Kungani ubuso bushisa?

Akekho omangazayo lapho umuntu eqala ukushisa lapho ecasulwa noma ehlazekile, emva kokugijima kahle noma ngokucindezela okukhulu. Kodwa uma lokhu kwenzeka "endaweni ephephile," kuba yinto enolwazi: njengokuthi uzizwa uhle, akenzanga lutho, alukhathazi, futhi umuntu "uvutha" ukuze ufuna ukubeka ikhanda lakho emgodini wamanzi abandayo. Futhi enye incazelo, ngaphandle kokuthi "othile ukhumbule izwi elithule ngomusa", alikhumbuli. Cishe, mhlawumbe kunjalo, ngoba izimpawu azitholakali nje, ngokuqinisekile kukhona uhlobo oluthile lobuhlobo obungabonakali nolungaqondakali phakathi kwabo nezenzakalo ezenzeka kithi. Akusilo yini lokho, ngenxa yesizathu esicacile, esidibanise isandla sakhe sokunene, nangosuku olulandelayo unayo imali engalindelekile? Noma, ngokuzumayo ukuqala ukuhamba, wena, perebiraya ezinhliziyweni zabo bonke abakwazi ukukukhumbula, kungazelelwe bavele ngokushesha lapho "baqagela" umcabangi? Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi uma othile evuthayo, othile ukhuluma nawe.

Futhi-ke, kuba mnandi kakhulu, ngubani futhi ngenhloso yanquma "ukugeza amathambo akho"? Kuningi lokuhumusha, kungani lo muntu evele "wabamba umlilo" ngokuzumayo. Lapha, isibonelo, omunye wabo: uma ubuso bubutha ngoMsombuluko - lokhu kungukuzijwayeza; Uma ngoLwesibili - kuzoba nengxabano; NgoLwesithathu - kuze kube usuku; NgoLwesine - lindele inkathazo; NgoLwesihlanu - ukuthanda; NgoMgqibelo - into engalindelekile izokwenzeka; NgeSonto - futhi ukuthanda. Iqiniso noma cha, ungahlala uhlola, into esemqoka ukulinda kuze izihlathi zakho ziqale ukushisa.

Kodwa incazelo eningiliziwe yalokho ubuso obushisayo. Ngakho-ke, uma lokhu kwenzeka ku:

UMsombuluko wukuhlupheka. Uma kushisa ekuseni - ngenxa yakho insizwa ihlupheka; Ntambama - intombazane noma intombi; Kusihlwa - izihlobo noma abantu abaseduze; Ebusuku - kuzodingeka uhlupheke;

- NgoLwesibili - ukuzwelana. Baqala "ukuvutha" ekuseni - okusho ukuthi, bathande othile osondelene; Ntambama - bathande indoda ongazi; Kusihlwa - awuthandi umuntu ongekho esimnandi; Ebusuku - into ethile yamangala kakhulu iziphathimandla;

- NgoLwesithathu - emhlanganweni nomunye umuntu. Uma lo muntu esesemlilweni ekuseni - mhlawumbe uzohlangana nomuntu osebenza nabo noma ofunde naye esikoleni, ofunda naye esikoleni; Ntambama - ulindele umhlangano nomuntu othakazelisayo; Kusihlwa - owaziwayo omdala uyozenza uzizwe; Ebusuku - nalabo oye wathanda ukuhlangabezana nabo isikhathi eside;

- NgoLwesine - lindela ukumangala okumnandi. "Siye sabamba umlilo" kusukela ekuseni - kuyoba khona isimanga emsebenzini noma esifundweni; Ntambama - abangani bazozama; Kusihlwa - kukhona into ejabulisayo ebuhlotsheni nomuntu engangihlangana naye muva nje; Ebusuku - ingxabano izoxazululwa ngendlela engcono kakhulu;

- ngoLwesihlanu - linda ukubonakaliswa komhawu. Umuntu uvutha ekuseni - lowo okulindeleke kakhulu kuwe uzoba nomona ngawe; Emini - uzoba nomhawu ngomuntu oyithandayo; Kusihlwa, umhawu wakho kumngane wakho uzophinde uvele; Ebusuku othandekayo wakho uhawukele;

- NgoMgqibelo - othile akakhulumi kahle nawe. Uma ushisa ekuseni - ozakwabo bakho bakhuluma kabi ngawe; Ntambama - intombi; Kusihlwa - abantu abasha; Ebusuku - abantu abangajwayele ukuhleka ngawe;

- NgeSonto - udunyiswa. Uma lolo suku ubuso bushisa ekuseni - abangane bakho bakhuluma ngokukhululekile ngomusa; Uma ntambama - othandekayo wakho akazithokozi ngawe; Uma kusihlwa - abaphathi bakho banikeza umbono omuhle; Ebusuku - abantu abangajwayelekile nabo banquma ukukudumisa ngokungabikho.

Yikholelwa noma cha - kungcono kuwe. Bathi futhi ungabheka ukuthi ukhunjulwe kahle noma kabi, ngosizo lwendandatho yegolide noma ezinye izinto zokugqoka ezenziwe ngale nsimbi. Ukwenza lokhu, kudingeka nje ubambe indandatho esihlathini bese ubona ukuthi kukhona umdwebo kuwo, futhi uma uhlala, ngabe umbala onjani. Uma kungumnyama, kungakalungi ukukhuluma ngawe, uma kukhanya kuhle. Kodwa, ngokusebenzisa le ndlela yokuqinisekisa, kuyadingeka ukuthi ubuso abukona izimonyo (isisekelo, i- powder). Kukholelwa ukuthi uma kukhona i-streak emnyama esihlathini, kungase kusho ukuthi u-jinxed.