Uyazi ukuthi kwenziwa ngubani kungaba ibhapathizwa yengane yakho?

Rite Ukubhapathizwa - isakramente, okuyinto yenziwa ngokuvumelana nemithetho ethile yemiBhalo YamaKristu iSonto Lobu-Orthodox. Kukholakala ukuthi kwaba kuphela ngemva kokubhapathizwa kwakhe umuntu eba lisondele kuNkulunkulu, kuba lokuzalwa kwawo okungokomoya.

Bazali, kokunikeza owabeletha umntwana, uzama ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuba ambhapathize. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi umbhapathizo izingane zivikelwe iNkosi, kuyilapho abanye (imikhaya engokwenkolo ikakhulukazi) ufuna bakhuphule umntwana kusukela ezalwa imithetho yobuKristu, ukutshala canons lakhe elingokomoya. Kukhona nalabo abantu abangekho nesithakazelo ngokukhethekile le mfihlakalo, ukuya esontweni, ngokulandela izimfashini imfashini. Yebo, namuhla kunoma iyiphi magazini ingafundwa njengendlela umama osemusha "ukhilimu ongcono" ugabise christening izingane zabo, nazo zonke watshela, abanye mkhosi kwahlelwa lesi senzakalo.

Uma ufunda iBhayibheli - the Scriptures, lapho lisho ngokucacile ukuthi umuntu kufanele abhapathizwe. Thatha ukholo kumelwe ibe eyakhayo lapho le nsizwa kakade ngokugcwele uyaqonda sina emcimbini kanye nencazelo yalo. Ingabe umntwana osanda kuzalwa kungathatha isinqumo esinjalo? Kodwa kusukela kudala abantu ababhapathiziwe izingane zabo osanda kuzalelwa.

Kukholakala ukuthi ukubamba lo mkhosi phezu ingane akudingeki ngaphambi kwezinsuku ezinga-40 ngemva kokuzalwa. Kodwa abefundisi needinodushny kule ukwahlulela. Izingane eziningi ziyathunjwa, wabhapathizwa ngisemncane kakhulu. Ngokwesibonelo, ingane izalwe ababuthakathaka nabagulayo. Ngokwemvelo, abazali bafuna ngokushesha ukukhomba indawo lapho umbhaphathizo ingane, futhi ngivumelana ne umpristi, ibingayikungizwa iNkosi ukusiza umntwana wabo.

Ngoba bonke abazali ngokucindezela mbuzo: ubani kungaba ibhapathizwa ukuba ingane yabo. Godparents ungathathi imigwaqo kanye counter kuqala. Kukholakala ukuthi isiphambano ngemva kokufunda umthandazo akhethekile othi amazwi angcwele baba abazali abangokomoya ukuba godson yakhe. Babophekile ukusiza imfundo ingane ikwazi ukuthuthukisa izwe lakhe elingokomoya, ukuhlakulela uthando ngoNkulunkulu futhi ukuhlonipha esontweni. Uma abazali nomndeni kwenzeka entabeni, kuba godparents kumelwe athathe umthwalo ukufundisa godson noma goddaughter.

Abantu abaningi (ikakhulukazi abadala) oyingqayizivele onqumayo ukuthi obani kungaba uphawu lwesiphambano. Ngokusho kubo: nje izihlobo - abafowethu nodadewethu (abazali), futhi kube kungekho yalo - abashana, omalume, obabekazi. Eqinisweni, godparents avunyelwe ukushayela izihlobo nabangane zabantu-non-igazi. Into esemqoka ukuthi laba bantu bayazi kahle umthwalo ukuthi uhlezi phezu kwabo, futhi akazange yini ukubuza ukuthi kungani ukuba ngibhapathize ingane jikelele.

Noko, libandla namanje abanye izidingo ukubeka phambili abantu abangabangcwele kungenzeka kube godparents. ukubhapathiza okunqatshelwe abagulayo (nge psyche engazinzile futhi isifo sengqondo), oweZizwe namaculo ongabhapathiziwe nabanye ilungelo elingokomthetho noma amakhosikazi ashadile. Ngokusho imithetho: indoda nomfazi akukwazi godparents lengane ngayinye. Futhi akuvumelekile ukuthi kudingekile ukubhapathiza izinsana abesifazane, ngubani banqatshelwe wenhlanganyelo. Futhi-ke, ngeke sivumele umpristi ukubhapathiza umntwana umuntu ukwelashwa izidakamizwa, utshwala. Kodwa kuyiqiniso futhi esobala. Akekho umzali evamile ongafuni ingane yabo yayiphethe wotshwala noma wezidakamizwa.

Kuzindla nalabo abangase babe abazali ibhapathizwa kufanele ucabangele ngamunye kulabo abazobhapathizwa ebucayi kakhulu, sengathi ngaphansi khulu. Phela, esiphambanweni - akusiwona abantu abeza kanye ngonyaka amaphasela namaswidi nezipho. Nakuba ngesikhathi samanje izindwendwe ezinjalo zivamile ngaphezulu.

Cabanga futhi ukunquma abangase ukuwela ingane yakho, ungakhohlwa azise umuntu akhethwe yesinqumo senu. Phela, esiphambanweni kudingeka alungiselele isakramente. Okokuqala, esiphambanweni kumelwe nakanjani babe ekhona imfihlakalo inkonzo ekuseni, ukuvuma nemihlatshelo. kufanele futhi ukuthenga kryzhmu - indwangu, okuyinto zihambisana ingane ngemuva kokugeza. Godfather kufanele futhi uvakashele esontweni, thatha wenhlanganyelo, bavumelane umpristi futhi wabeka nosuku ngenxa christening. Godfather Kufanele uthenge engu- pectoral ngokuba godson esizayo.