Imithetho eyisisekelo ngezilokotho nenhlonipho

Ukuziphatha - igama Lokudabuka isiFulentshi, okusho obaphatha ngayo abanye, ngezilokotho, imikhuba emihle, ngezilokotho, ukuba ahlonishwayo emphakathini, emsebenzini, esikoleni, eyunivesithi, etafuleni noma ngisho emgwaqweni.

imithetho Ukuziphatha kukhona engabhaliwe, kuphoqelekile kokubulawa, okungukuthi, iyona ndlela yokuziphatha eyamukelwa "okuzenzakalelayo" bese bagcine abantu njengezinga elifanayo, Akufanele kukhulunywe. Abantu abafundile akufanele kuphela ukuqaphela nokubambelela nemithetho yokuziphatha, kodwa kwakufanele baqonde ukubaluleka kwabo ngenxa yokuphila futhi umphakathi. Phela, imikhuba emihle ibonisa emhlabeni umuntu angikho ngaphakathi, inkomba ezingeni kangako ngokuhlakanipha kwakhe nezindinganiso zokuziphatha ezinhle. Ngo ophucukile indoda amathuba amaningi ekuthuthukiseni, ukusungula oxhumana nabo, ukwakha ubuhlobo obuhle nabanye, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukuze bafinyelele imigomo yabo.

Ukuphathana kahle e sombuso

Ukuphathana kahle njalo futhi yonke indawo kakhulu. Ezindaweni zasemadolobheni ezingu esikhulu emadolobheni amakhulu, ngezilokotho kuphenduke isipho eyivelakancane neyigugu, ayitholakali kuwo wonke umuntu. Ukudelela futhi ukuziphatha okubi kuyinsakavukela khona, futhi akumangalisi. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuba bazakhele imbewu yokuziphatha enhliziyweni ingane zisencane, ekuqaleni le nkulumo nangezenzo. Kakhulu ngokuvamile, abazali angazanga kanjani kuphakamisa ingane, zamukele isipiliyoni sabo abangane noma amadala isizukulwane. Lokhu akunembile.

Umuntu ngamunye singumuntu, kuhlanganise ingane yakho. Akaqondi isimo sengqondo kobushiqela ngenkani. Abadala kudingeka isineke futhi ukuzibamba ukuze bazifundise ingane yabo nangokuziphatha ngezilokotho. Akunakusetshenziswa musa ukuphoqelela noma baphoqelele ingane. Cela, inhlonipho, futhi ingane ojabulela angazigcwalisa zonke izicelo zakho. Phinda uma ukhuluma naye kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze amagama magic - "ngiyabonga" futhi 'ngiyacela'. Kodwa imithetho ngezilokotho izingane akugcini la mazwi. Kancane kancane accustom kuye ukubingelela, ngithi goodbye, nokuxolisa. Push ke lapho kufundwa, kulandele ingxoxo yezenzo amaqhawe incwadi. Uchaza indlela ukubhekana nabantu, futhi kahle ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi okubaluleke - njalo futhi yonke indawo inhlonipho ngokwabo. Amakhophi ingane ukuziphatha abazali babo, nokubona phambi kwamehlo akhe isibonelo etiquette, uyozama ukusilandela.

Ukuziphatha esikoleni

Emva kokuthola nemiqondo eyisisekelo okuhle nokubi, ingane ihamba ezingeni elilandelayo - esikoleni, lapho lonke inqubo yakhe ukuqeqeshwa wafundisa imithetho eyisisekelo nenhlonipho.

Njengoba ikhaya lesibili, lesi sikole siye izisethile izinhloso ezinhle ezifanayo njengoba abazali. Nokho, imithetho imikhuba emihle esikoleni akufanele kuphela akhathazeke izinkulumo didactic futhi izingxoxo ezakhayo.
Sokuthandaza ngokujulile nokuthuthukiswa eningilizayo yazo zonke lezi izimiso uthisha nenhlonipho kufanele bayoqhuba amakilasi phezu eemfundweni isiko lokuziphatha kanye ngezilokotho, ngesimo:

• izinkulumo kanye nemihlangano yokufundisa, aphethwe izinkulumo kwi "umbuzo-impendulo", sidingida ukuthi bangobani labo izimo ezihlukahlukene kudlalwa umugqa zokuziphatha, izimo eyenziwe;
• umdlalo, lapho abadlali zihlukaniswe amaqembu amaningana, futhi bashaya izimo imithetho nenhlonipho ngokuphila.

