Kuyatholakala ku obuseduze: lokho ananizm

Ukujabulela ubuhlobo bobulili akuyona kudala ephumile entanyeni "esenqatshelwe 'baba umphakathi khulula lesizinda post-Soviet. Nakuba kakhudlwana futhi manje welithi "zokuziphatha", "umbono wokuziphatha okuhle 'futhi iSonto eziphambene ukugcwaliseka lilungelo lesintfu lekutfola ukwanelisa izidingo zabo zemvelo. Futhi ukuthi uzothini, isibonelo, ngezenzakalo eminyakeni lengemashumi lasihlanu leyengca! Ikakhulukazi banemizwa engqubuzanayo ke indlwabu.

Ithemu nomlando

Kuyini ananizm manje uyazi zonke ingane, noma ngaphandle kokusebenzisa igama izwi esebenzayo. Lokhu indlwabu, ngokobulili self-ukuzanelisa ngu ukucasuka we umthondo. Lokhu kungenziwa izandla zombili, futhi izinto ezikhethekile ezifana nobulili amathoyizi noma mbumbulu. Indlwabu ndoda kungaletha wake ngokugcwele ngokwakho orgasm, noma eduze lokho. Ngokuvamile zisebenzisa indlwabu njengengxenye ubulili ukudlala imibhangqwana athandana nabesifazane noma bobulili obufanayo.

On umbuzo yini ananizm nalokho luba nomthelela emzimbeni womuntu, odokotela abazange ubuye. The mpikiswano mayelana izingozi nasezingosini nezinzuzo bengayeki kuze kube yilolu suku. Iningi Izibuyekezo kwatholakala ukuthi azinaso. nokuziphatha zomphakathi kanye neBandla indlwabu wakulahla. Ukushaya indlwabu neyaziwayo ziyingozi kakhulu, lomkhuba eyihlazo, imbangela kwempilo yengqondo ngisho nokuvusa induku esikhathini esizayo. Ngakho-ke, lokho ananizm, intsha asifunda nomunye, ngoba ukubhekana iminyaka engaba ngu-10 kamuva. ngokuvamile Lokhu kwenzeka ngo ukuthomba, lapho umzimba inqubo esebenzayo i-hormone senzo. Ukungakwazi anelise isifiso ezikhulayo nganoma iyiphi enye indlela, abafana namantombazane wahlanganyela self-ukwaneliseka. Okunjalo ithuba kabusha inkanuko wezokwelapha wesimanje neyaziwayo hhayi kuphela kungenzeka, kodwa kudingekile futhi omuhle. Ukungaqondi ukuthi indlwabu futhi iyini indima yalo ekuthuthukiseni begazi umzimba, kungaholela neurosis, ukucindezeleka, ukubukeleka phansi izakhiwo, ukwehluleka ngokobulili. Self-ukuzanelisa - wawubonakalisa ngokuphelele zemvelo womsebenzi hormone, enempilo ngokuya izitho zomzimba kanye psychology.

ngezigaba

Enye intuthuko yombuzo lokho ananizm. Ukushaya indlwabu kwezokwelapha ihlukaniswe izigaba eziningana - ngobulili nobudala. It ananizm ingane, ingane, intsha engamahlongandlebe kanye omdala. Ngokuvamile izingane okungahleliwe, ngaquleka. Ngekuva, ngokukhethekile, ukuze bathole injabulo ziqala abafana samoudovletvoryaetsya namantombazane kuba nenkathi yokuqhuma kobusha. Lokhu kubanika ithuba uthole ukuthi umzimba wakho umi, ukuqonda izidingo zabo futhi izindlela ukuba babahlangabeze. Ngakho, indlwabu iba ingxenye imfundo yocansi futhi imfundo sex. Yiqiniso, ingane, kuyinto efiselekayo ubambe engcocweni lemayelana nesihloko olubucayi kangaka ukulandela imithetho kwenhlanzeko, ngakho yezimo abhekene ephakanyiswe yakhe ungacabangi uma unesifo. Ngokuphathelene ubulili, kuba ananizm angawodwa kwabesifazane nabesilisa. Abadala ababenzayo ngokuvamile lokho kwanele. Lokhu kwenzeka uma abesilisa nabesifazane akudingeki abangaki azibandakanya nabo kwezocansi ejwayelekile noma ehlukahlukene nemizwa yabo yobulili.

nebubi

Yebo, ngoba sonke unethemba yayo wokushaya indlwabu kungenza ngezinye izikhathi ukuletha umonakalo. Okuningi ngokunembile, hhayi yena, kodwa ukuhlukunyezwa self-ukuzanelisa. sore abahlukahlukene wagcoba, isikhumba ukucasuka kuze kube ukungakwazi ngobulili obuvamile - lawa ngemiphumela ngokweqile ngokobulili. Kuzo zonke izinto, kuhlanganise indlwabu, kufanele kube ngesilinganiso.