Yini ukukhetha: ukushiya anakekele ingane noma umsebenzi wokuziphilisa?

Ilungiselela ngumama kwabesifazane njalo abhanqiwe nge ezihlukahlukene ngezinto ezikhathaza okuyinto yena nomyeni wakhe ufuna ukuthola impendulo efanele. umsebenzi abesifazane Professional - esinye salezi zinkinga. Namuhla, abesifazane abaningi babe umsebenzi professional esigcwele futhi ngokuvamile kufanele sisebenze ngezimpelasonto namaholidi. Inkinga inombolo eyodwa iba ngibambe ekunakekeleni ingane.

Isimo kube nzima khona neqiniso lokuthi akuyona yonke abaqashi bazimisele ukunikeza okhulelwe ukunakekelwa unina ikhefu. The best ukuthi uyavuma - ukuhlinzeka womama ikhefu.

Yini ukukhetha owesifazane ushiye anakekele ingane noma umsebenzi wokuziphilisa?

Kuyafaneleka ukweluleka owesifazane ukuba zibuze umbuzo owodwa: "Ngubani idinga ingane yami" Impendulo isobala. Owesifazane sizala izingane bona kuphela. Okunye, ngokuvamile masinyane futhi musa ukuzithethelela (isib, isifiso ukubamba ethandekayo).

Ukuze sikhethe kahle ngoba eminyakeni emithathu ezayo, thina kumelwe acabangele "kochwepheshe" futhi "nebubi" lokunakekela womama.

A akanhlanhlatsi elincane Psychology zentuthuko, ngicabanga, kuzosiza mums eziningi esikhathini esizayo. Kumayelana inkathi eyayinzima kunazo zonke ekuphileni komntwana - the ezisanda kubelethwa kanye ebuntwaneni. Ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila isisekelo ubunjalo ingane. Indlela nasengqondweni ukhululekile uyozizwa ingane kuzothinta ukwakheka zempilo yengqondo ngabanye.

Ngokuxhumana usana ngokomzwelo nge umama umsebenzi oyinhloko. Through ukusungulwa ukuxhumana unina ingane ifunda izwe: Ingabe singazethemba kuye? Kuphela umama angabhekana unikeze ukuzithemba enganeni ukuthuthukiswa isikhala, ukuxhumana nabanye abantu.

Ngaphezu ukusondelana ngokomzwelo, umama Eminyakeni yokuqala emithathu wokuphila, kudala amaphethini kudingekile yokuziphatha, izinhlobo amakhono self-service, uqaphe impilo. Isikhathi echithwa nomama ingane, le kunempilo ingane. Lokhu kuqinisekiswa izibonelo eziningi zokuphila kwansuku zonke.

Asikhumbule nomkhulu bethu, ngubani silangazelela ukuba bancelise. Benefit akuyona kuphela ubisi lwebele, kodwa ubuhlobo obuseduze unina. izingane namuhla ngokuvamile kukhona ibhodlela udla futhi abahlengikazi abafundile. Ngoba omama - umsebenzi kubaluleke kakhulu. Umama ufuna ukuba ingane eziningi amathoyizi, izingubo ezinhle, futhi umntwana - ukuba nomama wakhe.

Angazi nje ukubona ukuthi izingane ezivela emikhayeni enezinkinga bavame ukuya umama ekhaya. Ikhaya ukungcola, izintwala, uchungechunge amasoka ephuzile ingane izinyembezi umama. Umama - ukubaluleka main ingane. Kuyinto thina, abantu abadala, ngokuvamile baphuma kancane kancane simfundise bekwazisa ezahlukene kakhulu - izinto nemali.

Ingane encane ulinde unina ukusebenza. Futhi umama, amaklayenti bahlushwa, amadokhumenti, uboshwe kuze kube sebusuku, uwela embundwini wendlu, asilivumeli ukuba ibe mnene, sokudlala, ukufunda, ageze imvuthu.

Eminyakeni yamuva, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane ngokwethukela okukhulunywa "ukukhungatheka othando komama" njengoba singenye yezimbangela zokukhathazeka anda izingane, nezifo zengqondo, nokungalondeki.

Ngakho, ngakolunye uhlangothi esikalini - isicelo selivu okunakekela ingane, ngakolunye - career.

Lo mntwana uyoba nawe ekuphileni. Futhi umqashi wakho omthandayo ubambe njengoba kungenzeka, isibonelo, aphume ibhizinisi ezinyangeni eziyisithupha. Life lide, yini engenzeka.

Ngezinye izikhathi thina nje kubonakale inhlekelele kungafiki emsebenzini wakhe. Empeleni, lokho kulungile noma kungenzeka kungenzeki. Ukusebenza okuningi, futhi onguchwepheshe omuhle uyohlale funa.

Ngolunye usuku wezwa amazwi kamama owashonelwa yindodana, udla izidakamizwa, mina khumbula phakade: "Ngangisebenza kukho konke ukuphila kwami, ukwenza umsebenzi wokuziphilisa, futhi-ke kwakudingekile ukuba siqhubeke indodana yakhe naye, njengoba ngendondo entanyeni yakhe."

Owesifazane ohlakaniphile ohlakaniphile wokuxosha ithuba lokuba nengane phakathi neminyaka yokuqala yokuphila. Kuyoba sikhethe kahle ngaphambi kokuthi enqabe ushiye anakekele ingane.