Lezi izindlela zokuqala ngokuvamile ngempumelelo nakahle, zisiza kutholakale izinga Inhlonipho umfundi ngamunye, ukufundisa izingane ekuqondisisaneni nezindinganiso zokuziphatha esimweni esithile. Abafundi kalula futhi komthungo sokwetshisa imithetho ngezilokotho, esibonelweni abeluleki abaphezulu, ngaphandle beba more evulekile futhi nobudlelwano.

Sawubona kumele kube kahle

Lungile afundiswe ukubingelela - omunye wemithetho engaguquki nenhlonipho. Khonzani abantu kumele kube yokwamukela, friendly, ukumamatheka evulekile. ngezilokotho uma behlangana nabantu zimi kanje: Zama ukubheka uziqondise emehlweni amazwi okwamukela ukusho bha, ithoni ukwelashwa kuleli cala kumele ibe mnene futhi sibe nomusa. Ukubingelela ngokuvamile uhambisana namazwi athi, "Sawubona" (yezikhalazo abangani umngane omkhulu), "Siyakwamukela" (isikhalazo jikelele), "Sawubona (ntambama, kusihlwa)" (kuye ngokuthi isikhathi sosuku).

Okungamelwe ukwenze

Imithetho yokuziphatha has "ilungelo likasihlalo lokunqabela" yayo, okungukuthi, akuvumelekile izenzo ezingaholela sikubeke umuntu eyihlongandlebe.

• Akufanele zisebenze umuntu ngokumemeza "Sawubona!", "Sawubona, wena!"
• Ukubona ajwayelekile, ungalilahli amashushu kumdikibalise phesheya ikamelo, ngokuletha isiphazamiso nezilaleli.
• Lapho behlangana abangane yaseshashalazini, yokudlela kufanele kube ikhanda kancane kuwo ukubingelela, hhayi khuza sonke isiFunda.
• Met omjwayele emgwaqeni, musa uyibambe isikhathi eside, kungcono ukuhlela umhlangano olandelayo noma ngokushaya ucingo.
• Akunconyelwe ta umuntu ezingajwayelekile ehlombe, kunyakaze kuye.

Ubani Ubani iyakwamukela

Ubani ekubingelela kuqala? Imithetho eyisisekelo ngezilokotho kulokhu zimi kanje. Ukubingelela lokuqala:

• indoda nowesifazane;
• abangaphansi boss:
• kodwa omncane kunathi sonke (ngobudala, isikhundla, isikhundla) nge abaphezulu;
• Kwangena;
• ivela nokuma.

Kunoma ikuphi, owokuqala ukubingelela abantu nenhlonipho kahle ezifuywa.

Izikhombo njengokubonisa inhlonipho ifomula

ngezilokotho wathinta futhi izindlela zokwelashwa zabantu nomunye. Kukhona izinhlobo ezintathu ukwelashwa:

1. Esemthethweni - esetshenziswa esimweni ibhizinisi, phakathi nezingxoxo, kuba ikhodi ebhekisela abangabazi. Lapha it is ikakhulukazi elisetshenziswa "wena" ne ukwengeza igama patronymic, noma isimo.
2. Lokungakahleleki - isikhalo izihlobo, nabangane nabantu obajwayele. Kamnandi futhi enobungane "wena" lubonisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwabantu.
3. Ungamandla - esetshenziswa ezokuthutha, lapho efakaza emgwaqweni wabe kuhambisana nkulumo kanje: "Ungangitsheli ukuthi ungafika kanjani ...", "Yekani lapho, khona-ke ...".

Sula imithetho sendlela yokuqhubeka ne "wena" ukuze "wena" alikho nhlobo, it is esabekwa interlocutors, noma ekhona ndlela yokwelapha eyihlongandlebe zabantu are jwayele ukukhuluma ngokungakhethi "wena."

