Ngenhlanhla ungafundisa!

Bonke abantu abafuna injabulo, kodwa hhayi wonke umuntu ungakwazi uzizwe ujabule.
Odokotela bengqondo ebekwe ukuthola ukuthi yini ukunika umuntu nomuzwa wenjabulo futhi kungani abanye abantu bajabula ngempela futhi anelisiwe ezimpilweni zabo, kanti abanye abanalo.
Okusanda ishicilelwe e-United States ngemiphumela yocwaningo ngokwengqondo olwenziwa eminyakeni yamuva emazweni ahlukahlukene, baye bavumela ukukhomba izici ejwayelekile ye indoda ejabulayo.
Okokuqala, njengoba odokotela bengqondo wathola nabajabulayo ababuzwa kusuka ukuzibona ngiyisiphukuphuku. Abanaso ukuziqhathanisa nabanye. Okwesibili, ngaso sonke isikhathi sincike ngokwakho, ungalokothi ucabange ukuthi ubhekene umthwalo kwabanye, futhi ungaziboni isizathu ukwehluleka kwabo amabutho angaphandle. Okwesithathu, abantu bajabule njalo ikusasa nge opimizmom. Ngakho, abantu bajabule bavame ukuba psycho yabo kuyinto extrovert. It akanawo simbe umkhuba yena nalokho okwamehlela, yonke inzalo yakhe siqondiswe emhlabeni ngaphandle ukuthi ayibukeki kuye ukuba nobutha.
Kanti njengoba kuphawuliwe ngodokotela, injabulo ayixhomekile ezimweni zangaphandle: abantu Happy atholakala phakathi ocebile, abacebile nabampofu. Injabulo ozelwe indoda, futhi uma kungaqali, bese ezinye izimo ezingaphandle azisho Ngeke kusize.
ososayensi owaziwayo nomunye engavamile: kuvela, ebuchosheni wonkhe umuntfu kukhona indawo egunyazwe ubumnandi. Kwesokunxele handers itholakala ngenhla ishiya right futhi kwesokudla handers - esalayo. Ingabe abantu bajabule kukhulile umsebenzi zone, ngisho nalapho esesimweni ezolile. Kodwa kulabo usizi, lo msebenzi zone alanele.
Odokotela bengqondo inhlolo-vo: banikela iqembu labantu abanale aktvnost izindawo enganele zobuchopho obhekene injabulo, ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile.
Ukuze wenze lokhu, kwakudingeka enze imisebenzi, inkanuko ndawo. Ngokwesibonelo, bafeza umsebenzi okhethekile ezaba nomthelela ukukhiqizwa endorphins - amahomoni injabulo, okungenani angu-10 ngosuku, smiling, ebuka yena esibukweni coaching ngakho "imisipha ojabulayo ', sachitha isikhathi esiningi esimweni zokuzilibazisa noma isenzo imidlalo ekilasini ibhizinisi ozithandayo futhi ukufunda nemidanso lisebenza. Ngenxa yalokhu ukuqeqeshwa ubunjalo umsebenzi wabo ubuchopho kwakushintsha kakhulu: ijika "inhlanhla umsebenzi" Ukhuphukele kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mphumela iyagcinwa futhi ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha. Ngakho, abacwaningi baphetha ngokuthi, noma ubani angaba ukuthuthukisa ikhono ukuze ngijabule. Vele ungalindi injabulo, futhi silitadishe samanje.