Indlela ukwenza ukukhetha okufanele futhi wajabula lapho baphume kwangqingetshe engqondo

Kunabantu abangazange netwetwe wesabe lutho ongakhetha kuzo. Lapho phambi kwabo kukhona angaphezu kwelilodwa impendulo yimuphi umbuzo, ngisho noma ulula - ngokwesibonelo, onjani ushizi ukuthenga, "Dutch" noma "Russian", bathola sezinzwa futhi nostalgically khumbula izinsuku kusilela Soviet, lapho impendulo ecishe okubuhlungu kwaba kanje: ". Noma ubani esitolo" Ngokuqinisekile uke ngibabone abantu kule esitolo: ezandleni ezimbili zempahla, ebusweni - ufulawa, futhi umbuzo ifundwa emehlweni indlela yokwenza izinqumo ezinhle? Futhi laba bantu sorry. Hhayi okuningi ngoba ungenza isinqumo esingalungile, kodwa kuphela ngenxa yokuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka benza ukuthenga, asengatholakala aphume esitolo ucasukile ngakho. Ziyakwazi isikhathi eside ngeke ukuziluma ukungabaza ukuthi ukuthenga "Dutch" (noma "Russian") ushizi, bona miscalculated.

Ngezinye izikhathi, kodwa, kunalokho, cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi, kufanele ukhethe phakathi ongakhetha eziningana ngaphezulu imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi kokumane ukuthenga omunye ezimbili zama-ushizi. Futhi kusengozini izinto ezimbi nakakhulu. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho imali? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uvumelane isiphakamiso ukuxhumanisa isiphetho sabo nomunye noma elinye Olwa ngoba isandla futhi inhliziyo? Ingabe ufanelekele lo msebenzi? Noma imisebenzi ephelele ezihilela zonke izandla emsebenzini ukuze anqume ukuthi imiphi imisebenzi ukukwenza nalokho ukunikela? Indlela ukwenza ukukhetha okufanele kulesi simo?

Ake sihlaziye lo mshini okubuhlungu ukucabanga inqubo lapho kudingeka ayeke into, futhi into ukunikeza. Thina, okokuqala kunakho konke, gnawing ukukhathazeka okuthile lapho sizogxila, ekugcineni sizobe ukudanisa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngokucindezela ukuhaha (siqala ngokungazi) ngoba ukhetho lwesibili kubuye ukwamukela, sesivele cabanga "yabo", futhi manje ukuthatha inhliziyo yakho! Thina ngekhanda emthumeni nomona kulabo iinqunto - akuyona inkinga. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, kuba ngemahlahlandlela kusukela ngaphambi kokwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile - kuyinto ejwayelekile. Abantu abeza esitolo, ngokushesha ashaqe izimpahla wamphuthumisa ehhovisi, eqinisweni, ukukhetha akuyona: basuke noma ngokuqinile ukuthi yini bafikelwa, noma bamane balalela ngiyibona lungolomzuzwana, "Ngifuna lokhu."

Kukhona ezinye izindlela esilula eyokusiza ukuthola indlela ukwenza ukukhetha okufanele. Okokuqala - kohlaziyo. Ake ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi sinikele ngokuphila - Abaprofethi (okuphambene nalokho uyobe njalo ithikithi ngokuwina ilotho futhi ngabe wenza ukubheja fortune). Kodwa "ukuthenga ingulube in a xhoxha", futhi, ngeke kukusize ngalutho kuso. Thola zindlela ezivamile kokubili embodiments. Ngokwesibonelo, sinale inketho: ngazimbili ezimbili amabhuzu. Ukwenza engqondweni (ungakwazi ephepheni) ipuleti, lapho amakholomu amabili kuyoba inketho A no khetho B, kodwa amakholomu criteria ezifana: usayizi olungile, umbala nice, isitayela imfashini, kuhlangene nezinye izingxenye isitokwe akhona izingubo, intengo. Beka "umkhaza" Izinketho ze-A no B. Uyini umkhiqizo uthola "imikhaza" ngaphezulu, futhi yamukelwa.

Uma ubhekene naleso ndaba eziyinkimbinkimbi kuka amabhuzu, zama ukuthola ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana ezimbili izinketho ukubala izingozi futhi sikhethe kahle. Unganqikazi ukucela iseluleko kubangane, ukucinga ukwaziswa okwengeziwe kuyi-Internet. Uma une lokubekwa eqhulwini kodaba lokuvulwa emsebenzini, ake ucabange ngakho: lokho yezinkinga umphumela esikhathini esizayo ngabe, ukuthi awazi senze lokhu noma lokhuya umsebenzi? Mhlawumbe ukwehluleka ukuhambisana nalo lezi zimo uzokwenza asihlobene kahle ukuthi unquma ukuthatha?

Enye indlela indlela ukwenza ukukhetha okufanele ukulandela nemizwelo yakho. Hhayi lutho ukuthi isaga sithi: "Nisalele ke". Thatha ikhefu, hamba ukwenza okuthile. Isinqumo ngeke uvuthwe kuwe uqobo. Uma taciturn umuzwa, futhi ekuseni bahlala endaweni stupor, zama ukukhuluma naye. Baphonsa uhlamvu lwemali emoyeni, wasolula ukuthi uma ukhozi - inketho A, kanti uma imisila - B. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele sincike izimpumputhe iconsi zemali. Ngozwelo sihlaziye isimo amandla akho angokomzwelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ohlangothini uhlamvu lwemali wawa. Injabulo? Ucasuke? Lalela ukuthi lelo zwi langaphakathi, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha, uyokwaneliswa.