Izinkambiso yasetafuleni

Imithetho yokuziphatha ithebula bezilokhu zikhona iminyaka eminingi futhi eminyaka. Ziyakwazi wonke umuntu okufanayo, noma kungaba umakhi noma umongameli.

Umthetho wokuqala futhi ezingeguquleke - akunakwenzeka ukuba uhlele bese efakwa izindololwane yakhe phezu kwetafula. Akuvunyelwe slurp bese ukhuluma ngomlomo wakho egcwele, ikakhulukazi ngosuku lwezithandani. Kufanele ahlale uqotho, hhayi kokuncika etafuleni noma esihlalweni ehlezi isivakashi esilandelayo. Kubhekwa okuyihlazo nokushaya yakhe iminwe etafuleni, ngokuphuthumayo ezishukumayo, pop-up napkin, Cutlery, azithathe ukudla yomunye ipuleti, inkulumo kakhulu.

Imithetho zesizotha nenhlonipho ukuthi kufanele libukwe etafuleni, futhi iyakwenqabela ufutha ukudla okushisayo, goba phezu kwedeski, ukhuluma ocingweni, bacule, amakhwela, zaveza futhi oluyimpuphu. Le ndoda has ukunakwa owesifazane ehlezi ngakwesokunene sakhe: kuba izingxoxo bezijabulisa usibeka a Ungadla isitsha, ethulula iziphuzo.

Ubude ngezilokotho Regulation

Ngaphezu kwezinkambiso olwamukelwa yokuziphatha ngokuphathelene ukubingelela, ukwelashwa, imithetho yamasiko etafuleni, kukhona ovamile ngezilokotho iziqondiso, ukuhambisana okuyinto kuthiwa ngawe njengomuntu wakhulela, ukugcinwa iso zabo imikhuba kanye nokuziphatha.

• Musa ukuzigqaja, ukwenza konke ezolile futhi kukalwa.
• Zama ukukhuluma buthule, ngokucacile, ngokucacile, ngaphandle inhlamba mumbling nokuhlukumeza.
• Akunconyelwe esidlangalaleni ukuluma, thatha impumulo yakho, kanye lipstick.
• Lawula imizwelo yakho, ibe nongenanembeza, couching amagama amafomu ngomusa nezinkulumo.
• Musa ukuhleka inomsindo kakhulu, futhi ngemva bedlula abantu.
• Musa ukuzamula ngomlomo gengelezi.
• Khumbula izithembiso.
• Ngiyaxolisa, ukubingelela, ukudla "ngiyabonga" futhi 'ngiyacela'.
• Buka nokuhlanzeka kwangaphandle nokuziphatha kwabo.
• Ungakhulumi mayelana abantu, kubika iSowetan.
• Bheka abangabazi ngendlela nenhlonipho nomusa.

Smile - kokubusa eyinhloko yokuziphatha

Smile - esinamandla yimuphi umuntu ukuthi ungashintsha konke futhi wonke umuntu. It ufana ray ilanga nyisele esinamafu usuku, ngisho neconsi lamanzi ehlane, ucezu ukushisa abandayo sezulu. "Nobuntu" wakhe soMkhulu, imithetho yokuziphatha nenhlonipho - zonke lezi zilinganiso ziyancipha komunye, iseluleko kakhulu elula - ukumamatheka. Smile - akusiwona nje somusa, kuba injabulo isigwedlo, iresiphi impumelelo futhi ajabule.
Omunye ukumamatheka kungathambisa inhliziyo, ukuheha amehlo, ukudambisa isimo. Ngo izinkampani eziningi smile kuwumsebenzi hhayi ithuba: kunomthelela ukuhamba komsebenzi omuhle. Smile, futhi ngeke nedumela njengesisebenzi indoda ethile efundile futhi cultured!

imithetho ngezilokotho ingahluka nsuku kazwelonke, kodwa ubilise phansi komunye: Inhlonipho kakhulu, imfundo yekhethelo uyohlale "fashion", futhi akekho uzokwazi senqabe kubo noma ukukhansela.