Incazelo yaleli saga, "useduze endololwaneni, kodwa akusho luma"

izaga Russian idlala indima enkulu ekwakhiweni njengezwe. Kuyinto bakithi babe abadumile ukuhlakanipha okukhulu, ubungqabavu amakhulu nekhono lakhe kuphela ukunqoba ubunzima. Khaya, "useduze endololwaneni, kodwa akusho luma" ukwazi, cishe zonke. It is okuvame ukusetshenziswa ezimweni lapho kudingeka ubonise interlocutor sikhathi lulahlekile.

Uma uzama ukwenza lesi senzo eyinkimbinkimbi maduzane uyaqaphela ukuthi akunakwenzeka. Into ezithakazelisayo kakhulu ukuthi endololwaneni ibonakala okusondelene ngokwanele, kodwa ukuletha emlonyeni wakhe, ngisho bite ngaphezulu kuyinkinga kakhulu. Lesi sihloko wembula nezincazelo ezahlukene le nkulumo ohlakaniphile, baba ezinamaphiko.

Ukungakwazi alungise leso simo

"Indololwane Nigh, kodwa akusho luma" kusho icala lapho isimo esithile livelile futhi kungelona iqiniso. Uma umuntu umemezela ibinzana abadumile, ngakho ngokuvamile bazisola okwakwenzekile, efuna ukuba silungise noma yikuphi yesinqumo sayo, kodwa angeke eze lesi senzo. Ezimweni ezinjengalezi, ngandlela-thile lapho kwenzeka okuthile kuwo wonke umuntu. Futhi lapha into ebaluleke kakhulu - ukufuna indlela hhayi onkom 'idla yodwa. Phela, kunoma isiphi isimo kubalulekile isifundo esihle, ngakho wena uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ngokumelela esizayo.

Khaya "luseduze endololwaneni, kodwa akusho luma" evela ezikhathini zasendulo, lapho abantu wazizwa isimo ukukhungatheka, ukunganeliseki yokuthi zinokuthile engasebenzi. Ngezinye izikhathi silungise isimo esithile esinzima kuba nzima kakhulu, futhi imizamo eyengeziwe ziyadingeka salokhu. Ngamunye wethu kumelwe akhe ngaso sonke isikhathi akhumbule ukuthi noma yinini zokuphila kwakhe ungenza isenzo ngamawala. Kuyinto kudingekile kuphela ukuze bakwazi ngesikhathi ukuze ubone iphutha lakhe futhi kanjani ukukulungisa, akudingekanga ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze uzisole esikhathini esizayo.

I inkohliso of budebuduze okuthile

Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu ecabanga ukuthi abanye umgomo kunomvuzo phambi kwamehlo enu ngqo. Ubona ngokucacile ngokwanele ukuze bakwazi ukuzivocavoca. Kodwa uma siqala cabangela lesi sifiso ezijulile, lokumba imininingwane, kuvela ukuthi bakhululeke ukuqaliswa - lena kahle enkulu. Inani 'luseduze endololwaneni, kodwa akazange ziyoniluma, "sihlehlela emuva iqiniso ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi asikwazi bayawazisa lawo izithiyo nezithiyo kuphakama ezimpilweni zethu. Amaphutha nokuhluleka - lawa izifundo ukuthi kudingeka uhambe.

Okunqoba izithiyo - ngakho waqina futhi ohlakaniphe ngokungenamkhawulo. Ngezinye izikhathi lokho wabonakala lobusedvute kangaka kufinyeleleke ke kubonakala kunzima ukufeza, noma kungenzeki nhlobo, ngakho-ke, bathi, "useduze endololwaneni, kodwa akusho ukuluma." Inani isaga iphindela isikhathi ukuze bakwazi ukuqaphela izimo ezinjalo.

bophezela ubuwula

Ukuze amaphutha human. Kwezinye izinhlelo zokwenziwayo ukuqubuka ke kufanele ukhokhe ukuze uthole ukuphila. Ngezinye izikhathi asiyiqondi yini kamuva uzisola ukuthi ezikhathini ezinzima othile akamsizanga, wenqaba iqhaza, akazange asho lutho hlobo. Uma bethi, "useduze endololwaneni, kodwa akusho luma", njengoba umthetho, zisithinta ngokwabo, amaphutha abo esikhathi esidlule futhi ukwehluleka. Phela, esidlule ayikwazi ukushintshwa, ayikwazi ukulungiswa, kungaba ukwamukela kuphela.

Ukumisa besola wena kwabanye esiqakathekileko kudinga isibukezo esidlule nokuhlaziya ezijulile izinzwa. Ngokuvamile abantu bathini mayelana ngokwabo: "luseduze endololwaneni, kodwa akusho ukuluma." Inani izaga kuleli cala kahle kubo bonkhe: abadala kanye nezingane.

esikhundleni isiphetho

Ngo isiRashiya kukhona izaga eziningi futhi amazwi abonisa ukwazi komphakathi. Bonke ngendlela yabo enhle ngokuphawulekayo, kugcwale injongo ekhethekile. "Indololwane Nigh, kodwa akusho luma" - la mazwi ngokuvamile ngithi enhliziyweni yami, labo abazisola isiqondiso akhethiwe empilweni. Ukuze amaphutha human, ngisho nakakhulu iba yini esikhathini esithile ukuze alungise amaphutha ahlukahlukene yilapho sekwephuze kakhulu. Uma kungenzeka, bonke okudingeka uyenze ngaleso sikhathi. Kamuva, njengoba umthetho, kunezimo ezihlukahlukene ezingase ziphazamise lesifanele okwakwenzekile. Kusukela indoda Kulezo zimo kudinga ukubekezela okukhulu womsebenzi onzima ukuthula.