Njalo ubaba efuna ingane yakhe sikhule abanesibindi kakhulu, ujabule, yonke into eziyibonayo futhi ukhaliphile, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa endabeni yabafana. Kuyinto imfihlo ukuthi obaba abaningi elinde umfana izibulo, ngoba kubhekwa inzuzo enkulu - ukuze beba nendodana yabo yokuqala, umngane wami, ngokuyinhloko lokhu ngokuphathelene nenjongo yokuphila. Nokho, lapho isifiso lokufeza, kudingeka sicabange ngokujulile indlela ukukhulisa indodana noyise, umama, futhi kwaba lula, futhi ingane waziqonda konke on the fly.
isimiso semfundo
Kuqondane ukuthi ingane iqala sikhule avaliwe, yokwenziwa, ingakhulumi, futhi kulesi simo, kufanele ngokushesha ukuthatha isinyathelo. Yiqiniso, kungcono ukuba bangalindi kuze konke kubi kakhulu. Uma kwakwenzeka, kusho ukuthi akekho aqondakale ngokugcwele emkhayeni, kanjani ukukhulisa indodana kuyise. Okokuqala sidinga ukuqonda ukuthi abafana izigaba ezintathu bokuvuthwa, ngamunye ephethe uhlelo ayo zemfundo abakhethiwe. Isigaba sokuqala isikhathi esiqala lapho ngizalwa futhi uyaqhubeka kuze eneminyaka eyisithupha. Ngalesi sikhathi, awudingi ukuba baqonde indlela ukukhulisa indodana kuyise, njengoba ingane kwasekuqaleni kubalulekile unakekele nothando umama. Lapho ingane izothola uthando komama nesisa, kakhulu ngcono. Namanje kule nkathi, akunakwenzeka uma ufundisa indoda, umfana manje akadingi. Kumelwe nakanjani babe oxhumana naye ngokomzwelo nomama wakhe. Yiqiniso, akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi ukukhulisa indodana noyise, kodwa lolu lwazi kuyoba usizo kamuva, kodwa manje kuzosiza ibele, ukunakekela bese uthinta efudumele kunina. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umfana ngangokunokwenzeka sated ngothando, umuzwa wokulondeka nesisa.
Ezinye umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama imfundo ka esigabeni sokuqala
Akekho umuntu okwazi ukuqeda crisis neminyaka emithathu ubudala, ngubani nje kudingeka ukukhuthazela, futhi khona ubaba kuyoba kude engadingekile. Uma ngokuvumelana abezenhlalakahle, amantombazane kudingeka bamukele futhi ukumpotopotoza kancane kakhulu kunalokho abafana, ngakho obaba ungazami uthole ukukhuthazela eqinile umuntu ongakaze ekhala ngesikhathi unyaka owodwa ubudala. Kumane akunakwenzeka, into esemqoka - isineke nokuqonda. Hhayi buzo babe hlobo of ingane ekhulayo, esebenzayo noma, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ezolile kakhulu, uthando lukamama kuyadingeka kuzo zonke Ubumnene. Njengoba for obaba, kule nkathi, kufanele sikhathazeke kabanzi mayelana unina, ukuba amsize ngazo zonke izindlela. Bonisa ukuthi upapa ukukhulisa indodana, ukuba esigabeni ekukhuleni kwengane, okungukuthi yesibili, eneminyaka engu-eminyakeni eyisithupha kuya nane. Ngalesi sikhathi ukunakekelwa kwabakhulelwe ithatha isihlalo emuva, futhi zonke izintambo kwamandla uthatha uyise. Ingane yena ngaphezulu badonsekela uyise, uqala ukubona ukuthi akwenzayo, futhi ufuna ukuthatha ukuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo lonke. Kubalulekile ukukhombisa umfana ngangokunokwenzeka, ukusiza ukuthuthukisa amakhono akhe futhi wandise ulwazi lwabo sphere ezihlukahlukene zokuphila. Ngalesi sikhathi kubalulekile ukubonisa kanjani ukukhulisa kahle indodana uyise futhi iwazi labo umkhuba, ukuze ingane wayazi konke ukuhlakanipha zabesilisa. Kulesi sigaba, lo ubaba uba umeluleki eqondile Thixo lomfana, futhi kuncike kuye kuphela, umuntu onjani iyona ingane phambili.