Ingxabano - yini lokhu?

Phakathi izincazelo eziningi embula ngokwezinga elikhulu noma elincane nomqondo ingxabano, kodwa kufanele ugcizelele ambalwa.

Abanye abalobi ukuchaza lokhu isimo njengoba kubonisa kuwukuphikisana subjective futhi umgomo lapho kuvetwa amaqembu alwayo.

Ngokusho kwezinye izibalo, le mpi - iyona bukhali isinqumo indlela kuthiwa ukuphikisana ezibalulekile, okuyinto akhiwa ngesikhathi yokusabela. Kusekelwe ukuphikisana amaqembu. Njengomthetho, kuhambisana imizwelo engakhi.

Nokho, lezi zincazelo musa kudalulwe ngokuphelele umqondo wegama elithi "ukungqubuzana" futhi "ukubaluleka eziphikisanayo."

Ngokusho YV Rozhdestvensky ukungqubuzana iphathelene isenzo inkulumo. Yasho izigaba ezintathu ukuthuthukiswa ukushikashikeka ngenxa izithakazelo. Eyokuqala, ngokombono wakhe, kukhona ukungaboni ngaso linye, kwesibili - kuwukuphikisana enqubeni yezingxoxo. Isigaba sesithathu - ukungqubuzana - kukuhle isenzo mpi.

Ukuphikisana kunqunywa njengebhokisi lengxoxo (inkulumo isenzo), okuyinto ovezwe kweyesi-izinhlangothi ezahlukene.

Ingxabano - yiliphi ngamazwi emibi, okuyinto ahloselwe ukulimala phesheya ahlukahlukene.

Ingqikithi zalesi simo lokufanele liniketwe schema lomqondo. Lokhu kufanele kufake izici ezine eziyinhloko. Lezi zihlanganisa Dynamics, isakhiwo, kanye nokuphathwa kwemisebenzi.

Ingxabano isakhiwo iqukethe into (isihloko okuphikisanayo), abalingisi (amaqembu, izinhlangano, abantu), izimo, ububanzi (obufanele, global), amaqhinga kanye nesu ukuziphatha kwezinhlangano emiphumeleni.

Noma yimuphi ukungqubuzana kwangempela - kuyinqubo eziyinkimbinkimbi ashukumisayo. Kuhlanganisa izigaba ezilandelayo:

• isimo Injongo (ukwakha izizathu inhloso);
• ukuxhumana (ekuthuthukiseni isimo noma isehlakalo);
• isixazululo esinqunyiwe noma ephelele.

Kuye umlingisi, ukuhlukanisa izimo:

• Injongo (exhumene amaphutha langempela nezinkinga);
• subjective (ngenxa izilinganiso ezahlukene zalabo noma nezinye izenzo kanye nemicimbi).

Kuye imiphumela uzimisele elimazayo (esebenza destructively) takhi (ukuhlinzeka okunengqondo ukuguqulwa) isimo.

Phakathi ngezigaba ekhona izimo ezithile engqubuzanayo kukhona izingxabano wandile kwezinhloso zenzuzo. Lezi zihlanganisa izimo lapho abathintekayo nezindaba ukusabalalisa noma lapho kuphakama ngokumelene ingemuva umbango esiyimpahla.

Ngamanye amazwi, ukungqubuzana kwezinhloso zenzuzo - isimo okwakuhilela izithakazelo abathintekayo (umgomo izinhlelo, izisusa nezifiso, njll), ethubeni lokuba eziphikisanayo noma alihambisani ne nomunye. Lezi zihlanganisa, isibonelo, owakwakhe umehluko phezu izinhlelo for the holiday oluzayo. Lesi simo osebenza ku ukuphikisana. Lapho ukungavumelani isimo iya esigabeni imithombo izingxabano. Lokhu kungenxa ngokuvamile bavele amaqembu ufisa ukuthola omunye futhi umthombo ofanayo, noma enenzuzo kakhulu ingxenye. Kulokhu, nezitha bathambekele ilitshe elilodwa, kodwa ngenxa yezinsiza kungagcini noma ukwehluka, izithakazelo zabo ingxabano nomunye. Izinkinga ezinjalo kaningi zivele ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.

Zonke izenzakalo, imicimbi yomphakathi, umphakathi (amaqembu ezombusazwe, umndeni, njll) kungenziwa kubhekwe kusukela iphuzu ingxabano. Kulokhu, umphumela isimo eziphikisa kungaholela yokungezwani khona futhi kudingeke zilwe, nobunye kanye nobunye babantu. Ngakho, ingxabano nomphakathi - umqondo equkethe emagama ezithile. uhlobo enjalo engqubuzanayo isimo, obonakaliswe ekuqaleni ezakhayo futhi elimazayo, idlala indima ebalulekile ekukhuleni komphakathi.