Okuphambene - isici bezibona noma zokugula: yini ubumbaxambili gama?

Njengoba incazelo jikelele, ukuhlanekezela - lokhu kubukeka ukuhlanekezela noma anomaly operation, okungukuthi ukuphambuka ezingezona ezemvelo noma ubuhlungu zokuziphatha, nocansi ka ezamukelwayo emphakathini nge yayo isiko, izimiso zokuziphatha, imithetho, iziqondiso. Inchazelo obuhlanekezelwe futhi uwela angisizwanga kahle isisebenzi amagama ajwayelekile nemithetho.

Ngu ukuhlanekezela isikhundla kuwukubonakaliswa psyche womuntu, lapho kukhona ukuntuleka kwezindawo ezifanelekayo noma ukuhlanekezela sinemizwa, eziyizici iphethini ethile yokuziphatha. Yokungazi ngaso okuhle nokubi uchazwa nangokuthi ukuhlanya okubi yomuntu.

yobuhlobo bobulili obuphendukezelwe: nobunzima ekutholeni

yobuhlobo bobulili obuphendukezelwe kusho ukuhlukumeza ngesifiso sobulili futhi indlela ekugcwalisekeni kwayo. Ukubonakaliswa obulili libhekene izici nokuziphatha kanye nombono ngokoqobo, ngesisekelo okungase nokuphazamiseka engqondweni, ubudlelwane obufanele, kanye izici ezingokomzimba - ukulimala, ukusetshenziswa yamaholo nezidakamizwa. Ngokuvamile yobuhlobo bobulili obuphendukezelwe ezenzeka ngezizathu lokugula ngengqondo, isibonelo, ngenxa sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo.

Igama elithi "yobuhlobo bobulili obuphendukezelwe" Kuvezwe ngokuhamba ososayensi ucwaningo kwezinso ezidinga ukwelashwa. Okubangela iziyaluyalu athiya ukuqaliswa umsebenzi, ukuxhumana nomphakathi, lokho kwabangela ukuhlupheka. Nayo ukuthi phendulela kufanele kuphawulwe ukuthi imithi akusiyo njalo kungenzeka kube nomehluko ocacile phakathi kwezinkambiso pathology engqondo. Uma ukuziphatha kwabantu alihambisani nenqubo yamasiko kanye kwesimilo somphakathi, kufanele ukhulume zokugula yezokwelapha futhi ubugebengu yezomthetho "ngokumelene amasosha omzimba."

Noma kunjalo, konke kunjalo elula cha. Ngokwesibonelo, engu-amacala ngabanye kubhekwe njengento ovuthiwe ngokocansi kanye dopubertatnogo. Ngakho-ke, uma ukunukubezwa ayikwazi ukucaciswa kuphela ubudala, ukuphambanisa noma cha, ngoba isifiso ngokwako akusona isifo ngokungabi bikho yokuhlushwa ngokwengqondo, noma ukuqaliswa isifiso ongazijwayele.

Izimbangela zesifo

Ngokusho abahlaziyi, izimpande ngeziphambeko ngokobulili zivela ebuntwaneni, ngaphansi ukuziphatha kobulili okuphindaphindiwe, hhayi ishintshe. Ngokusho kwenye inguqulo, ukufiphala okuqonda ngokocansi - umphumela ukuhlukumezeka olwehlela ebuntwaneni.

yobuhlobo bobulili obuphendukezelwe - kuwumphumela ezicini eziningana, ezihlanganisa lezi ezilandelayo:

• ukuhlazeka nesijeziso abazali;
• udlame locansi;
• Ukwesaba umsebenzi wocansi;
• iziyaluyalu psychosexual;
• umthelela social;
• basebenzisa kabi utshwala;
• izizathu bokuphila.

Namuhla, izazi benza uhlu ezinye nemikhuba esontekile yobulili engavamile:

• Narratofiliya kuhilela excitation ezizwa kokuzwa banalities noma izinkulumo ezinenhlamba.
• Piktofiliya - ukuphendukezela, owawuthi ngabanye uyawuthanda ukubukela izithombe, esikhundleni wobulili ayethanda.
• Mehanofiliya - ngokocansi kuya izindlela futhi azijabulise isivinini.
• Pyrophyllite - ukuthola injabulo yobulili lapho bebona umlilo.
• Podofiliya - ihlobene unyawo-kwesithixo, esibonakala by Luhambo kuya amathe ezinyawo.

Ingabe kungenzeka ukwelapha yobuhlobo bobulili obuphendukezelwe

Kufanele ukuthi inkinga awugcini ngaphansi kokuqondisa nokugula ngengqondo kuchwepheshe ukuze ukuhlukanisa ukufiphala kusukela evamile it is nzima yisiguli ukufihla ngokucophelela isifo kusuka izindawo zako ezizungezile. Wayenovalo ukudalulwa kanye nezinhlawulo obugebengu. Ngenxa yokuziphatha enjalo kwakungatholakala kuphela isimo sibe sibi isifo.

Uma imbangela ngokobulili ephambene nemvelo - noma ukuhlukumezeka noma zokugula, lokhu kubukeka amenable ukusolwa ngosizo owelapha, kwengqondo, sexologist, ukuhlinzwa kanye nezinye izinqubo zokwelapha.

Yodwa a ukulungiswa okunembile isiguli umuthi wokwelapha eside futhi ehlelekile kuhlanganise amasu psychotherapeutic ne gxila ukubonakaliswa i ukucindezelwa ezanele libido futhi okungenamsoco kungaba nemiphumela emihle. Ngeshwa, zinhlungu ukucindezela libido ngokwayo, kodwa musa ukususa orientation lesiguli. Ukwelashwa kuhilela ukuqashelwa ekuseni elokugula ngengqondo, zokuvimbela yokuxhumana neziyaluyalu, zokuvimbela zenkohlakalo.

Igama elithi "ukuphendukezela" kunencazelo yesibili - phendulela (misquote) amazwi kothile, umthetho, okushiwo kuthiweni. Busho ukuthini inkulumo ethi kungenzeka umusho - "ujike sibheke phansi", noma ukuphazamiseka ngamabomu.