Kanjani ukufunda ukukhuluma kahle?

Kanjani ukufunda ukukhuluma kahle? Lo magazini emhlabeni namuhla ithatha abantu abaningi. Phela, ngezinye izikhathi lokuqephuza ngokuphumelela kwenkonzo yakhe, umphumela izingxoxo, umhlangano nabo ebhizinisini, ngisho nokuxoxa nomuntu umthengisi wesifazane esitolo esiseduze. Khuluma kahle - kuyikhono, ngakho-ke kungenzeka ngempela ukuze ufunde. Okubaluleke kakhulu, abe nesifiso esikhulu futhi ufisa ukuba amazwi akho loluhhungako, ukufunda nokubala ngempumelelo.

Uma okungenani kanye izawulalelwa izinkulumo sezombusazwe abadumile noma ubuciko isishoshovu, ke kungokwemvelo ukuthi unombuzo, ukukhuluma ngendlela efanele futhi kahle. Ngezinye izikhathi abantu, ikakhulukazi lezo ezingase asakazwa kumabonakude, elithakazelisayo ngempela: befaka emagama nemisho amaphethini eziwubukhazikhazi, ezinomthelela izingqondo zezilaleli. Futhi singakusebenzisa kanjani ukuchaza leli phuzu, lapho indoda, sakuleli ukubukeka emva kwamaminithi ambalwa inkhulumomphendvulwano yabangela phakathi kwenu, isifiso nje - ngokushesha ngithi goodbye kuye? Iyini imfihlo? Okungukuthi, ikhono ukuqhuba ingxoxo ngendlela efanele. Inkinga iwukuthi ngezinye izikhathi abantu ngempela onolwazi futhi enolwazi, nje abakwazi Ngembathisa imicabango yakhe ngesimo amazwi. Kodwa akufanele silahle ithemba, impendulo yombuzo othi, indlela ukufunda ukukhuluma kahle akuyona ukuzamukela.

Ngokwabacwaningi eziningi, abalaleli bazimisele kakhulu ukuba alalele labo babe enephimbo elibhodlayo. Ngakho-ke, abantu abangekho "lucky" wayeyozalelwaphi abanikazi Squeaky, ithoni okusezingeni eliphezulu, kuyafaneleka kokuchitha izinyanga ezimbalwa ukuqeqeshwa. Konke lokhu kungenxa fixable, ungazama ukulingisa abanye osaziwayo abanokuhlangenwe enephimbo elibhodlayo. Kufanele, kanye uhlamvu ekhethiwe ukucula, inkulumo, futhi imiphumela kuyokushiya umangele mayelana kwezinyanga ezimbalwa.

Ngakho, uma unentshisekelo yokufunda ukuthi ukukhuluma kahle, futhi phezu ngamazwi uke wasebenza, sekuyisikhathi ukwenza nokubhala kanye namasiko yokukhuluma. Inkinga eyinhloko isikhathi sethu - izwi-izimuncagazi. Zonke izinhlobo "dlala", "ngempela," "uh-uh", "kahle", "ngokuvamile", "lena kakhulu" siyivule zonke, ngisho umuntu ofundile kakhulu okwakwenzeka. Akekho umuntu ofuna ukuba simlalele futhi ulalele okuqukethwe lokho akusho. Sidinga ukuba azame ukukhuluma iziphakamiso ahlobene, kunokuba amazwi olulodwa. Abantu abaningi abafuna ngokukhuthazela umsebenzi kuyadingeka ukuxhumana okuningi, ungalokothi uzizwe ungakhululekile ingxoxo, bakwazi ukusekela noma yisiphi isihloko, ezolile ngokuphelele hhayi sezinzwa. Uma ungenayo i-ithuba ukuzijayeza ekuxhumaneni bukhoma, kubalulekile ukuqala ekhaya ukusebenzisa. Zama nsuku zonke, ngaphandle kokuzilungiselela ukuxoxa kuveza bakhe esibukweni. Nakani khona enkulumweni yakho izwi-izimuncagazi. Into eyinhloko bashune, uphumule, futhi noma kunjalo hhayi kube novalo.

Uthi ukuba izinkulumo zeningi professional kungaba umuntu ufundile a lot of izincwadi. Uma ungeyena-moya yokufunda, bese, kungenzeka athole impumelelo enkulu futhi uqonde ukuthi ukukhuluma kahle, ngeke aphumelele. Phela, encwadini - kungcono indlela omkhulu ukuze ubuyekeze njalo silulumagama. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukufunda kuyinto inhlamvu isigwedlo ukwakha inkulumo kufundza nekubhala. Abazali abafuna izingane zabo ukuletha imiphumela emihle ngoba dictations esikoleni ube kusukela zisencane ukuze sigxilise kuzo uthando lokufunda. Ngaphezu kwalokho, incwadi - kungcono nje inqolobane linemibhikisho etemibhalo amasu ukuthi udinga, unganqikazi ukusebenzisa zokuxhumana kwansuku zonke.

Very ewusizo izipikha esizayo - ukubhala amagama angaziwa kubo, khona-ke ukubona ukubaluleka kwabo. Ungase futhi ukuqopha izwi lakho bese ulalele izwi lakhe ngendlela kusolakala ngabanye. Lokhu kuyokusiza ukuba ulungise ezinye umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama ezimbi.

Kunoma ikuphi, kusobala ukuthi impendulo yombuzo othi, indlela ukufunda ukukhuluma kahle, ungathola ubani akesabi nobunzima, asesabi wazibekela imigomo futhi ukuyifinyelela.