Ingabe zonke ukwazi ukuqabulana?

Nakuba ukuqabulana ngokuvamile esizicabangelayo njengezaba amazwi othando e nothile, ukucwaninga kwesayensi kuye kwehluleka wembula imisebenzi ebaluleke kakhudlwana Wamanga. Abanye ososayensi bathi ukuqabulana uvumele abantu ukuhlola abalingani ezingase zivele, kokubili ezingeni imizwelo engokwemvelo sibamba umoya ukuhlaziywa, ngamathe, isikhumba ukuthungwa. Okunye ukuhlola kubonisa ukuthi kissing ukwandisa ezingeni excitation, okungaveza ocansini. Futhi, kunenkolelo yokuthi ngokwanga kungathinta umqondo okunamathiselwe, ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka, ukwandisa ukuzethemba kanye ukwaneliseka ekuphileni.

Ukutadisha angiqabule imisebenzi

Ososayensi uthande ukuba nixazulule, ngakho ukufunda indima ukuqabula ukuphila komuntu, asondela kahle: kwakuhileleke iqembu lamadoda 308 nabesifazane 594 abaneminyaka engu-18 kuya 63. Abahlanganyeli ugcwalise uhlu lwemibuzo, waphendula uchungechunge lwemibuzo mayelana nendlela kiss kuthinte imizwa, izenzo ezimweni ezahlukene, futhi wenza isikali ekuhloleni izinga ubuhlobo naye.

Njengengxenye abahlanganyeli inhlolovo nge wezengqondo ukunquma sotsioanaliticheskoy yabo orientation. A lot of ukunakwa ikhokhelwa elingakanani abantu bakhetha ngezikhathi ezithile yesikhathi esifushane izibopho uma ziqhathaniswa sekukudala (isib, uchatniki ukuphendula lo mbuzo, "bangaki abalingani ezahlukene uke beba nobuhlobo bobulili kanye kuphela?"). Ekugcineni, amalungu aleli qembu ngamunye alinganiswa ngayo ezingeni yabo self-sikhalo ngokuphendula imibuzo emibili elandelayo: "Ucabanga ukuthi abanye abantu ukukala elikhangayo sakho somzimba" futhi "Ucabanga ukuthi abanye abantu bacabanga wena sexy (ngokocansi)?".

Kisses ukuhlola ukubaluleka uzakwethu

Abacwaningi bathola amanye amaqiniso athakazelisayo: abantu abazibheka abe muhle, ngaphezu kothando kiss, kunalabo abangakwenzi ukuzenyeza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abahlanganyeli uyazethemba waphendula ukuthi ukukhangwa kwabo indoda kungenzeka ukushintsha emva kiss lokuqala, ngenkathi amalungu diffident leqembu Akazange ababheke njengezinto kubalulekile.

Lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi unguye azethembe ngokweqile, ngaphezulu ngokukhetha osebenza kwabanye, lapho kuziwa ekukhetheni umlingani. Kulokhu, umsebenzi esebanga ukuhlolwa umlingani.

ukuxhumana angiqabule

Abacwaningi baye bathola ukuthi mkhulu ukuvama beqabulana ubuhlobo seyixhunyaniswe izinga lobudlelwane, nokuthi fanele lingani ukuthi abahlanganyeli zihlele ukuzijabulisa okunempilo namanye "ezinhle" ngokwanga, kunqunywa omuhle ngakuyo.

Abacwaningi baye bathola ukuthi labo abahlanganyeli abanentshisekelo sekukudala aba nomuzwa wokuthi angiqabule ibalulekile ngaphambi, phakathi nangemva ubulili, kuyilapho labo ababengawazi begxile kakhulu zokuxhumana yesikhashana, isikhala zibekelwe ngokwanga ikakhulukazi ngaphambi kocansi. Abalobi wahumusha leli njengobufakazi bokuthi uthando hypothesis. Ikakhulukazi, kubonakala sengathi angiqabule azisetshenziswa kuphela ukushayela, kodwa vumela bona abatjhadi babe nesikhathi esihle nokuqinisa ubuhlobo.

Ukuqabula unesibopho ukuqhanyelwa futhi ubulili ekuseni

Ngokumangalisayo, besafunda, abacwaningi iyakuphikisa umbono ka excitation ngoba labo kuphela ababefuna ubudlelwano yesikhashana, zenani kiss nje ngaphambi kocansi. Abahlanganyeli abanentshisekelo sekukudala aba nomuzwa wokuthi angiqabule ibalulekile futhi ngezinye izikhathi. Ngakho, umsebenzi ngokwanga akugcini ngokobulili abalingani excitation.

isiphetho

Sekukonke, imiphumela yalolu cwaningo abonisa ukuthi kiss sisebenta tinhloso letimbili letibalulekile main: ukuhlola abalingani amathuba amaningi, futhi ukuxhumana phakathi kwazo. Ngakho-ke, ngokwanga - ingaphezu inkulumo ethi ngokomzimba ngenxa yothando umlingani wakho.