Yiziphi, lomshado lwamaGypsy?

Kuze kube manje, phakathi Roma indlela ezivame kakhulu ukuqala ukufanisa umshado. Izingane zingayithola i-zasvatat ziningi izingane. Lapho efinyelela eminyakeni yobudala engu somshado ozoba lwamaGypsy amasiko lomshado zizohlonishwa - yilokho okushiwo yile ukufanisa.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye kwamaqembu ezinhlanga ongumRom sebanemkhuba wekungahlangani ka ukushintshisana namadodakazi-omakoti. Okungukuthi, ngokunika indodakazi yakhe abe ngumkakhe, umakoti wakhetha udadewabo ukuba umakoti indodana yakhe. Lokhu kwakubangelwa ukuhlengwa, okuyinto kwakudingeka akhokhe umndeni yomkhwenyana. lomshado Gypsy - kungcono ezibizayo. Imali lesi senzakalo esibaluleke kunazo zonke ekuphileni komuntu onga yamukelwe.

AmaGypsy isakazeke ngokwanele futhi kwebiwa likamakoti, njengoba ifomu womshado, kodwa awalona wamukelekile. ngokuvamile Lokhu kwenzeka uma abazali akazange avumele ukungasabeli kahle intombazane ukushada insizwa ethile noma uma umndeni wakhe akanayo imali umshado lwamaGypsy nokuhlengwa. Escape kungaba yimpumelelo. Wayephila endaweni ethile ohlangothini umbhangqwana emva kwesikhashana babuyela ekamu futhi wathatha njengendoda nomfazi kubo. Uma babekwazi ukubamba futhi ukubuyela ngaphandle kokulibala - umphumela kungaba ebanga usizi kunazo zonke.

Futhi namhlanje, engu-ngomshado Roma namanje ekuseni kakhulu. Yiqiniso, umbhangqwana oneminyaka engu-15 ubudala manje rarity, kodwa esejwayelekile kakhulu umshado kusukela engu-16 kuya ku-20. imishado Early e amaRom imvelo wayekwenza ukugcina intsha ezinqoleni. Uma abantu abasha baba nethuba ukufuna ingcebo yakhe ohlangothini - Roma cishe ezisekhona njengesizwe. Ngakho intombazane Gypsy yajabha uzobonisa uzwela Izinsizwa, ngisho emihlanganweni ezimele ukulahlwa okukhulu. Kuze kube yimanje, kwakukhona izizathu sina exhunywe ne imicikilisho at Roma imishado.

Namuhla uthando indawo abantu abasha - lomshado Gypsy lezihlobo. Futhi abazali, ikakhulukazi nga the sedentary Roma, manje cabanga, musa elawula. Kodwa bafuna, futhi akubhekwa eyihlazo umndeni, okuyinto abe lozalo ithemba, kwaba abahlonishwa nezicebi.

Matchmaking - umkhuba efanayo. Etendeni, lapho isela lihlala khona umakoti, nomkhwenyana izihlobo ezingaba woza ukuxoxisana nabazali bakhe ngaphandle umakoti. Ubaba wentombazane uneminyaka unesibopho - indodakazi usemncane, kubalulekile ukucabanga. Le mpendulo kusho imvume. Khona-ke kukhona bargaining ngendlela encokola. Uma umndeni bakamakoti like umkhwenyana, uyise wale ntombazane anganika ngisho ngukuhlengwa kokungokwakhe wabantu. Thatha indodakazi yakhe ube yisihlengo esikhulu - ndaba udumo. Lapho isivumelwano kufinyelelwe - biza umakoti ukucela imvume yakhe. Nentando abazali babo iningi lamantombazane ungahambi. Ukuphetha, ukudla isiko ndawonye ikhekhe lomshado, ucezu ukuthi wonke umuntu kufanele athole izilaleli zabo.

lomshado play Gypsy ngokushesha ngemva isihlengo sakhokhwa. Fun iqala ekuseni ngesikhathi esifanayo futhi etendeni umyeni, eyathengwa ubuthaphuthaphu zisuka nje etendeni. Ikhaya ehlotshisiwe nge amafulegi red, futhi izivakashi imbali pin noma iribhoni elibomvu. Esikhathini endlini umakoti egqoke ingubo emhlophe celebration ibangelwa nangemidanso nazo zonke izivakashi, bese othile evela emndenini yomkhwenyana esihambisana kuye etendeni umyeni esizayo. Kuleli qophelo, iskripthi wahlela mncintiswano engavamile for the wedding - izihlobo bakamakoti sivale umgwaqo, futhi "ukuhlenga" izihlobo umakoti nomkhwenyana. Etendeni umbhangqwana osemusha sakwazi ukuhlala ndawonye etafuleni, nakuba Roma imikhosi abesifazane futhi amadoda zihlale ngokuhlukana.

Emva kwesikhathi uyiswa lokulala. I Apotheosis lomkhosi - ethengiwe lomshado nemigubuzelo noma amahembe umakoti, okubonisa ukuthi wayesanda kushonelwa ukuphela omsulwa, ukuze wonke umuntu akwazi ukubona. Futhi uma kukhona lutho ukukhombisa - imishado Gypsy kukhona uyize. Redemption ebuya, bonke izindleko ize ikhokhe abazali bakamakoti. Futhi namanje umndeni wentombazane isikhathi eside sisitshekelwe ngamahloni, amanye amantombazane kuyo, futhi, ngeke ashade. Ngakho abazali kufanele kakhulu ngokhahlo ngoba esakhula namadodakazi.