle nokuhle ... Ukudweba kwabantu kuhlukile. Futhi ngani? Bangasitshela ngani ngomlingiswa womuntu?
Ukudweba nokubukwa kwengqondo
Umuntu ngamunye uhlalela eyedwa, ozalwa kuphela ezincwadini zakhe zokubhala ngesandla. Ngesikhathi lapho izincwadi ziwela ephepheni, iningi lethu sicabanga kabanzi ngokungafani kwemigqa kanye nesipelingi samazwi. Yingakho kunzima ukwazi ngokunembile nangokwethembeka ngomlingiswa womuntu. Enye into - izibuko zabantu. Abazibambeli izinkolelo zabalobi futhi azikhawulelwanga yimithetho nanoma yimiphi imithetho.
Kodwa-ke, emifanekisweni yakhe eqondile, noma yimuphi umuntu usemusa wesikhathi esithile. Zibonisa ukuthi isimo sakhe siyini, esisivumela ukuba sinqume ukubonakala kwengqondo.
Isiqondiso
Uma udweba isithombe sengqondo somlobi, kufanele uqaphele lapho athumela ukuphela kwesignesha. Uma isiphezulu, singasho ukuthi umuntu ugcwele amandla namandla. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, unethemba kakhulu futhi uhlangabezana nokudumazeka nezinkinga.
Ngezimfuno ezibuthakathaka ezibhekene nezifo ezinamaphilisi nesifo senhliziyo, kanye ne-pathologies yezinzwa, ukuphela kwesignesha kuqondiswa phansi. Abalobi abanjalo bavame ukubhekana nokucindezeleka kanye nesimo esibucayi.
Ubude
Uma ubona isignesha esifushane, khona-ke yazi ukuthi yabekwe ngumuntu onokuphendula okusheshayo, ovame ukungabi nesineke ukuhlaziya izenzo ngokujulile nokuningiliziwe. Abalobi abanjalo abathandi abantu abanobucayi futhi abakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi onesizotha futhi onesizotha, odinga ukunakekelwa njalo. Lapho kuhlaziywa umlingisi womlobi, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ukuguqulwa kwabantu ababenomsebenzi wabo osebenzayo okudingeka ukuthi ukukhiqizwa kwabo kube ngokomthetho, njalo njalo. Izigaba ezinjalo zihlanganisa odokotela, abashicileli, njll. Abantu balezi zici ezikhethekile bayisindisa isikhathi nendawo yabo kudokhumenti nge-autograph yabo emfushane. Yingakho uma uhlaziya umlingisi okudingayo ukucabangela umdwebo wabo weqiniso. Khona-ke kuyobe sekusemandleni ukudweba iziphetho ezithembekile.
Usayizi wamagama
Kunemibukiso, abalobi abangasho ukuthi bangenasisekelo futhi bakhethekile kwabanye. Isiphetho esinjalo sisivumela ukuba senze umehluko oqinile ngobukhulu bezinhlamvu ezinkulu kanye nazo zonke ezinye izincwadi.
Umlingiswa womuntu esithombeni esenziwe ngezinhlamvu ezincane uchazwa ngokuthi ukhonkolo futhi unengqondo. Abantu abanjalo bayakwazi ukugxila emsebenzini wabo. Kodwa-ke, uma izinhlamvu eziluhlu zingaphansi kakhulu, kunesidakamizwa esincane, esincane futhi esibugovu phambi kwakho.
Ukuqina nokujikeleza kwezinhlamvu
Lezi zimingcele nazo zibonisa umbhali. Ukudweba kwabantu abazolile, abathobekile nabomusa bavame ukudwetshwa ezincwadini ezizungezile. Uhlamvu olunezinkani nokuzimela, olujwayele ubuholi kanye nokufisa, ukunikeza ama-autographe angular.
Kukhona abantu abaqala ukukhulumisana ukukhombisa ukuthobeka kwabo, bese bebonisa izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa. Kubalobi abanjalo isignesha iqala ngezinhlamvu eziyindilinga, futhi iphetha ngezingoma.
