Yini uphumule, indlela yokwahlukanisa kusukela ukuphumula?

Zonke uyakwazi ukubeka umoya phansi, futhi abaningi bacabanga ukuthi bayasazi indlela yokukwenza kahle - eyodwa nge ingilazi "itiye", umuntu "TV", kuyilapho abanye, kwenzekani imvelo. Yilokho nje kungani ngemva enjalo ukuphumula othile ngobuhlungu bekhanda futhi umuntu elomela ukuya emsebenzini, ngisho emsebenzini wakhe futhi ningagcini? Futhi emakhulwini amaningi "Bani ezibulala ngomsebenzi" isikhathi ngasinye waqinisekisa ethi ngoMsombuluko - usuku ezisindayo, futhi ngemva elikhiqizayo ngempelasonto yokubaleka. Konke lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ngamunye wethu kufanele ukuqondwa ezahlukene yini ukuphumula, ngokuvamile nokuliphatha njengelibalulekile nje amanga embhedeni ngaphansi umculo opholile.

Abaningi abazi bebona kudingekile uphumule ngenye indlela kuka Ushintsha uhlobo womsebenzi. Imicabango uhlobo: "Woza eholidini ke lonke" - nayo akuyona ungcono lenemibono lelula "ku" omunye emhlabeni 'Ukuphumula' kwabo! Yebo, "ezinye emhlabeni" sonke ngolunye usuku 'athatha ngayo abanye ukuphumula'! Futhi ngingathanda nokuphumula ukusebenza ngenjabulo, futhi ubelethe-ukufundisa "kweqembu" izingane nezizukulwane, "ukubeka indlu", "ukwakha isihlahla ..."

Impela ukuze isikhathi ukuze wenze izinto zenzeke, ukugcina kwakhe ukuzibamba, kanye nezidingo aziphumulele. Meaning of izwi - ukuphumula, kuba ikhombisa engcono yini asikwazi bawukhohlwa hhayi kuphela ngokomzimba kodwa futhi lonke ngokwengqondo. Nokho, ngingazi ukuthi kungani abantu bachithe isikhathi sabo esiyigugu, ezempilo eziyigugu kanye eziningi umzamo unqobe ukuzihlupha, ulwa okuthize, omunye nento. Bese kuthi-ke kuphakama umbuzo: "Futhi-ke kwakufanele kube?" Futhi lapho enza ukuphumula? Kuyini ukuphumula, futhi yini kumayelana?

Ukwenza ukuhlolwa: uvalwe ngezibhakela futhi sifune imizuzu 2-3. Zithanda? Futhi uma uthanda ngakho usuku olulodwa noma ezimbili? Jabulela kancane! A emzimbeni nasengqondweni lapha njengoba esishubile njalo, okuholela ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile (elilodwa ngaphambi, omunye kamuva) kukhona okungamahlalakhona (futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ziyasibona) ukucindezeleka futhi imisipha, futhi ... konke okunye.

Abaningi ekuphenduleni umbuzo kuyini ukuphumula, ngephutha sikholelwe ukuthi lokhu kumane nje iholidi elula. Iphumule - ukuphumula esiphezulu Imininingwane ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ekuqaleni ukumfundisa inqubo efanele edingekayo ukusebenza 1-2 izinyanga, 3-4 izikhathi ngesonto! Kodwa ke, njengoba ithole amakhono adingekayo, uzokwazi ukuba uphumule ngokushesha lapho isimo akudingi ukucindezeleka kanye uhlobo ngempumelelo lapho kudingeka!

Ngicabanga abantu abaningi intuitively baqonde ukuthi ukuphumula - kuyasiza. Futhi hhayi kuphela ubufakazi yokulinga leli qiniso (phakathi ukuphumula deep senzeka ukuzinza wegazi, okuholela ukuphumula kwemisipha isuswe nokucindezeleka okungapheli, kuthuthukisa ubuchopho izimonyo futhi izibilini, ukukhathazeka encishisiwe, ngcono ukuzethemba). Futhi iqiniso lokuthi kungcono nje nice!

Empeleni zethu zanamuhla is a kumele uphumule. Inani zokuphila kwakhe kwansuku zonke nawo njengomnyango mkhulu kakhulu. Kukhona amasu amaningi uphumule kahle. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuqeqeshwa autogenous nokuzindla, okwathi nakuba-semi ezingaqondakali, buka imfihlo kwabaningi, efihla inzuzo enkulu wonke umzimba. Ukuzindla ingenye amasu ukuphumula kusiza ukubheka "owangaphakathi", sithuthukisa ukuzithiba, esusa kwengqondo ukuqeqeshwa sokuzwa ulungisa kuya omuhle. Ngemva kokwazi kahle kulezi zindlela, impendulo yombuzo othi kuyini ukuphumula, ngeke isavela esobala lopsided, kodwa wonke umzimba futhi isimo kuyothuthuka kakhulu.