Kanjani ukuqala ingxoxo nentombazane - ukuzethemba kuzosiza!

Njengoba kungase kube nzima ngezinye izikhathi ukuze uqale ingxoxo nanoma ubani, ikakhulukazi uma lokhu "othile" - intombazane uthanda ngempela. Indlela basondele, kanjani ukuqala ingxoxo nentombazane, yini okufanele uyisho nokuthi yini okungafanele ukubheka lokhu kuyaxaka? Indlela ukukhetha isikhathi esifanele, lapho nje kwase kubonakala uzobe elise ingxoxo, futhi ngeke uhambe nje ukuhlolwa kuhlulekile mathematics ephakeme?

Kuningi imibuzo engapheli yabezindaba nokwesaba ukuthi izinto zizohamba okungalungile, njengoba singathanda - bekafuna ukuhleka ebusweni bakhe futhi wacela ukuya kubo bonke ikheli ezaziwayo.

Ungethuki, lena akuyona babi. Umthetho main, okuyinto eyokusiza ukuba uziqonde ungayiqala kanjani ingxoxo nentombazane - kungcono ukuzethemba, amazwi abo, kunyakata kwemtimba Gait.

Omunye Ungacabanga ukuthi phambi kwakho akuyona into ukububula, futhi nje umngane wakho nabo ungakhuluma nganoma isiphi isihloko futhi nixoxe iyiphi inkinga. Awuyi kuphazamise like iqabunga, ngokubuza umngane? Nalapha futhi ngendlela efanayo. Badinga kuphela oyi-ukhetha isihloko ehloniphekile noma umbuzo ofanelekayo, mhlawumbe othile ukuthi uthola "isisulu" singalindele. imibuzo banal like "kanjani ufika lokho?" Noma "Uphi yokubhaka?" Musa ukulingana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akusikho yokuqala, kanjalo kuwubuwula. Umthola ongayimelele zikanokusho akusho alinake wena. Sidilike ku izincomo banal futhi ngisisho ngekhanda off omunye-liner, efana "Ntombazane, ungenalo izibuko extra, ngoba kukhanye ukuze dazzles kimi?!" Akulona kunomvuzo, azibheka njengezibaluleke ke model ukuthi nonke pop.

Kungcono sizakhele ukuba babanikele emandla awo enkambweni elinokuthula. Hlala wena, futhi ungazami umxhwele. Uma une abangane abafana ngazo, ungakwazi ukuthola ukuthi yini umuntu othakazelayo okuthandayo, lapho uya futhi yini yena uthanda. Mhlawumbe ehamba nge inja enkundleni, khona-ke Uqasha umngane zemilenze emine umakhelwane, ungajoyina ke. Sekuvele kukhona ingxoxo lokuqala ne intombazane ukuthi ziqalise ngokwalo. Ngingakwazi yini lokho amavithamini inikeza isilwane sakho, noma ukukhuluma mayelana ukuqeqeshwa nezindlela zayo. Kodwa ngeke wazi, ungathola izindikimba ezivamile izilwane? Main, funda umhlahlandlela kusengaphambili izinja ukuthi musa ngifane "igedlela."

Uma usebenzisa, futhi udlulisa mncintiswano, ungakwazi nje ukuhamba kuze intombazane futhi umbuze ngomcimbi. Nje angitshele ukuthi ungathanda ukubona naye lapho. Nquma, yebo, wayeshaye phansi.

Izindlela uqale ingxoxo nentombazane futhi ezihlukahlukene enkulu isethi efanayo, ungacabanga. Ungakwazi ukuxoxisana ngisho ne zokuzithandela imali, izinto namathoyizi izingane dengwane futhi umumeme emuva babe negalelo futhi ukumema nezintombi ukubonisa isihe.

Uma ubhekene bemangele ukuthi ungayiqala kanjani ingxoxo nentombazane, khumbula nje ukuthi abantu abavamile ongeyena alien imizwa efana yokwesaba, injabulo, okuhlangenwe nakho. Nje ube nguwena, bonisa ngobuqotho, ukuzethemba futhi ubonise amandla abo. Khumbula nje ukuthi yonke into kufanele ibe ngokulinganisela, i-ukuchwensa. Ukuziphatha okuxekethile futhi Swagger okwamanje akukho intombazane umuntu bangezi, okungenani emhlanganweni wokuqala futhi ingxoxo.

Ingxoxo kumele kwenzeke isiqondiso esihle, musa ukukhuluma into edabukisayo noma uvalo. Musa futhi baqeda iinhloko ezombusazwe, ukuphela kwezwe, khona GMO e ukudla, izilwane ngokubulala, zezingane ezilahliwe nokunye. Konke lokhu akukho okuhle ngeke. Le ntombazane ngeke ucabange ukuthi wena pessimist kuphela ubone izinto ezimbi kunokuba iqhwa lokuqala esithambile noma amahlamvu nje ukuqhakaza phezu kwezihlahla.

Kufinyeta, singasho ukuthi nje siqiniseka nokubhekelela inhlala kahle umgomo walo yomuntu, bazwisise ngokunembile futhi uzizwe ukuthi ungayiqala kanjani ingxoxo nentombazane futhi yini isiteshi phambili. Ungesabi futhi zonke uthola uma bakholelwa ngokuqinile empumelelweni!