Ukungabambisani nokuhlangana
Imidwebo yabantu abangaguquguquki, okwenza izenzo zabo zibe ngaphansi kwelogi, babe nezici zabo siqu. Zonke izinhlamvu ezikuzo zihlobene. Abalobi abanjalo emibono yabo baqaphele futhi kunzima ukubona noma iyiphi into enhle.
Kumuntu ongenakulinganiswa lolu hlu lunokuphuka okuqhubekayo phakathi kwezinhlamvu. Abalobi abanjalo bafuna ukuheha abanye futhi benze umqondo.
Ngenani elilinganiselwe lezithuba, kungaphetha ngokuthi umbhali unamandla okuhlanganisa okuyiwona nalowo oyifunayo. Umlingiswa uchazwe ngokucacile nokuqiniseka noma ukungaqiniseki ezincwadini zokubhala.
Umhlobiso
Umdwebo womuntu ungakhuluma ngobuqotho bakhe. Lesi siphetho senziwa nenani elikhulu lemihlobiso ehlukene. Kungaba yi-curls, i-ribhoni, njll. Noma kunjalo, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi imihlobiso yesignesha ingabonisa ukuthi uyindoda yomsebenzi wokudala. Abantu abanjalo banombono ocebile nomcabango.
Ukuthobeka kombhali kubonakala ngesignesha esilula. Ukucacile kokucabanga kuboniswa "ukunyamalala" kwezinye izingxenye zencwadi. Ama-signatures anjalo avame ukuvela kubabalo bezazi nezibalo, okungukuthi, abantu abanengqondo enengqondo . Noma kunjalo, ukuqina kwezinhlamvu ezibhalwe phansi ngaleyo ndlela kuyisibonakaliso esicacile sokungaboni kahle kokucabanga nokukhwabanisa.
Ukudweba ukudweba
I-autograph enjalo ifakwa, njengombuso, ngumqondisi. Ngokuvamile, umdwebo onjalo ungabonakala enhloko yenkampani enkulu esetshenziselwa ukucabanga emhlabeni wonke. Uma i-autograph ingakahlelwa, ibonisa umlobi njengombhali owenza uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi.
Ubuningi bezinhlamvu
Isiginesha se-fat sibonisa ukuthi umnikazi wayo unamandla, unenhlalo futhi unamandla omzimba. Izincwadi ezinobuningi zibonisa ukuthambekela kohlobo lwenkosi yalo. Ukungafani okungalingani kwesignesha kubonisa umlingisi wokungabaza. Abalobi abanjalo bahlale beguqukayo lapho benza izinqumo futhi abaziqiniseki ngokwabo.
Gweba phansi
Ngokuqinisekile uhlangane namasignesha, ngaphansi kwalo mbhali owabeka umugqa. Yazi ukuthi abantu abanjalo baziqhenyayo futhi bacasukile. Basuke bencike njalo emibonweni yabanye.
Uma umuntu ewela isignesha yakhe, kungenzeka ukuthi, ukwesaba nokuzigxeka. Uvame ukungabaza futhi ahlupha lapho ekhetha izixazululo.
Izithombe ezizenzekelayo
Ukudweba kwabantu abadumile kungatshela okuningi mayelana nabalandeli ngezinkanyezi. Ngakho, ezincwadini ezizungezile ze-Meryl Streep zihlanganiswe nge-angular. Lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi inkosikazi yabo inengqondo ebalulekile futhi ingaba mnandi wonke umuntu. Izinhlamvu ezisayinwe nguNicole Kidman zinyuka phezulu futhi zincane kancane. Lokhu kufakazela ubunzima bokuphikelela nokuphikelela kwenkanyezi. Kodwa kuCameron Diaz, izinhlamvu ezisemdwebo zizungezile futhi zibushelelezi. Lokhu kukhuluma ngesineke sakhe namandla akhe okuvumelanisa nezimo ezintsha.
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